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harvey_croat · 2021-08-20T13:46:36+00:00

Just look her in the eyes and smile and you will know the rest. Then just put your ugly face in front of hers and that's it

nicohul · 2021-08-20T13:58:15+00:00

Do it somewhere in the middle of the date, that way you won't be so nervous, I hate it when all the pressure piles up at the end of the date, and girls probably hate it too.

Gaydame · 2021-08-20T16:18:59+00:00

At the beginning of the date, hug.

When talking to her on the date, occasionally brush arm.

When going in somewhere, lead her by the waist.

When talking, keep eye contact.

When sitting down take her hand (comment on them or something she's wearing)

Take any opportunity to touch.

Then the kiss comes naturally, and not at the end!

Defeated_Teen · 2021-08-20T15:49:38+00:00

At the end of the date give her a choke-slam strong enough to make her faint. Then provide CPR

Mission accomplished

RiceAssassin · 2021-08-20T13:19:50+00:00

Look at her eyes and if you feel nervous, go ahead and try leaning in slowly. However if she backs away then stop immediately and wish her a great evening. This will help you act accordingly to the situation.

If you would like to ask, then ask “hypothetically” that will be less direct and not scare the person. Also, asking makes you look like a “gentleman” not a “simp”. It’s called Respect if that’s a thing nowadays haha.

If things do get awkward you can always be truthful and say “it’s been a while since I’ve practiced kissing” or something around those lines.

In reality it’s all about enjoying the moment you have with the person and laughing through the awkwardness.

Everything is a learning experience and can only be learned though failure. So live and learn from your mistakes.

P.S. : it actually has been a while since I’ve been on a date and made out with someone, so feel free to take or leave my advice. Best of luck you and everyone who reads this !

aandres44 · 2021-08-20T13:40:08+00:00

Pretend like you are falling and give her a headbutt in the face, braking her nose. Then just give her a kiss to stop the bleeding. Working 2/3 times.

redsealsparky · 2021-08-20T19:23:36+00:00

Throughout the date gradually break the touch barrier, nothing sexual just talk with your hands and touch their arm to get their attention or something like that. Go shoot pool and show them how to play. Hold their hand while you walk on the beach.

At then end of the date offer to walk them to their door and ask them if they kiss on a first date. Or it will just happen organically if she's feeling it.

kettlebell_workout · 2021-08-20T23:59:54+00:00

I see over and over these kind of questions with all kind of stupid rules like "You must kiss her during the date", "ask if she wants to", "no, do not ask just do it", "do the following 10 steps" etc.

All these answers are correct and wrong at the same time. It all depends on circumstances.

To actually know when to kiss and when not to do it, you need experience. Go to 10, 20 or 100s of dates and you won't need to ask this question ever again.

No-Platform-2184 · 2021-08-20T14:10:08+00:00

You're going to get a lot of specific advice that is going to rely on reading the situation properly and with confidence, which if you could and had you wouldn't be asking this question! So when you read everyone's tips and ideas don't take them as the hard and fast rules you must follow.

My two cents on the matter, for you, are that if you get to the end of the date and the two of you are just sorta standing outside there making idle conversation without hurriedly trying to end the date then its a great time for a kiss. If you don't feel like you could just lean in for, ask. There are a lot of thoughts on asking, how to, or how not to, but if you think you won't kiss her without asking, just go ahead and ask.

OriginalPostrSociety · 2021-08-20T17:27:07+00:00

I just do it awkwardly and it works everytime

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-08-20T14:23:05+00:00

If you're gonna ask, ask in a confident way

E.g "are u gonna kiss me or what?' "This is the moment where you kiss me" "Get over yourself and kiss me"

2021-08-21T02:14:20+00:00

Look her in the eyes and just do it. Works for me all the time. But then again, their interest is high so idk what your girls’ interest is like towards you.

Giggles30F · 2021-08-20T14:30:02+00:00

Reading through the comments and I think like a good combination of all of it works. If you can get away with getting the kiss in earlier in the date, then that can help take a lot of pressure off but if the moment just doesn't happen early on, waiting till the drop off moment can work if they're not trying to unlock the door and get inside super quick maybe do the slow lean in.. go about 60 or 70% of the way and then see if they fill in the gap. If they don't then maybe just a quick hug or a forehead kiss will do for the first time 🤷‍♀️

VladPutinOfficial · 2021-08-20T14:32:50+00:00

I usually say "hey insert name I like you" or something similar and then I kiss her. It's not like asking for a kiss (seems too polite even though this isn't bad) and neither just out of the open.

Shadow__Account · 2021-08-20T15:00:45+00:00

This has been discussed 100’s of times, Google escalation ladder. The kiss is a small step in a progression.

PoPoChao · 2021-08-20T16:49:06+00:00

You say “I want to kiss you”. Then you do it

2021-08-20T18:07:55+00:00

When you are about to end the date, kiss her

TommyDemarco · 2021-08-20T21:55:46+00:00

At the end, when i say my goodbyes i look into there eyes and say “im sorry if this is out of the blue, but i really wanna kiss you” look at there reaction and if its a positive go in for the kiss if its negative thennnn runnn

RocketMan6c · 2021-08-21T00:30:43+00:00

When in her bubble, example after or on way giving a hug. Look her in the eye, and if she has her eyes locked onto yours, start moving your lips toward hers. In the first few seconds of this, if you see her start moving her head in too, then green light and go for kiss. If she pulls head back or to side then move your head to side for hug or something else to fien out of the motion. I've even just continued moving my head just to the side than back to abort and acted like I was rolling my head to stretch my neck.

PJMark1981 · 2021-08-21T01:55:13+00:00

Thinking about it any girl I have kissed they have been the one to initiate it first. No I am not a 40 year older virgin that’s never kissed a girl before. Lol

JMichelleK · 2021-08-21T02:11:29+00:00

I (F) went on a couple dates with this guy I really liked and at the end of the second date I asked if I could kiss him, he seemed kind of shocked that I asked but the making out that followed was amazing

yeah-nahh69 · 2021-08-21T07:35:49+00:00

I saw a comment here a while ago and it's stuck with me.

Pussies don't get pussy

Aran82 · 2021-08-21T08:53:46+00:00

I put my hands on her hips and look at her so she knows what’s coming.

PachoTheP · 2021-08-21T11:04:46+00:00

Smell your shirt and ask her if she likes how it smells then you place your left hand on her right shoulder lean in but instead of kissing her, somewhere around the back of the head stop, pretend kike you are trying to smell her, go back but stop a bit further than her face, then look her in the eyes for around 4 or 5 seconds to see if she flinches. If she does flinch don't go for it and if she does not flinch kiss her.

AShar911 · 2021-08-21T11:28:04+00:00

In between date.....tell her that u always end the date with a kiss

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