Friend zone level: 99

Smegma_Torpedo · 2012-03-05T17:37:34+00:00

Don't concern yourself with what she's thinking
You should already be moving on to the next girl before being able to "kick yourself".
If you convey yourself as a sexually aware guy, friend zones will ultimately be avoided.

2012-03-05T20:01:17+00:00

If she's all over some other dude, just go for the other girls there. Make your own fun.

ARealSocialIdiot · 2012-03-05T18:54:12+00:00

any tips to help me "just go for it"

I know this is going to sound a little callous, but there's a reason it's phrased "just go for it." That kinda IS the advice.

ge99 · 2012-03-05T17:32:40+00:00

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rhcprocks · 2012-03-05T22:24:02+00:00

STOP THINKING!!!

Seriously, you were at a rave! Why weren't you having a fucking awesome time dancing and grooving to the music? Were you at the rave because you actually enjoy raves and dance music or were you there because you just wanted to hook up with this girl?

What it sounds like to me is that this other guy you went with was having fun and you weren't. Girls don't want to be with a guy who doesn't know how to have a good time. Standing around looking insecure is incredibly unattractive.

2012-03-05T22:00:17+00:00

Realise that how you might feel after getting shot down cannot POSSIBLY feel as bad as you feel watching her grind with another dude.

Make your move, or wallow in regret.

g1h2 · 2012-03-05T17:27:41+00:00

If you don't go for the girls then some asshole will be going home with her at the end of the night. Look at it like that it usually pushes me to go for it.

demione · 2012-03-05T21:15:03+00:00

liquid courage (alcohol)

ExtremistChristian · 2012-03-05T19:56:32+00:00

If you even suspect a girl has a thing for you, make a move. It screams alpha, and if she doesn't reciprocate, move on. The less outcome dependent you are, the higher your chances of a successful outcome are.

iNeedRage · 2012-03-05T22:56:48+00:00

Honestly, I agree with everyone here saying it is what it is. "Just go for it" is basically it.

If you really feel like you can't, then do practice runs with random girls you don't know or don't care about. Just go behind them and grab them. Do whatever the fuck you want because it doesn't matter. Of course you doing that to your friend doesn't matter either, but at first you don't think that way because you got her on your little imaginary golden pedestal. Adorable. Just find the mindset to just entertain yourself and DGAF. Gain confidence knowing whatever you do doesn't fucking matter.

Honestly you can fuck things up really fucking hard on one night with the girl. Take a time out (depending on how hard you fucked up) and hit her up again. Just casually hit her up. She'll remember how you fucked up, but her emotionally state will be neutral from the time out. And you can try again. I'm sure there's a limit to how much you can fuck up...but I mean if you reach that limit, you can move on to other girls, which is also good.

So the winning strategy here and the only logical strategy is to game the girl. Either you succeed or you fail. If you fail, you move on and save time. Fuck yeah for efficiency. Get that shit done with.

P.S. Practice runs on girls you don't have any attraction to are slightly beneficial, but if you want exponential growth, you just got to jump right in. It's like dipping your toes in the pool 100 times before you go in compared to just cannon balling off a dive board.

testudinidae · 2012-03-05T23:15:32+00:00

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Lucky_kelley · 2012-03-06T02:28:31+00:00

If 8 out of 10 girls reject me I still get laid twice. @GSElevator

SovietK · 2012-03-05T22:41:48+00:00

You are not friendzoned. You are scared of hitting on her. Don't put the blame on her.

atheistjubu · 2012-03-05T22:32:56+00:00

Just go for it. And when you don't, don't beat up on yourself for it.

Kush_on_thebrain · 2012-03-05T23:37:39+00:00

If this girl is a friend and this guy is a friend and their just dancing let them dance, once she's alone sneak some game on her. If she isn't having it dip and focus on having fun.

InfallibleBiship · 2012-03-06T05:15:36+00:00

Are you still interested? If so, find out if she's interested and, if she is, push the agenda. Simple. You just have to be willing to face the fact that she might not be interested.

2012-03-06T03:50:13+00:00

Alcohol, Xanax, and practice.

Title	Friend zone level: 99
Author	Lucky_kelley
Upvotes	39
Comments	47
Date	March 5, 2012 4:02 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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