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Dreamybisexual · 2021-04-23T10:34:23+00:00

It really differs person to person. I personally enjoy it with the guy I’m with now. He keeps his area really clean and there’s no scent or taste, so it’s really easy and fun to do.

redbeast27 · 2021-04-23T15:30:09+00:00

Damnn player if she not sucking...you better find someone that will.

2inpress · 2021-04-23T13:45:35+00:00

Now the question is: have you given her head yourself?

ChristinaVicky · 2021-04-23T09:37:27+00:00

What can people say? Depends on the woman.

MajesticLaw4939 · 2021-04-23T13:13:49+00:00

This is a borderline deal breaker 😬😬😂

Regular-Afternoon-84 · 2021-04-23T09:35:36+00:00

Differs from person to person. Has she given you any reasoning behind saying it's disgusting?

Like is it the idea of cum in her mouth? Or does the dick still smell like piss and that's disgusting?

For me personally if there's even the slightest hint of a scent I won't touch it. I don't actively smell it like a dog but when that's in your face you notice.

Aside from that I enjoy giving head, I'd recommend talking to her a bit more about it to understand where she's at with it and why.

Jamesdoink · 2021-04-23T10:59:48+00:00

Personally I've never been without a partner that didn't but it's a personal thing for some women

19960820 · 2021-04-23T17:35:30+00:00

Thanks to all of you guys, I guess I’ll break up with her and move on, as many of you said, it’s a dealbreaker!

Mr_lightning22 · 2021-04-23T10:52:12+00:00

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MasterTeacher123 · 2021-04-23T11:48:36+00:00

My girl loves going down on me. It gets her off to see me enjoy it.

Chakita1 · 2021-04-23T10:27:16+00:00

Only If they like you

OThinkingDungeons · 2021-04-23T15:22:20+00:00

My previous girl loved to give head and oh my lord was she good at it. I never asked what she liked about it, but it was always mindblowing. I always consider it basic manners to wash, trim and clean around that area. If I was expecting her to do it, I'd visit the bathroom and wash my privates just in case.

I really enjoyed giving her oral too mind you.

2021-04-23T10:17:06+00:00

It varies from person to person. I didn't like to give head when I started, but now I love it.

Dutchcat1077 · 2021-04-23T14:44:17+00:00

Likely a bad past experience.

KingKCrimson · 2021-04-23T15:27:24+00:00

Of course it differs from person to person, but there are a lot of women that love to give head. If she wants it, return the favor though.

It is perfectly fine if this is a dealbreaker for you.

NOSKYTOOHIGH · 2021-04-23T16:32:14+00:00

My girlfriend treats it like a pedestal that fell from heaven an landed perfeftly

aneptuniangrl · 2021-04-23T14:13:55+00:00

I hate it so much. It’s so much work and painful after 5 mins. I have moved to only doing it for people I genuinely have feelings for and want to please. I get why she may find it disgusting because dicks leave a smell on ur upper lip that is just... Plus it can feel degrading. It’s a full time job.

Prince-in-the-North · 2021-04-23T17:40:09+00:00

Well as for me it took my partner many months (possibly a year) to give me head as she was still a virgin at 26, and now she enjoys doing it but will never let me go down on her. Give your girl some more time don’t be too quick to judge

festiveowls · 2021-04-23T15:38:09+00:00

There’s 7 billion people on this planet, find one who sucks dick.

PopJaded151 · 2021-04-23T17:52:40+00:00

I agree that it depends on the person, but some would say that a woman will only do that if she really likes the guy. This may sound like a tough pill to swallow, no pun intended, but it's a possibility to keep in mind and I don't see the point in sugarcoating the topic.

TheMailmanic · 2021-04-23T22:14:43+00:00

Sounds like she views sex as a generally dirty act and therefore is uncomfortable with oral. Is she religious?

whatskeeping · 2021-04-23T12:07:23+00:00

Are you breaking up with her? Might?

Glacier_Sama · 2021-04-23T17:25:33+00:00

Here's the answer. It may be tough to swallow. She isn't sexually attracted to you. If she were, she would lick and or suck any part of your body without question. Because you'd just be that appealing to her.

2021-04-23T15:15:10+00:00

You need a new girlfriend.

2021-04-23T20:34:47+00:00

This woman does Nothing better then sucking his cock and watching and hearing him enjoy. I get lost on it. Just sucking and stroking and playing with his ass, rubbing the asshole. I get a loud moan from the ass play.

EatTheWholeSlice · 2021-04-23T21:33:14+00:00

I never used to like it, but never really refused to. I just didn’t prefer it. I don’t know what changed exactly, but as you mature sexually, your tastes (not literal taste lol) for different things change. I think when I was 27 or so I started to find my place. I’d had more partners by then and more experience. When you get good at it, it’s enjoyable. I feel like a lot of not liking it stems from insecurities. If she does do it for you occasionally ALWAYS tell her when she’s doing good. Tell her exactly what you like, so she can gain that confidence.

28_abn · 2021-04-23T13:45:12+00:00

First off, no matter how long you’ve been in a relationship, if she doesn’t want to give head, she shouldn’t give head.

That being said, I believe most women like the satisfaction of pleasing a man, of being good at it, to feel somewhat sexy and sexable. Same question but to guys: do guys like to go down on their woman? I don’t really believe it’s a physical pleasure, but hey, I never blew a dude, so what the hell do I know!

