Does love still exist or is it all a game?

subboyalt · 2024-12-23T03:36:32+00:00

It's rare but it's there.

True love is where you don't have to worry about anything, not even having to explain or defend yourself.

True love isn't being tied to a soul it's like being connected free to move and yet you yourself come back not the string pulling you.

In the most basic sense, simping is true love weather you agree with me or not.

Love is the fire that gives warmth to some and burn others alive and it's on you to decide what happens.

That's why it's important to always make descisions with your mind but still ask your heart for advice.

BurnItDownSR · 2024-12-22T23:51:59+00:00

Game just made you understand how love works. If you didn't want to ruin the magic then you shouldn't have learned game.

eyhr7 · 2024-12-23T06:06:12+00:00

True love definitely exists but can be fleeting. It takes a lot of effort to keep it going from both sides, especially during hard times, and is pretty difficult to find in this world and generation. I believe everybody has multiple potential "soulmates" out there, finding them and making it actually last is the challenging part.

I've loved women with all of my heart that also felt the same for me, but after time you both realise there's things you don't love about the other person, yet you make it work, that's love to me, but eventually both sides can get sick of each other. Finding love is easy enough but finding lasting, forever by your side through the hard times type shit not so much.

LeftPromotion4869 · 2024-12-22T22:16:46+00:00

Even as a Muslim, one who believes in idealistic love, romance and a lifetime of commitment, I still cannot deny the universal truth that women were created to test men thus unconditional love is just a fantasy. This is a good thing, though, as it means a man with a spine and a pair of balls will be rewarded, conversely, the spineless coward punished.

If you put her on a pedestal, you deserve to be humiliated.

If you let her disrespect you, you deserve to feel ashamed.

If you deprive her of love, intimacy, and positive emotions, you deserve to be left in the cold.

Mc_Dickles · 2024-12-22T21:20:32+00:00

Yeah I think love still exists, even if I've been single for two years 😭 you just gotta put yourself out there and someone will bite.

You've probably bumped into plenty of potential girlfriends... but did you strike a conversation? Get a number? You still need the basics.

RadiantTry9442 · 2024-12-22T23:22:51+00:00

games always existed in some form throughout history. also you dont necessarily need game to find a partner but it improves your odds of success and lets you have that insider knowledge to avoid a bad situation.

Love or that strong feeling of chemistry or however you’d describe it is human nature. It likely wont go away.

KoleSekor · 2024-12-22T21:23:39+00:00

Game = attraction = love

nordik1 · 2024-12-22T22:24:47+00:00

My question is whoever said it existed in the first place? Most older family and friends i’ve known sounded like they got together through a hookup, meeting at a party, through work/friends, or accidentally knocking the girl up lol

Bumping into your soulmate without any games and living happily ever after sounds like a movie rather than actual human behavior

Exact_Ask_7547 · 2024-12-22T20:35:55+00:00

You need a game to do everything in this life if you want to improve your odds of success. Otherwise you will depend on “good luck”

riordanajs · 2024-12-22T22:46:52+00:00

If you are asking whether the old way of pairing, where everyone basically finds someone, has a crush and ends up together and dating monogamously is still true? This is rarer by the day. Basically about 20 percentage of the most eligible men are wanted by most women and attractive men will not commit. This leads to them getting most of the female attention, while bottom 30 percentage of men haven't had sex in over a year.

You talk about game and love like they would be mutually exclusive. In reality they are complementary. Game is basically attraction and that gets you the initial interest, and is a key to one night stands. Love is basically comfort and that gets people to stick together, which is also the reason why social circle is a good way to find a partner. Attraction only is shallow and fades with time. Comfort only in bland and leads to friendzone. You need both, in the beginning mostly attraction, in addition to which you build comfort if you want to cultivate a relationship.

PleaseDontBeTakenPlz · 2024-12-23T02:33:14+00:00

Both genders need game. If you’re chasing women; you’re probably shooting up and have low self esteem.

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-23T08:22:19+00:00

I would rather advise not to appeal to some divine quality of sexual relations. You wanna maintain sexual partner, set up a family, have a companion in life, it’s all fine, no reason to seek anything more when it is clearly about our genetical heritage. You may feel that there is something really special about your feelings, good for you, but how can you be sure that other person feels the same or there is different match that can provide you with even more? Keep it real, nothing wrong about it and truth will set you free.

HomelessMilkman · 2024-12-23T15:55:38+00:00

No one is entitled to attention, you have to 'compete' for it. Women want a 'strong' partner and you must be the 'stong' version of yourself, you must present yourself in a way that's engaging and worth paying attention to. If you stop, they stop paying attention like anything else.

