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[–]Keezymac34 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
How about dates? Not trying to sound judgemental i just wanna know a standard i measure my results aganist cause i somtimes wonder if this is the thing to do for dates.
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
This definitely needs to be cleared out!! So hear me out to further help you!
Being a total beginner AT THE START I didn't follow up on dates that MAYBE could've been! For being timid/prideful on the validation of a POSSIBLE date
So the WORHTWHILE MENTIONS. 1)The 1st one was a date with a girl who pretty much had changed the plans and I went along with it at her convenience. No surprise looking back this was the WORST date I ever had. Id rather have been home! Girls like that only want to be entertained with no interest in you. Don't deal with these. Those are the signs!! Therefore I DONT count that as a date!! She just wasted my time
2)I didn't go to this OTHER date, because she had to travel and told me to hit her up after a month. I did text then, and it seemed like she did want to meet, asking me what time,when and where... I didnt follow up however... So who knows if that could've been a date. Therefor i don't count it since it didn't happen!
3)Then I had this OTHER date that I told her to meet me up later that night for a drink. I got her number. She had agreed and gave me a real number. I texted her something stupid because I didn't want to go due to me not being from that area. She replied kinda disappointed... So who knows if that could've been a date
Other than those "COULDVE BEEN." So you be the judge!
**** I had 4 solid dates apart from all that mess! I'm currently texting one right now for a possible 5th date... but I wouldn't say it's a 5th until I see her in person!! That's how it works! So I'll have to update this answer IF IT HAPPENS
5th possible (screenshot) as I type: ibb.co/SRBGhkY
[–]SDdude81 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just to confirm, you approached 408 girls and got 5 date?
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
VERY IMPORTANT: So seeing how I didn't push for dates at the beginning as I mentioned... All those 70 numbers arent for the 4 dates!
I know that I messed up so I started a new entry of information; pushing all numbers into dates no excuses!
So it became 44 numbers for 4 dates!!
The 70 numbers only concludes how many approaches to expect for a number and how many reply! On that aspect it's accurate! But not on dates
For the dates; refer to 44 numbers and 4 dates for accuracy. Where i stopped being scared to meet up with them
So who knows how many dates I could've gotten off those remaining 26 numbers(70 total) had I NOT been scared to meet up Sorry I failed you guys there
[–]MOProG2 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've heard that it's better to set up date ASAP (even same day) to keep the energy fresh...but if you're busy don't go out of your way. But salute to you. You've inspired me to do something similar very this coming weekend...
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh im always quick for that reason. I hit them up 10minutes after we met(no texting). Next day, set up plans for "tomorrow" straight forward and to the point(no texting). Girls who just want to text, i found, just are wasting my time
All my dates happened in 4 total messages. The ones who just wanted to text, NEVER MET UP
Goodluck
[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
isn't all girls just want to be entertained with no real interest in us?...
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Only that date sucked!! Because i fell for her changing the plans on me at her convenience and didn't care about my set up!! I don't count it as a date since I should've avoided the signs! In a way, it was my fault. For letting it happen!
The other dates were amazing tho!! They all liked me, made out with those 3/4 I had! 75% not bad
[–]thiswaytoalltheporn 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well yeah. At first. Same for guys. A person's favorite subject is themselves.
Call it love, infatuation, attachment, dependence, whatever... but it all starts with 2 people who want something that they don't have and later, if it works, have something they don't want to lose.
It only seems savage until you realize you're the same imo.
[–]bluebird-123 102 points103 points104 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
OMG YES LOOK AT U GO ✨
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Thank you brother. I'm not special and i don't want to be. Just a regular guy. Anyone can do it
[–]wagsyman 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Eh I guarantee you most people here are not doing this, I'm not, take some credit dude, shit takes mucho cajones as well as dedication to keep doing it.
[–]Importantsaying1202 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You won sperm race
[–]drfeelsgoood 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks dad
[–]thiswaytoalltheporn 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imma be that guy: this isn't true... something like #150 gets in lmao.