Captain_w00t · 2021-04-23T09:37:30+00:00

English isn’t my native language, do you mean blowjobs?

If so, it’s a personal thing. Many women also have orgasms when giving it, others do it because their partners enjoy that, others don’t like it.

Does she enjoys you going down on her?

cercyyyy · 2021-04-23T16:45:18+00:00

I haven't met a single woman in my entire life who didn't enjoy it. At least above the age of 16-17 yo

InevitableLevel9923 · 2021-04-23T17:02:11+00:00

I love giving it. Ever since the first time when I was 16. I’m a pro at it and there’s always room for growth lol. I believe you should talk to her maybe there’s trauma from her past that she is trying to avoid. Maybe you need to tell her how important this part of sex is for you. If you enjoy receiving and she’s not willing to please you then you will resent her in the long run. Only one month into the relationship? It depends on you and how important oral is to you in a relationship. If it’s not that important then stay but if it is you will end up straying later on. Better to talk it out before it’s too late. I myself couldn’t stay with a man if he didn’t go down on me. I give 100% and that’s what I expect. Good luck

JenyaJalysia · 2021-04-23T18:25:58+00:00

It depends on the woman. I know I have friends or women who enjoys it. I personally thinks it’s disgusting asf. I also think males eating puss is disgusting but my ex ( only guy I have had ant sexual relations with) used to love eating, so I let him. 💀 I still wouldn’t give him head. The one time I tried and he said nvm, it’s ok. 🤣🤣

Apollo2136987 · 2021-04-23T19:10:41+00:00

Yes lol I do at least

2021-04-23T19:16:34+00:00

Yes. I used to not enjoy it in my early 20s. Different strokes for different folks.

Make sure you’re clean. Ask her if she prefers you shaven. See if she wants to try quality vibrator on herself while she’s doing it

2021-04-23T19:28:23+00:00

I think it depends. I have a feeling that it's not the oral sex that people enjoy, but the fact that they are pleasuring their partners. I agree that oral is disgusting when you actually think about it. The mouth is no place for someone's genitals.

JudoDan2020 · 2021-04-23T19:51:42+00:00

From my experience, it’s a matter of each Woman’s response. One of my best GFs (She was sexy all around in every way), regularly did that w/o my asking. She was great. Another one was like your current.

2021-04-23T20:43:39+00:00

Some of us do...some of us don't.

cbeme · 2021-04-23T22:52:38+00:00

Yes, definitely.

Arurry · 2021-04-23T23:47:11+00:00

Like a fool I married the only woman I met who didn’t lubricate profusely when giving head... avoid my mistake.

2021-04-24T00:24:42+00:00

From other threads etc it sounds like she isn’t a fan of oral sex in general. Just check it’s not a hygiene thing or say you are happy to wash up beforehand.

Maybe ask her if there is anything she would like to do to spice things up as you enjoy oral sex but notice she seems adverse to it which is “ok”. At the end of the day she isn’t going to change this for you so you either need to learn some new things together or maybe this is something that won’t work out.

As for if girls like it-it’s more like watching another person get pleasure from our action. Sometimes it can be messy or sticky which is probably what sets people off.

ladygodivajk · 2021-04-24T01:11:08+00:00

Actually I love it, but I’m significantly older than your girlfriend. I must admit, that at 22 I was very intimidated and not as willing (even eager now) to give a guy head.

I agree though that it depends on the woman, her level of confidence in herself as well as the comfort of the relationship. I’d like to think if porn were more readily available like it is now when I was 22, I might have been more adventurous. I’m one of those women who has grown more adventurous as I’ve gotten older. I find that there is almost a certain kind of power I feel when I have a man’s cock in my mouth and under control of my hands and tongue.

2021-04-24T02:15:26+00:00

Get a new girlfriend

UnconfirmedCatholic · 2021-04-24T02:30:32+00:00

In the immortal words of Biggie Smalls 'if she don't suck, we don't fuvk'

madskiller36 · 2021-04-24T03:38:48+00:00

My gf gave me head after 1st month. She said it smells and it’s dirty but still goes for it. I don’t really ask so each their own

DIme_x · 2021-04-24T04:00:13+00:00

It depends on what way she likes you. If shes super duper physically attracted to you... shes almost certainly going to go down on you. If however shes MORE attracted to your personality/BF/ husband traits she will be less likely to do it unless she just likes it. There are outliers of course... women that dont like it no matter what and women that like it with everyone... but ive generally found its about 50/50 her preference plus in what way she likes you. My FB as an example gave the best head ive ever gotten, but she never stayed the night, never texted me during the week, never cared if i was dating anyone. But slurped me bone dry with 15 minutes to a half hour of head everytime i saw her... she got even more worked up if i was forceful... but she didnt want a relationship at all... food for thought. Happy hunting.

ryderisatpical · 2021-04-24T04:26:54+00:00

Just be a chad

s3xymom · 2021-04-24T20:53:01+00:00

Didn’t used to but now - hell yes!! It all changed one day when I decided to slow down and take my time. Makes it much more fun. It’s enjoyable for me when I get feedback ie: making noises, talking, etc. And a little bit of fun forcefulness makes it over-the-top enjoyable.

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