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[–]whaddefuck 365 points366 points367 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Touching is what we’re here for!
[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Someone give this fella an award
[–]ICYlelouche[🍰] 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
By touching him
[–]dave_spontani 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
UNDERRATED Have my upvote
[–]devBowman 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/technicallythetruth
[–]9MaxR9 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice one haha
[–]wirelezz 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kino is a key part of all of this
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Funny in the right context
[–]autonomousinf 78 points79 points80 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
i like the fact that most of the stuff written here is about self-improvement, things to be a happier person and being more satisfied with oneself. its not some sexist, degrading and inappropriate community that promotes sinister tricks or whatever.
it generally just teaches people to how to overcome neediness, how to get rid of unhealthy social habits, how to communicate their romantic interests and how to improve their lives, adopt good hobbies and further their happiness. i like it.
[–]WhiteningMcClean 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s why I’ve stuck around. It manages to to both avoid both bullshitting people with toxic positivity AND presenting women as obstacles earned through deception. It’s a nice realistic yet decent middle ground.
[–]autonomousinf 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is also exactly why I stuck around.
[–]yarajaaee786 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ive been meaning to write a post about exactly this. although after having joined this community i may still be a virgin and talking to zero women (lmao) its made me realize just how much importance i was giving women before over university/work/my hobbies etc. before i was just singularly focused on getting girls (you can imagine why i never got laid with that desperate needy mentality). now ive realized how much more important other things are and im just focused on going after them now while slowly building up the confidence to start approaching women when im comfortable that the time is right
[–]autonomousinf 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And ironic thing is that's when people start to be interested in you including those who are romantically interested. Sometimes to find something, you need to stop looking for it I guess.
[–]omulvey2 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like it’s one of those click baity books that are titled to attract someone that is looking for unhealthy advice and it tricks them into getting the advice they actually need
[–]CustomAlpha 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes it’s worth a bit of effort.
[–]GamerKhsuus 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
Nobody helps me here..
[–]monkeymanwasd123 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Do you want self-improvement advice or do you want me to tell you how to get a Good Wife in no time
[–]Chris2003X 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
yes
[–]monkeymanwasd123 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'll talk more if you're more specific 😂 for self-help I think I'll just stick to giving you my playlist and for getting a wife you can do a mail order bride you can go to another country to find a bride or you can use self improvement to get yourself a bride from your own country by finding a community that you want to live near or with become part of that community or become the community and you can stop there or you can keep going and find some high-class folks and have them introduce you to some girls
[–]massocells 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was almost asphyxiated trying to read that
[–]monkeymanwasd123 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
welp thats what happens when i list things off and correct myself, but i think the issue is more on your side for only reading refined texts =/
[–]monkeymanwasd123 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=FL-3N86LoL6a1ncoFbk1kE4w
[–]GamerKhsuus 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How to get a gf
ill do a train of thought description for how i would do it: clean your room to reduce disgust for self and to create a habit to make oneself able to comfortably able to invite a girl into your room without having to say its dirty or gross, if you get rejected you will feel less disgusted with yourself if your room is clean. your room is an extension of your microbiome and immune system so that if you get sick the bacteria and fungi in your room that have been tamed or allied with in your room will help you recover and will eat or yeet anything that gets you sick (yes this is important), drink a gallon of water per day but not before you go on a date(1/4 to 1/2 gallon of water to avoid going to the bathroom often), eat a plant based diet and doing be in a ketogenic diet to avoid spooking any gals with your smell unless you decide to get into body building, once they get comfortable tell em you want to try intermitant fasting keto or a carnivore diet. bloody hell i cant even tell what time of day i wrote the prior stuff just get yourself out there save all the money you can and invest it so you dont feel like you are worth less than you are
[–]chemmyboi 43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]WhiteBoobs 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Improve yourself
Go out and live your life
Speak to girls who are interested
Profit
[–]_-__-__-__-__-_-_-__ 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like this one
[–]lostinth0ught 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I like WhiteBoobs too.
[–]chemmyboi 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How do you know if girls are interested without speaking to them?
[–]WhiteBoobs 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Choosing signals. The truth about the game is that women are the ones who truly make the first move, you’re just the one who more often than not has to make the approach.
[–]leftcoastandcoffee 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make eye contact and smile. If they return the eye contact and the smile, that's not necessarily interest but you can say hello and maybe start a conversation.
[–]TheDarknessGoat 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
1- be atractive 2 -don't be unnatractive
[–]GamerKhsuus 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am
[–]The_James_Bond 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay I fit steps 1 and 2. What next?
[–]bigdaddy1989 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is it bad if I fit option #2?
[–]dasanman69 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank God, there's too many subs where they attack the opposite sex
[–]Gaurav-07 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah. I like to touch my friends.
