Recent interview with dating coach - I want to see if her cost is reasonable.

LordCarnifex · 2022-01-06T21:56:50+00:00

I'd compare that price to what a therapist would charge for the same time investment. You don't have a dating coach problem, you have a therapy problem. Your risk aversion and fear of a woman rejecting the real you is something a licensed professional would be better suited for than a fish claiming to help you catch other fish; that sounds coarse but I am very cynical of most women's ability to guide men through the dating process. It's the same flaw you see when you ask a woman to write down what she's attracted to -- you get idealized answers instead of what really gets her going, so you run the risk of learning how to appeal to your dating coach and not much else.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-01-07T00:48:48+00:00

I’d rather you donate that money to starving kids or something bro, that is crazy

SexCoachShannon · 2022-01-06T22:12:08+00:00

Speaking as a sex coach, that is steep. I'd want to know a bit more about the app and how much communication I can have with the coach through it, how frequently they'll reply, and what specific measurable results they can guarantee.

Screenshots and a resource list would be great. Even pricier therapists usually top out at $500/session, so 3 sessions would be $1500 meaning app access is another $1700. It's gotta be worth it.

helpMeOut9999 · 2022-01-06T21:54:01+00:00

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-Godly · 2022-01-06T22:05:18+00:00

Your coach should be a male

CherryTasteLexi · 2022-01-06T21:57:25+00:00

Hello there. I am happy to hear that you are making steps to to get better and I hope you will get what you need from the sessions. I do believe in coaching but mostly I believe is coming from us, and myself I had struggle with lots of things in my life and the best teacher for me was myself. The healing and braking the patternes and the cycles sits in our power. This is how I learned over time. Like it all starts from you.

You need to pay attentions to what is the patter and when you see it so you don’t get caught in it , you should swipe the energy and change it, so the different of what you doing that brings you in this or that situation.

I hope this is helpful and I make sense, my English it is not the best!

dark_helmt8 · 2022-01-07T00:41:22+00:00

$3200???? Brrrrrrrrrooooooo, that's insane money for 3 meetings. Unless they are the Dating Christ incarnate come down from heaven, ready to bless you with hypnotic powers of seduction, and horse c@ck energy, Id pass. There's nothing you can learn these days from PUA and Dating coaches on youtube, patreon, and books.

Powerful_College_424 · 2022-01-07T02:02:28+00:00

Bro you need a good therapist if you can afford it, $3200 for help on something you have proven for a fact that you can do (have a girlfriend, probably a decent looking one at that) seems kind of redundant. I would just focus on yourself, and not just get an average shit therapist, interview a few and get one that will actually care about you.

IndianRedditor88 · 2022-01-07T00:55:57+00:00

Personal Bias. But hang on.

If you are a male, i guess you would be better off with a dating coach who is a male. I've seen some dating advice by women on YouTube and other places online and honestly some of the things they suggest could out right reject you. Open for corrections though.
Your dating coach should ideally be someone less attractive than you are, this way you can be sure that their success in dating isn't due to their good looks.

wondorous · 2022-01-06T22:47:49+00:00

I've on and off considered a dating coach, but never did b/c they are so steep.

There's one I watch on youtube, Correy Wayne and he seems pretty good, but charges $1k for an hour's phone call. I get it, he wants to make money too and that he has clients that can pay for it. Did you see the movie Hitch a while back, where Will Smith is a dating coach? They are generally there as a service to "help" the wealthy connect. I'm sure they'd like to help the poor man, but if you can charge $1k/hr, wouldn't you?

Anyway, with therapists charging anywhere from $30-$100 for an hour, the $1k seems steep. I did connect with a guy on here once who was working to start his dating coaching service. He was asking for $1k for 10 sessions. I balked at the price back then, but it's actually not that bad comparatively. But he was just stating out and seemed to get petty pushy when I was hesitant about paying that so I declined.

In the end, I think that having a good therapist is most important to get you into a good place mentally. But dating coaches can help to hone specific things to make your mindset about dating better and teach you technique.

daddysgotanew · 2022-01-06T22:59:19+00:00

You’re not doing anything wrong, there’s nothing to change. The correct course of action is to go after women who show interest. When you go after ones that aren’t or shoot out of your league thats when the real pain begins. Learn to be happy with a 4-5 (if you’re a 7 or below this is your league) or stay single

PontusOfMars · 2022-01-07T02:12:00+00:00

Dating coaches and their rackets. I'm surprised she didn't charge $3000 for a single weekend like most coaches do.

If I ever did coaching at that rate, it'd be for no less than 6 months, and would target everything. Fashion, fitness, finances, goals, etc.

You need to ask yourself why are you scared to go for the girl you want. See a therapist as well, as you are already getting laid and they'll be cheaper.

itsthechamp2022 · 2022-01-07T02:26:10+00:00

Artist-in-Residence- · 2022-01-07T02:52:05+00:00

I had a meeting yesterday and she charges $3200 for 3 months. This includes 3 online meetings per month over the course of the 3 months and then unlimited access to an app where we talk through there and make plans, etc.

What a horrible revenue model. It's just a one-off sales and then the client is unlikely to make further purchases

A better revenue model would be a subscription model that charges $150/month then $10K for a destination weekend getaway retreat holiday programme in places like Greece a couple of times a year.

Let's face it, people who use dating coaches will probably never improve nor get better because what they're really looking for is a mentor or a friend to listen to their problems and give them affirmation lol.

Tater_otter · 2022-01-07T04:43:43+00:00

Give yourself small challenges around taking initiative with women you find attractive. Get small wins (by starting small) and build from there.

Shadow__Account · 2022-01-07T08:40:22+00:00

With these kind of expenses I always feel like if you get the results you want, in hindsight the money is nothing and totally worth it. But if you don’t it’s a crazy waste. How do you estimate yourself I mean there is obviously a ton of work let’s say years of active work to do are you willing to do it, are you willing and able to get out of your comfort zone and actually change things ? If your answer is yes and you just want to pay for a faster route I’d say go for it if she is legit. If the answer is no and you are looking for that magic pull shortcut, I think you need to first really get a good perspective on your problem and how big it is and where and what kind of guy you want to become and how much effort that will take

Dizzy_Paramedic6216 · 2022-01-07T09:08:34+00:00

Dating coach won’t help with your insecurity and anxiety and fears. These are problems that maybe a therapist can’t help also. But you can help yourself by understanding the fear is irrational and by not acting you automatically losing and by trying you might lose some and might win some.

Dating coach sounds like a good scam business .

Candid_Low_926 · 2022-01-07T16:32:03+00:00

You’re welcome to contact me to discuss online therapy at reasonable rates.

Title	Recent interview with dating coach - I want to see if her cost is reasonable.
Author	helpMeOut9999
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Date	January 6, 2022 9:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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