[–]boy295 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Good shit yo. I can 2-6 numbers a week from 20 or so approaches but rarely dates. Any tips? Conversation is good, just think the girl isn’t that down. Not a lot of solid numbers
[–]EstablishmentLimp477 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Location matters a lot make sure your at the right location so if thats a bar make sure it's a bar that carries a lot of people similar to you. Example 70s dance club that has a lot of 40s - 50s year olds is not a great spot for me, Age gap not a lot in common etc. But in the new hip hop club down the street success rates sky rock people my same age into the music I like, no age gap problems etc. apply this logic to city, activities hell even countries.
My other piece of advice is pick up is a probability game not just raw numbers. So do what you can to up the probability of success that you can control. Social skills "biggest part because pick up is skill set of advance social skills", How you dress, location, avenue etc.
Once you maximize your own probability, know your priority. From the sound of your post, you got the basics down. Now is to learn how to properly approach. Key to this is body language, once you can read it you will know who's into or not. For example I might do 20 approaches a night but all of them are 2 -3 minutes max. Because I can spot who is attracted to me from the jump or who is not. Then I prioritize the one who is into me. Build a real report and banter 20 - 25-minutes conversation built up on the attraction. Then get the number and 80% of the work is done. Set up the date for a day or two from the time you got the number, soon as possible 2 days from getting the number if not sooner.
hope this helped you u/boy295 :)
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very much appreciated brother. Definitely helps. Very logical! That is advance game and that's the only way to get better after beginner phase. Thanks, wish you the best in life
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's actually good. It's similar to me, probably better!! I don't think you're doing anything wrong at all. I suspect it takes 12 numbers just to get a date according to my dates! I'm trying to get more information still. But I'm almost sure it's a probability game and the number is at average 12 needing for a date. I don't think you're doing anything wrong bro
[–]boy295 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I went about 3 months without a first date, in those 2.5 months (10) weeks I had ~30 numbers, 4 of girls I made out with a clubs but didn’t seal the deal to give ya context. I was traveling, had family and friends visiting during that time so wasn’t always free to go out of dates that 3 month stretch but still. Thank you
[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
That's some high success rate.
I'm at 68 approaches, 2 numbers, 1 date over the course of 4 months
The last 3-5 approaches were pretty harsh, and I've taken my sarging time to be self-reflective time
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
That's unusual that you've had 68 approaches and only 2 numbers. Given by what I posted. You should've at least have, 12 numbers with 6 replying. I explained exactly what I did so maybe check there if you need help. I'm a firm believer that you should've gotten the same, if not better! It crushes me to hear this!
But I'm happy for your date! I was getting a date about once a month when I did this sarge stuff consistently!
I'm sorry that our numbers differ brother. I don't get it!! I'm sad😥
[–]Automatic_Beautiful9 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My overall rate is 1/4. However whenever I ask white girls it's like 1/10. Asian and brown is like 50%
[–]thiswaytoalltheporn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sorry it's like that for you man.
Asians want none of me and black girls either literally chase me (wtf do you do in this situation?) or try the shit out of me and we're suddenly fighting?
I say that just to add some context for saying; I believe the communication styles are different on average. I'm whiter than most and act like it in public so that's how I'm seen. If you play with your presentation, things change a lot with little regard for race... you just better be ready.
[–]Automatic_Beautiful9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't wanna act differently just to attract girls lol. Obviously if I can talk better and be more confident I will have better results in all race.
I think I dress okay, but if I try more I will get better results, but I'm not into fashion that much so it takes effort.
The general consensus is Asians dress more fashionable than westerns, my mates from UK, us and Canada all says that however I barely see any Asians(oriental) guy with other races.
Oh yeah black and Latino girls really like Asian guys. When I cold approach the rate is 1/2 but if I ask in my social circle I literally never failed to get one date at least.
[–]thiswaytoalltheporn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't wanna act differently just to attract girls lol.
Do you think acting differently to get what you want is ok?
There is a fine balance between "be yourself" and "do what needs to be done to win" ... In my opinion, a smart person is one who finds the problem and fixes it. If "be yourself" is a problem...
That said, this may not be your situation. I don't think values should be compromised. If your actions or dress are keeping you from what you want, I would look at changing.
[–]Automatic_Beautiful9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
No it's not wrong, it's what most people should do. Just not correct in my case. I worked as a waiter and get more tips when I'm extra friendly(I'm not like that at all, I don't care about them do and don't want to tell them my hobbies)
I really like goth girls. I ask a friend to help me pick some clothes and results are significantly better. It's not even black, it just looks fancy. But it's not me at all, idgaf and cba to do this although I really like how I looked. However I like other types of girls just as much as goth.
