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TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-25T22:06:22+00:00

Everyone has their preference.

You do you.

ExnyerlawyerinFL · 2021-09-26T02:49:24+00:00

For a guy who is 21, a woman who is in her late 20s or early 30s is well within normal range and I suspect you are typical. Let’s face it, guys are shallow and looks matter - there is nothing about a late 20s or mid 30s woman that prevents her from looking spectacular.

idrinkapplejuice42 · 2021-09-26T02:53:15+00:00

Cause theyre nicer. Idk why but girls in their early 20s have huge egos and are generally unfriendly. Late 20s and early 30s women are much more friendly and mature.

McWhiters9511 · 2021-09-25T23:54:18+00:00

Dude same. I'm 21 as well and all the girls are way to childish to actually enjoy being around. Absorbed in pop culture and shit. Looking for just any mature girl.

EarthquakeBass · 2021-09-26T04:29:12+00:00

I expected to come into this thread and say it’s because you have mommy issues but it sounds like you just have good taste. Late 20-30s women are wonderful

coolguyshy · 2021-09-25T22:06:54+00:00

i (25f) always date guys five or so years older than me. i just like the inherent authority over me, to be entirely honest

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-09-25T22:11:28+00:00

Yes, been watching MILF porn since Stifler’s mom.

2021-09-25T22:11:58+00:00

It’s normal!

oPlayer2o · 2021-09-25T23:06:38+00:00

Don’t think about it too much, you like what you like dose the reason why really matter.

spiritualRyan · 2021-09-25T22:52:54+00:00

i think i know

Plundelwondel · 2021-09-26T02:16:04+00:00

Age is just a number. It depends on ones personality and actions that defines their maturity

2021-09-26T06:50:01+00:00

You just have good taste. Women in their 30s are in their prime

Dangerous-Socks · 2021-09-26T08:12:24+00:00

I don’t find it strange or anything. I’m 40 and don’t look anywhere near it. I’ve been with older people and younger people. I enjoy enjoy older people cause they have more experience personally. That’s just my take

agaren · 2021-09-26T14:45:27+00:00

I’m around your age and I developed an attraction for older women when I saw how flakey girls our age are. Girls in early to mid 20s seem to not know what they want. Girls in their late 20s and up seem to have solid goals and aspirations in life and know what they want. Note: both statements are very very general and not specific to any person at all! But overall that’s what makes me attracted to older women.

joshdube7100 · 2021-09-26T12:18:29+00:00

Probably because women in their 20's disrespect anything that walks besides a dog.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-09-26T08:12:30+00:00

You're probably smatter than most people your age.

Be careful in getting with a woman older than you. They have developed their communication skill to such a level that they can manipulate you, without you knowing it. Making it an awesome experience and it can get you addicted to that and it leaves her in full control of you without you knowing it.

Mr_lightning22 · 2021-09-26T11:15:09+00:00

You watched too much MILF porn

That's why

garconip · 2021-09-26T09:42:40+00:00

You are on the peak of sex drive, and you like people who are on the peak too.

putcoolusernamehere · 2021-09-26T00:35:43+00:00

I kinda wish I had this preference. It's so much more socially acceptable than my preference of liking mostly 19-22 year olds as I get into my upper 20s.

Rectal_Tuna_Horn · 2021-09-26T13:25:59+00:00

This is a mommy issue.

2021-09-26T14:10:13+00:00

you won't want that soon. it's just because you're younger and it's actually very normal. take a shot at it.

GNOK-GNIK · 2021-09-26T06:16:19+00:00

Old gold

Musician-Round · 2021-09-26T07:49:32+00:00

I would imagine it has a lot to do with the fact that you are twenty-one. You are still growing and developing into who you are going to be. Who wouldn't like to learn from someone more who is more experienced? Older women are confident in who they are, they have mastered their charisma and charm. It is a completely natural phenomenon. When I was in my late teens and twenties, I was almost exclusively interested in older women because I couldn't stand the childish games from the inexperienced girls my age. Now that I'm in my thirties, it's the opposite, I find myself turned on more frequently by college girls in their twenties.
Confidence and maturity are huge factors here unless you want to overthink some shit and swallow that incredibly uncomfortable Freudian pill.

Docster87 · 2021-09-26T14:43:52+00:00

Older IMO is great when you are young. They are experienced and know what they like and often are comfortable enough to take lead and get stuff done. And done correctly. I was 19 when I had my first fling, she was 26. It is still some of the best sex I've had (not had a lot but still). One can learn quite a lot from older women. Less games and less BS, increased fun but don't expect anything to develop into a longer term relationship - focus on just a one time romp or a sexual fling.

macroxela · 2021-09-26T15:40:05+00:00

I've found that older women tend to be much more direct and don't play mind games as much. They'll let you know what they like and don't like. That's something I rarely experienced from younger women.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-09-27T21:40:14+00:00

I’m going through a cougar phase atm. These older women know what they want, are mature, fun and direct. You don’t go though headaches and bs that your more likely to go through with a younger women.

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