'Game' is aknowledging the sustainable ways of captivating and maintaining attention, that's what 'attraction' is. Of course, you have to put effort into capturing and holding attention, all the time, but that should be embedded within your character; you become 'game'. 'Gambits' and 'techniques' are unsustainable, they are 'training wheels'.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2024-12-23T17:06:14+00:00

Hi

I saw your post and I felt compelled to reply because I have been there before...

I didn't want to use"game" I just wanted to be myself.

But the truth is like my mentor said , like in every species we re subject to a mating dance in order to have sex .

Sometimes the mating dance happens randomly, by luck , but if we want to have consistent options we need to learn the mating dance and make it happen regularly and consciously.

Nothing to do wit gambits or being fake, just following the laws of nature . And since humans are social creatures since they lived in tribes, the mating dance is mostly social.

What exactly are you having difficulty with when it comes to dating?

quinnstorms · 2024-12-22T20:37:13+00:00

With no game, escalation won't happen

erm-reddit-much · 2024-12-23T00:07:46+00:00

Yes, love exists. Love is subject to physical attraction and chemistry though.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-12-23T00:35:19+00:00

Thats like saying does anger still exist. Of course love exists and it always has despite some people claiming it was a recent invention by the modern romanization of love. Its a basic human emotions we have all felt many times.

Aggravating-Tea-5583 · 2024-12-23T04:16:39+00:00

dont let reddit, social media, those red pills podcasts convince you love isn't real. I promise you genuine love still exists

Ill_Preparation_6382 · 2024-12-23T05:11:39+00:00

Good question

ballfond · 2024-12-23T05:13:44+00:00

What is your definition of love? No two persons have same definition of love or god or spirituality so it depends on what you think it is

Physicist_Dinosaur · 2024-12-23T05:18:47+00:00

Numerous-String9679 · 2024-12-23T06:37:29+00:00

Love takes time, attraction is instantaneous.

7asas · 2024-12-23T07:20:26+00:00

Did it ever be like that? If you listen to people how it was in 90s it was pretty much the same. I started dating at 2008 and it was the same too.

54my8 · 2024-12-23T08:03:46+00:00

I'm wondering the same, seems nobody cares about others and that's so sad actually.

IncognitoBudz · 2024-12-23T10:40:30+00:00

Love is an emotion a fleeting feeling that we capture and share.

Respect however and admiration for somebody is longer lasting.

You require both in tandem to make it truly work IMO

dogbusinessman · 2024-12-23T14:29:21+00:00

What is love?

PrinceDestin · 2024-12-23T16:20:58+00:00

It exists but realize when dealing with women

The love can be as real as your hand

But it can leave just as fast as it comes

Girls fall in love quick and they could lose that love quick but that doesn’t mean it can’t be maintained long term

WorkoutBunnyMan · 2024-12-22T21:04:30+00:00

She probably has hundreds of options online. Your love is not gonna cut it.

Silly_Randy · 2024-12-22T22:51:20+00:00

Love is a fallacy

AroundTheBlockNBack · 2024-12-22T23:25:50+00:00

Romantic love? No. Lust? Yes.

The1WhoDares · 2024-12-23T00:45:28+00:00

It’s sad, bcz the introduction of O.L.D has given the world FAR MORE than we kno wat to do with.

I mean that’s why I shop @ Trader Joe’s. 2-3 options pick 1.

Unlimited amounts of options @ out finger tips. It’s quite ridiculous in all honesty. Ridiculously Sad actually

lemmylemonlemming · 2024-12-22T21:54:55+00:00

This question has been asked since Taylor Dane sang these famous words, "Tell it to my heart, tell me I'm the only one. Is this really love or just a game. Tell it to my heart, I can feel my body rock every time you call my name."

I'm kind of sure you're too young to even recognize that song because I am an old old man. But let me tell you, that question, my friend, has never had an answer.

Chiiiicckkeeennn · 2024-12-22T22:25:25+00:00

No fairy tales don’t exist

idontcarerightnowok · 2024-12-23T13:48:36+00:00

It's rarer and more difficult to find actual genuine love now, a lot of people out there mainly just want to have sex, hookup or have less-serious relationships or are not dating to marry or believe in "open-relationships" (which aren't relationships, just another term for cuckoldery and being a bitch.)

You can find that person you want, but it depends what kind of person you're looking for and then it heavily falls upon where you're looking, how you're looking and you yourself as a person matters greatly.

For example, you'll struggle to find people saving themselves for marriage in terms of no sexual contact at all until marriage (or even a serious and committed relationship) because nowadays people are moreso controlled by lust and their desires.

Dwerg1 · 2024-12-22T22:05:55+00:00

Game is what you run before you understand love.

Title	Does love still exist or is it all a game?
Author	ireadalott
Upvotes	34
Comments	37
Date	December 22, 2024 8:25 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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