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Tooslowtoohappy · 2021-09-28T16:02:12+00:00

Bold of you to assume since I have standards I have options xD

HughBeaumont500 · 2021-09-28T14:12:20+00:00

I don't doubt any of this ... But damn... All this shit.

Can't do that - shouldn't do this - never like that - but yes to this... All this psychological postering and cat & mouse. Can't compliment too soon but don't wait too long and... ugh.

It's discouraging we (men) just can't be honest. Hi, I think you look really pretty. Mind if I talk with you?

Gotta' jump through all these damn hoops. Can't just roll up and be honest. Gotta' gameplan and strategize of even when to compliment a girl.

TF is wrong with these people? Lol

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-09-28T19:41:51+00:00

I compliment right off the bat. I want her to know what my intentions are… i’m not a nice guy just having a chat. I completely disagree with rule one.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-28T13:24:42+00:00

Agree with all of this, but if you are a guy who can approach from a position of power you can display from the very beginning that you are the one choosing her and you can compliment on what you like. But not every guy can pull that off.

btown1time · 2021-09-29T04:03:36+00:00

Hot-construction-811 and Original Post + ur unique spin on it and ur golden! Idk why people are hating! U honestly prob need this advice more than anyone... Js U gotta realize tho we(women) have to be cautious af. Someone who comes up instantly complimenting def sends red flag Same as someone who is really touchy or trying to be super close. There's a good chance that u already had a min to read her before saying hi. Give her a min to check u out too. Sadly all the nasty perv's have made it more difficult. One of the nicest- normal seeming guys I knew totally changed once I gave him a chance. Legit wouldn't leave my house type of crap! Makes u look at people/ situations a lot differently

Oh and BTW our minds suck. I'm 32 and still trying to figure mine out lmao The OP is just trying to help

boutdabtime · 2021-09-28T18:41:17+00:00

I just gotta say, the men who think that this is useless information, are.probably the same guys who get mad at women who don't say hi back on dating sites.

This has some decent points, especially having standards part.

donnybdonnyb · 2021-09-28T23:17:57+00:00

I want to add to this post it’s all true. Someone once said “Make her earn everything from your government name to your last name” you don’t have to explicitly compliment good behaviour but revealing more about yourself can also be seen as a compliment. And that way you remain a mystery

AirborneDodo · 2021-09-29T03:13:22+00:00

I like this post I like this information and I think it could work

devnasty009 · 2021-09-29T05:00:09+00:00

I like this girl (op). My experience points to solid points here.

Arnoski · 2021-09-29T15:56:40+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you.

KongDonkey_92 · 2021-09-28T15:37:45+00:00

Be the employer, not the employee. Vet her to get a sense of who she is.

If she doesn't make the cut, find one who does.

Hot-Construction-811 · 2021-09-28T22:12:51+00:00

This is what Ive found about dating and my current gf is full of mind games. I'd say game on...let's play ball.

Go into first date without any expectation. In fact, a fukitol version worked out for me. Be confident and honest about the interaction is key. The thing is I just got out of a relationship so when I met her for our first coffee meetup I was just like whatever. I was like in the whole conversation, shit this/that and fuck this/that. She wasn't much of a talker but looked like the person in the online profile so I just proceeded to talk about myself and asked her a series of questions. At one point, i said to her im just running down a list of questions. An hour later, she goes I am bouncing and I said that's cool. Can I have your number and she put it in my phone. In the first date, I gave her zero compliment.
Pay attention to what kind of girl she espouses. So, later on I texted her and said had a good time. And said her eyes were mesmerising (some random charming technique), then I said when is a good time to call you tomorrow. What she texted back to me was loud and clear that me complimenting her eyes did not stick. So then I shift the conversation somewhere else and she jumped on the intelligence compliment. Bingo! Game on!
Don't lovebomb her, in fact take several days in between before texting anything to her. Let her know you are interested but your world doesn't revolve around her. When you do text her later, you will find out she is missing you but just don't want to say it out loud. lol. Game on!
Tell her what you want when she is a bit slow on the uptake. Basically, lead, lead, lead.
Listen really carefully to her words and call her on her BS. If women test men then why can't we do the same?
So, basically although the compliment game maybe important to some girls but every girl is different and you need to figure out how she ticks then you will get her attention.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-28T15:32:02+00:00

1. Complimenting her shouldn’t be the first thing you do when you meet her. Many women may see this as a red flag The fact that you already approached her and sparked up a conversation is enough for her to know that you find her attractive.

I cringe every time I see a daygame thread where the guy leads with a compliment..

These guys watch way too much of these RSD and other PUA on YouTube that don't have a clue how to do daygame the right way.

No wonder why there's so many guys that fail with daygame..

"I just wanted to come up and say how beautiful you are"

it's already GAME OVER

Uoger · 2021-09-28T12:39:05+00:00

This is all very true.

dustyraisininacorner · 2021-09-28T12:54:39+00:00

Kinda don't agree

Scary_Antelope_306 · 2021-09-28T16:13:13+00:00

Horrible advice sorry

jokertnt · 2021-09-28T12:38:56+00:00

You are fish, how many players had you, but be honest ;)

JoystickVacation · 2021-09-29T02:15:04+00:00

Lol. Compliments are for the middle school dance. Beyond that, you should know better.

mralpha98 · 2021-09-29T10:40:03+00:00

There is no do s and donts in life.Just enjoy it while you still have time…

uncircumcizdBUTchill · 2021-09-30T08:21:09+00:00

Actually none of this matters. Never take advice from a 21 year old girl about seduction. If you want to seduce her, be of higher status than her, better looking, better dressed, wittier, or more interesting. Her advice amounts to: have other options because you are better than her and not desperate.

N0_name83726 · 2021-09-29T05:51:09+00:00

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MariaHarmandis · 2021-09-29T11:40:14+00:00

I agree, I don’t like the word cute either.

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