But no matter how I dress, in terms of ethnicity it's the same results.
[–]MOProG2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree. I think he's probably talking too much and coming off as too friendly. Strong Eye contact alone should net more numbers. Your formula is pretty flawless.
[–]RedEyeBlackEye1 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No offense, but that's demoralizing, homie.
Have you tried improving your other smv character stats?
Ones that will DEFINITELY GET YOU INSANELY BETTER results... INSTANTLY:
1) looks. haircut for face shape, grow a 10-day stubble or short beard, keep trimmed to 4-6mm(proven sweet spot for attraction and aesthetics), edge up the sideburnlines, cheeklines, and neckline.
2) physique. Diet, cardio, and lifting with dropsets(or pyramid sets)...until failure.
3) swagger. Masculine body language and fix your posture.
4) charisma. Strong eye contact, great smile or smirk, and great conversation that draws her into your frame.
5) style. Can't go wrong with fitted or slimfit tee, hard jeans, and a good clean pair of man boots(or fresh sneakers). Add a leather(or racecar) jacket for a "play boy" touch.
Good luck, homie.
[–]conflictedlocations 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"A leather racecar jacket" LOL, sounds kinda old school my man.
[–]RedEyeBlackEye1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not leather racecar jacket, it's leather jacket OR a racecar jacket.
[–]conflictedlocations 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol, still
[–]SecuredStealth 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why harsh!?
[–]Turbulent_Sky_5914 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is not that bad to be honest. My numbers were worse at the start. But that's because i sucked. I improved my looks, dress, game and my numbers drastiacally improved. no problem. keep goin
[–]SandtheB 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am struggling with daygame atm so this was inspiring.. lol cringy is right.
[–]Keezymac34 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My stats are about 68 approaches around 25 numbers or social media contacts and 3 dates. Probably a 20% response rate.
[–]zaphaq 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey, my friend, just wanted to tell you that your post inspired me to approach the first woman for a looooong time in my life and I actually got her number. It was in the grocery store. Thank you so much brother!!!
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[–]MOProG2 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think your issue with converting dates probably is using too much of the word "sexy" in Convo. She hasn't earned it yet and they aren't really returning the favor. (but if she's some attention starved housewife maybe that works). I've found better conversation rate with using text to setup a phone call and then a date. Saves more time and you can disqualify people you can't hold a convo with.
[–]Casanova-Quinn 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
IMO I wouldn't use "sexy" or any compliment like that in the opening message. At best you sound like a player, at worst you sound thirsty. You already conveyed your interest in the approach, so there's no need to lay it on more. Just play it cool and set up the date. Overall, nice job, keep at it.
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thats my purpose behind it. To convey to her that im a sexual person. So being seeing as a player or sounding crude filters out girls who think im a nice guy taking them on a nice innocent date. I think thats why i was able to makeout with 3/4 in the first meet up with ease
So i get what youre saying not texting sexy wouldve gotten me more dates... I agree! But kinda wanted to avoid innocent dates if i could! Thanks bro, appreciate it
[–]Casanova-Quinn 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No problem bro. I get that you're trying to avoid the "nice guy" vibe, I'm not against that. Basically what I'm saying is that it's usually more effective (less flakes) to use the sexual vibe in person, rather than over text.
good point
[–]philips855 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
swagger
My suggestion: use whatsapp instead of SMS. It's more personal and easier to have a short conversation, sending pics, maybe a connection etc.
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just don't believe in social media. So I took only phone numbers. But you're probably right!
[–]el_carli 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whatsapp uses phone numbers ;)
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
890 and 0 numbers
i;m obviously doing something wrong lol
[–]CodeEmotional9593 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you a reddit mod?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i wish lol
[–]Turbulent_Sky_5914 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Really? Are you asking for the number?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i always tried to establish some sort of mutual interest
[–]Cat6Domestique 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nice work! Of those did you get confronted with their boyfriend that was around the corner?
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think if I remembered only 4 times did this happen. But those guys were nice about and I excused myself. "Sorry, is this your girlfriend? I was just talking to her my bad" They all smiled and laughed it off
[–]Gwetify 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Out of curiosity what would you rate yourself out of 10?
