Does it matter if woman find you physically attractive?

africanpyjamas69 · 2018-08-02T14:43:11+00:00

Being physically attractive gets your foot in the door but you will still 99% of the time need to take the same steps a less attractive man would have to do. You still need to tease, get her to qualify, etc.

Your problem is that you're attractive, which gets womens interest, but then you fail to capitalize on that interest. Learn to tease, flirt, getting her to qualify, etc. Be a challenge.

lobitaway01 · 2018-08-02T15:07:26+00:00

too long to answer properly.

Good looks are VERY important. The most important thing for getting laid from cold approach by far.

Good looks on their own and zero game CAN be enough, but you really need to be male model material. Out of like 300 facebook friends, I have 2 who can get laid with gorgeous girls without really talking and just standing there showing zero personality. Hot girls open them and escalate on them and they literally CAN'T fuck up. The girls attraction level is just too high (based on their good looks). If they are super quiet and boring, girls will think 'mysterious'. If he's talking loads of nonsense he's 'fun'. Everything goes through the 'good looking guy filter' so he can't lose

Just being FAIRLY good looking will usually require at least a little bit of 'game'. In this example, 'game' could simply mean showing intent. IN fact, that's almost the only 'game' thing anyone needs if he's good looking. Just most are too scared to show intent (partly fear of rejection, partly reading too much mystery method / hide your intent material)

But if a girl thinks you are ugly, then no amount of 'game' will make her want to have sex with you. That's why you see guys in the club doing magic tricks and card tricks and telling DHV stories about their yacht etc, and using teases and 'push pull' etc etc and the girl still rejects them in favour of their handsome friend who's just like ''so what do you do??....cool, cool......do you have any brothers or sisters? bla bla'' lol

Side note: IN my experience, some girls have weird tastes and will find a conventionally ugly guy, handsome, which is a rare blessing for us ugly dudes when it happens!!! Best night of my life lol

hunterpua · 2018-08-02T16:30:54+00:00

Being physically attractive helps but you won't get laid just because you're physically attractive and you won't suck with girls just because you aren't physically attractive either.

I hope your post gets upvoted to Valhalla so a lot of guys who use looks as an excuse will see this and be forced to confront their own denial.

Xanarxses · 2018-08-02T16:33:15+00:00

From the sounds of it you have a very active life AND you are physically attractive. You're lacking in social skills. There is that 0.001% of men that don't have to do anything but they're not worth mentioning.

As for ugly dudes. Depends on what constitutes as ugly or physically unattractive. It can range from bad facial features, bad posture, bad hygiene(The kind that shows on your hair) or you could just look fucking weird and out of place. Not even ugly. Some things are in your control, some aren't. All of these dudes will have it worse. How much worse depends on how fucked they got in the cards of life.

But sounds like you don't have that problem, thus you need to chill out, take a seat and learn to talk, make moves and all that garbage.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2018-08-02T21:08:51+00:00

Physical or more importantly, facial attractiveness, is a huge advantage and necessity for attracting woman. It sparks that all important initial attraction.

However there is still work to do and in your case, it's your conversational skills that are causing you problems. Get that area sorted and you will be golden.

At this stage though, take comfort knowing that you have the most important area of attracting women sorted out.

Fob666 · 2018-08-03T15:43:28+00:00

Looks are a prerequisite. Your problem is a good one to have as you can't fix an unattractive face. Game doesn't work if you'received nit physically attractive to her 95% of the time.

SongsForTheDeaf69 · 2018-08-02T14:39:23+00:00

A woman knows if she wants to have sex with a guy within the first two seconds of seeing him.

Joe_The_God · 2018-08-02T20:34:39+00:00

You have the same problem I did. I'm 6'2, handsome face, slim muscular body and I've been told I should be a model at least 100x.

...did it get me laid?

Nope.

You've learned, as I have, our physical beauty has almost nothing to do with sexual attraction. It's two different worlds.

I've seen women leave me for a man even they never considered "their type". I was their physical ideal, but who they settled with was far from their physical ideal, but he "turned her on" emotionally and sexually.

In my quest to figure out "how to turn women on", or create that "Spark" as I was told was missing, what I learned is that it's less about trying to create a spark within her, then it is creating that spark within you.

The way I did it (and still do it) is so simple it makes every pick-up routine, gambit, line, and the entire seduction/game community pointless...

...I meditate to high amounts of feminine energy which grounds my masculine energy, thus naturally creating that "magnetic force" we call attraction.

This 'magnetic force' is what draws women to me without ever having to cold approach. I just don't have to because so many women give you 'signals' that I don't have enough time to engage all the women who are interested in me.

These are your 8's, 9's and 10's. The secret is to reconnect to your natural masculine energy you were born with, and to do that, ironically, you simply mediate on natural feminine energy.

Women won't be able to control themselves around you. They'll trip over their feet staring at you. They'll stumble over their words when they talk to you. They'll give you those 'bed room eyes' and will make plans to take YOU home with THEM. And when a woman gives me a signal, when I approach, I just say, "Hello". And they lose their shit.

I used to be in the PU communty and I HATED going out approaching random girls for dates. It was always hit or miss and sometimes the rejections were crippling. Now, it's like a alternate reality. The life of a Natural.

When I realized that looks don't matter AT ALL (although a lot of guys who aren't good looking think we have this magic advantage - I swear to it - we DON'T!), I had to develope my inner masculine character and nature. I had to work on my energy and than women will start flocking to you like you'll never believe.

This process is called Natural Grounding. YouTube it. Do it. It will change your life.

GabrielGermanGuy · 2018-08-03T14:04:58+00:00

I don't know man. I'll give it a shot, but tbh it just sounds like spiritual inner game stuff.

I believe you that it changed your live. But this doesn't happen to everyone.

I meditate from time to time. The only effect I get from it is that I am chill as fuck for about 1-2 hours after. That's it. Some people claim that it will change your life. It doesn't change mine.

Obviously being in tune with yourself helps. But it doesn't equal having good game.

Edit: Nope Natural Grounding is complete BS i don't even know if people actually belive this shit or of its all a troll lmao.

richardspanther · 2018-08-02T23:56:55+00:00

How do you know "a lot" of college women find you physically attractive? Did you survey them or did they just make a declaration en masse? Don't let anyone blow sunshine up your ass: in one night stand, scoring/hook up situations, looks is the number one factor. It's why developing "game" is often a goal of ugly men, because if you're good looking enough, you'll be snacking on pussy all night long. You don't have to "game" women who are attracted to you, but seduction is very important for ugly fuglies or social retards who need to persuade a woman not to find them disgusting.

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Title	Does it matter if woman find you physically attractive?
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Date	August 2, 2018 2:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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