I've been on a lot of dates and compiled this list in my head for men I've gone out with. Here are some simple, easy ways to make yourself look more attractive IMHO (I'm focusing on easy and quick -ish).

  1. Whitening strips for your teeth. Instantly brightens up your face and smile! You can get them from Target for $50 and some work pretty fricking quickly. Also floss and brush your teeth please :)

  2. Hygiene. For the love of God, shower, keep yourself tidy, wear deodorant and a small spritz of cologne (not too much) I want to lean in to smell you, not feel like I have to lean away because it's so strong. Be aware of your breath. A sexy man with bad smell is an instant turn off :( An average looking man who smells and looks clean and fresh and well groomed is 😋

  3. Trendy glasses! If you wear glasses find some stylish ones from a place like Warby Parker. So many guys I've met have glasses that are not super flattering. Play around with shape. Take a sister or friend or post here and we'll help haha.

  4. If you're losing hair or balding, consider products like finasteride or rogaine (this is not as quick) but also you can rock the no hair look too. It's all about confidence :)

  5. Wear well fitting clothes! And wear colors that compliment your skin tone! My first boyfriend wore red and yellow shirts and they clashed with him terribly. When you go shopping, hold the shirt to your skin and look in the mirror. Does it brighten your face or not? Feel free to ask a nice cute woman for advice haha they'd most likely be happy to help. Oh! And a pair of white crisp sneakers.... 👌

  6. Lastly, SKINCARE. Wear sunscreen, use retinols if you can. A once yearly visit to a good derm can work wonders :)

There's probably more but I've got to run to a meeting. Ciao for now!