Beacuse that seems a decent success rate. I'm at 45 approaches with 5 numbers and 0 dates. Some of the fails really discourages me for some time.
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Im not good looking bro 🤣😂. I think a 7! Average. So if I can do it. So can you!! I ain't special. Ive never had success with online so I cold approach instead
5 numbers is great! But I usually needed about 12 numbers to get a date! So keep pushing like I did. Been there, done that! Youre actually doing similar to me. Just give it time, you'll get quicker numbers
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
7 out of 10, is, by definition, above average.
5 out of 10 is average
[–]devnasty009 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thx 4 quick maths mr meatsack
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a champion
[–]maybebionic 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am jealous of you guys who live in big cities. My city is 250k and in the Midwest. A 10 here is a 9 in most other cities. I can swipe left 300x before swiping right on dating apps here.
If I go out in public, I’m lucky to find one girl worth chatting up.
Props to you guys who go out and do 12 a day on average that takes balls.
[–]ObviousBudget6 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just like say in Spanish:
"Ole tus cojones".
[–]bruce_maximo 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is wanted poster of you probably in every cafe now lol. Good luck lol
[–]Realistic_Status 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
good job as a beginner. most guys dont achieve this. getting the numbers are easy. now try and go for the insta dates. thats how you are going to get girls on dates. good luck.
[–]CodeEmotional9593 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, always have to press for the insta-date, and insta-f, if possible.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Cold approaching strangers will get you numbers but it usually doesn't work out. They all assume you're a player and a creep
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Cold approach in general just sucks. The odds are so stacked against you. It's why it's cold approach. But ya, agreed!
[–]anfearglas1 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
May I ask how old you are and what height you are? What kind of job you have? What is your objective from cold approach? Casual or long-term relationship?
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
25 years. 6ft, 135lbs. Customer service. To figure out how many numbers it takes on average to get a date by doing the least little work. I find family &friends are more important of relationships than girls. I just casually date girls only
[–]recursivePasta 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to get that idea out of your head asap, or stop saying it to other people because of your limited belief.
I don't think it's the best way to meet women
Its about the sheer volume compared to social cirlce with 6 potential girls vs 1000s. Yeah u may have a higher chance with those 6 girls but what happens if they all reject u or one does and you alienate yourself from the group. Not to mention all of the women u cold approach wont see you the same way sure some will see u as a player and others a creep but some will see u as a fun confident guy they want around. Dating is a numbers game no matter watter what method you use cold apporach is good cause it gives you the most tries at bat.
[–]SummerSplash 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How much time did you need to approach 408 girls?
I'm surprised noones attacked you for this but we'll done bro
[–]sammatheson 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome that you're taking massive action Bob!! Keep up the good work
[–]VARISSTUPID 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro you’re a grinder. Respect. I’d always advise quality shots over quantity but in this case I gotta respect it.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Any first date hook ups?
One first date hook up. Went straight to a hotel for a date. Second date hook up, went back to her place second date. I dont have a place and live with parents. And im not from these cold approach areas. Im from a smaller town and have to drive out 40minutes to even cold approach
Kicking ass, thanks for sharing man.
[–]fitnessbuff2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Prob have a lot of time on your hands.. You are risking a harassment complaint. have to be better than average looking to make this work
[–]Keezymac34 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not true unless your really weird women dont care
[–]Piercedmommyof2[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh man. I wish I could do this !
[–]Successful-Try7035 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What’s your lay count ?
[–]Emotional_Grape8449 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Champion.
[–]dave-gonzo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/dataisbeautifull
[–]williamroberthoss 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great work. Thanks for sharing. I feel this is what this sub should be about.
[–]nortrebyc 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for posting this.
Do you think any adjustment is needed to build more comfort since the resulting dates are a pretty low number? Like turning that 45s conversation into a 3 minute so they feel safer?