[–]Bo0mh3adsh0t 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What made me laugh at this wasn't just the implication but that there are actually posts on this sub-reddit on how to do that. Friendzone be damned.
[–]excentrik-art 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Us, who help other now, we were some time ago in the same bad place, and we know what it feels like. We took action, we researched and failed, tested and perfected our methods.
Now with our success, we want to encourage and share what we know
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[–]ModeratorCaptain_w00t 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
if you can read behind the lines of what women/girls write over here, you'd be surprised. especially when they talk about their experiences (sort of Field Reports, but softer).
for example, there are still boys/men who think that sending unsolicited dick pics is ok and might work to some extent. but 99% of women would find it horrid, because they simply aren't interested in a dick pic, even from their BF.
considering that many guys/men here have NEVER talked to a girl/woman, at least they can learn something more here.
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[–]ModeratorCaptain_w00t -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
indeed, many users in this sub just don't know the obvious.
seduction IS obvious when you know the basic social skills.
seduction techniques were invented by desperates that needed a way to get laid in some way at any cost. the only credit I might concede to Mystery is the sort of breakdown about the steps from approach to sex. unfortunately this has caused more troubles than advantages for the average plain guy because it's schematic and doesn't explain that those are basic principles of human interactions.
there aren't moderate/advanced skills. you either know/learn how to move around people or you don't.
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[–]ModeratorCaptain_w00t 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are no advanced social skills?
not in my opinion, unless you're talking about manipulation. you can improve in "reading" and/or connecting better with people, but that's a basic social skill that you can develop further with practice, by going outside.
Mystery was over 20 years ago. You should read other stuff.
you have no idea how much stuff I've read and studied at the university way before Mistery Method was a thing. I've cited Mystery because 99% of the PUA shit out there is basically based on that.
I think seduction is a process in a a bidirectional interaction, it doesn't require techiques. Mark Manson's "Models" is a clear example of this concept. That book is basically about self-improvement. It doesn't teach you how to text girls, what to say or shit like that. It describes the steps you need to take to be a decent, perhaps attractive, person.
[–]ModeratorCaptain_w00t -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, do you really think that giving credit to girls/women for their useful point of views here, which can be read by an average population of incels, desperates, kids without any social experience should be considered an overestimation?
LOL, not sure if yours is soft form of misogyny or just a Dunning-Krueger effect.
[–]Knotty_Skirt 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So she giving slow replies where does one go from here. I know I’m finna bump into her in college how do I act in this encounters
[–]bigdaddy1989 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Move on bro get abundance mentality lots of women out there to banter with and see where it goes. Don't get stuck just to one spread out.
[–]Knotty_Skirt 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Appreciate this brother. I’ll keep my chin up
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go get what you want or else someone will.
Anyone here know an active seduction server? Looking to provide value and engage with pro’s.
[–]Hot_Administration78 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I. Right here! Whatcha need?
[–]Masol_The_Producer 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but there’s a bit of victim mentality posts and sexism
[–]Smol-Turtwig19 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People will always have a victim mentality with stuff like this though. Either from a bad experience or from never trying and saying ‘why do women hate me?’
There definitely is, theres also a bit of this mentality that women will all thinks the same way. I once got downvoted here because I said I like when guys open up to me or cry 💀I told the truth but I guess people didn’t like it? Idk
[–]oiiOllie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Touch or get touched. You choose...
[–]NDex101 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth. I give advice and small insights. They can only cover so much. If you need more information and need a life-coach in the pickup arts dm me for business info.
[–]leftcoastandcoffee 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love happy endings.
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[–]YoDaddy1069 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmao, I didn’t even need to get red pilled to realize how true this is. I just followed the advice from women and then got shot down time after time, then I started noticing that the very women that were giving me the shitty advice were going for guys who were the EXACT OPPOSITE of what they told me to be. At that moment I realized that there is a huge difference between what women say they want and what they really want
[–]Garrret 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t worry king it happens to everyone, and don’t blame the girl who gave you advice she probably just doesn’t know what she wants she didint do it out of spite
[–]chemmyboi 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tbf most of them have no idea what they want. Also keep in mind they aren't all the same.
On the other hand, to contribute to your point, girls I asked are always like we don't find guys with a lot of muscles attractive lmao idk if they were trying to sound less shallow or what.
[–]relentless_pma 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Altho some of my threads got deleted I am happy I found this subreddit. Reading almost everyday about the subject.
[–]YoDaddy1069 -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Guys, you don’t need this. If you wanna learn how to get laid, read this. All you need to get tons of pussy is to go buy this one cologne they sell at Macy’s. The guy who made this is a genius, you might recognize his name, it’s “Bill Cosby”. Anyway, you buy the cologne, you spray it on a piece of cloth, then you walk up to the girl you like and cover her face with the cloth. Instant pussy.
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