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
For the purpose of this experiment. I had to keep my conversations very short and all being similar. Doing a mix of different things would be misleading results for anyone starting out. Defeating the purpose
Out of 70 numbers and 39 replying. 55%, shows that girls liked that approached. And it got my foot through the door. Unfortunately girls flake and its common in todays day and age
In my opinion. Longer interactions are pointless and might work against you. Over disqualify yourself if you're just inn & out collecting numbers
However, I encourage you to test having longer conversations. The information is here to compare it. If it works, it should do better than 1 number out of 6 approaches(45seconds). And those numbers should get a higher response rate
And that's how you'll get your answer
[–]nortrebyc 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think the success rate of numbers is incredible honestly. I just wonder if they’re giving it to you in the moment for ulterior reasons since your date number is insanely low.
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well if you think about it. There's several guys in here and a lot more everywhere else who have cold approached 4 or 7 numbers and can't understand why they can't get dates
On the contrary. I just look at that now and it makes sense to me. You *can get a date with those numbers, but in my experience it's usually not enough numbers
When I think about other dates I had in the past (not recorded), it hardly was ever getting 3/5 numbers. Its happened... but not usually
I'm working on getting 15 total dates doing this and that will explain everything. I still need answers myself. But things are slowly coming together
The numbers per approaches is solved I'd say. Just need the dates part, 4 isn't enough to gather
[–]nortrebyc 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is your date percentage 1%?
Don't have the answer for this as I need at least minimum 10 dates. I'm currently at 4 from those 44 numbers. 4 is just not enough. Its too small to conclude anything.. and I don't want to give false information.. But from those stats, it's 9% date percentage. Sorry had to fix that
[–]recursivePasta 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good fucking job my man, this is how I started, fuck all these people hating on you. You are gonna become a god a year later.
Remember the 6 months rule. I can already see it 4 months in.
[–]bicholoco1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First of all, congrats, now, I dont know, maybe its cause I am an introvert lol, but how do you had the energy to do it?
[–]RedEyeBlackEye1 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm more of a Warm Approach guy.
1) choosing signals=green light.
2) intimidated signals=green light.
Less time wasted, less bullshxt games, less hassle, more sweet sweet feminine desire directed at me.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That's so retarded. You can't fuck a phone number. What's the point of all of this? You are not even going with these girls which tells me you are full of hot air.
[–]recursivePasta 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Did you see the word beginner?
[–]JacobMoogberg69 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Again what's the point of you are only going to b labeled as the creepy guy who approaches women all day and has nothing better to do?
[–]recursivePasta 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because a year later he's gonna slay it.
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Wdym? I work like everyone else. I approach girls when i make the time 2x, a week. Most guys dont do anything productive with their lives. Play video games, get wasted with friends, watch netflix etc... i just choose to cold approach over doing those things that I used to do
I hooked up with 2/4. And it couldve potentially been more had i not been a dweeb and followed up on dates that i was too intimidated to go. Also im not from these areas i met girls. So i dont have logistics on my side
Point of this. 1st is learning how to get numbers consistently- done!! 2nd, to get dates consistently -which i have yet to do... but im getting there
One step at a time! Until i learn how to consistently hook up. But requires time and patience
Ill update it once i start hooking up consistently. So give it time, this is just the beginning. Thanks for reading and hopefully i helped
[–]BurnItDownSR 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If its such a numbers game then why learn how to act at all? You should have the same results even if you berated and emotionally abused each girl into giving you their numbers.
This is like a car salesman thinking he can't possibly do things any better than he's already doing so he just tries to talk to as many customers as he can.
[–]recursivePasta 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]conflictedlocations -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well done
[–]BurnItDownSR 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saw it, and that gives OP even less credibility to say what dating is and isn't.
[–]chipbulkner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Hunting" cringe
[–]HueyDFreeman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
W
[–]GrandKingSuperb 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Straight to the point!
[–]Liebner-Anthony-S 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh, Kudo's on your research ! Well done man
[–]CodeEmotional9593 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The rate depends on the country and city also. Average you'd get would be about 10 numbers out of 100 approaches, out of which about 1 will put out. So if you do about 20 approaches a day, you can add 1 girl to the harem in 5 days, so in 1 month you'd have about 6. 20 is really pushing yourself. 10 is better for pacing it.
The bottleneck is in any city under about 2 million population, it will be very difficult to find 10-20 decent-looking women to approach per day.
You also have to get pretty decent at time management. Some girls will go on insta-dates or even follow you around the whole day but will never be DTF. In these cases limit it to 1-2 hours max, if insta-fvck is not possible - cut her off, and keep sarging.
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