Girls aren’t enemies

GracieFairmont86 · 2021-06-16T00:39:58+00:00

Women loved to be approached and talked to.

Matter of fact, despite what it seems, very attractive women sometimes have more trouble getting dates than their average looking friends because of approach hesitancy on the men's part.

There is alot of guys complaining that approaching never works. This is because they go about in a way that is cringe a.f.

The difference is motives. If a guy approaches with the motive of having fun, witty banter, a good convo will always be had, vastly increasing the chances of setting up a date.

If a guy approaches with the intent of only getting laid, the woman instantly senses it and her guard goes up EVEN IF she is looking for the same thing. Women need a classy excuse to get stuck real good.

The best way to not come across as having motive is to open the set by talking like you already know her, start by saying something you can say to a friend or relative show some respect, and create familiarity, but once she seems comfortable u got to mix in flirty banter to establish a man to woman interaction.

I get rejected as much as anybody else, but I very rarely have a bad interaction, I accept that sometimes they ain't available or we ain't a match, and worst case I made a new friend and expanded my circle. One I eliminated having expectations, I want to say rejections dropped by 50%

appmanga · 2021-06-15T23:00:46+00:00

That's a great attitude. Too much of what passes for "seduction" is thinly veiled misogyny. Why would you want to be involved with anything you hate? Good on you.

A_Suffering_Panda · 2021-06-16T05:21:20+00:00

It's very important knowledge to have. Dating is a team sport, she wants to go home a winner as much as you do. Many parts of getting good are just learning how to help her feel good about the next step. You can't possibly win if she loses, and you wouldn't want to anyway (assuming you were both capable of consent at the time). Sometimes people change their opinion on what is considered a win the next day or next week, but at the time all involved will always consider it a win.

_JasonX_ · 2021-06-16T16:27:41+00:00

Oh, so I can holster my 1911? OK

fastcarsandguitars18 · 2021-06-16T18:25:44+00:00

Yes absolutely woman love interaction and to be told we are cute and beautiful as long as it's not vulgarly.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-06-15T20:10:40+00:00

I’ve approached countless women and I can count one on hand how many blacked out on me or make a scene. It’s usually not interested or I have a BF when they say no.

Then I move on to the next chick

Former-Marionberry-1 · 2021-06-16T03:14:24+00:00

A below-average looking woman has 10K+ guys want to date them on dating apps. They can just choose blind to get a boyfriend that's pretty good looking and rich or has a big dick. Even if they're not on apps they still got tons of guys chasing after them in real life.Like in their work place guys gonna creep on them all the time. This is no match. They always got thousand times more option. No surprise they reject guys cold appproaching them. We just live in a era like this

Jakovitchiduminchi · 2021-06-16T11:46:35+00:00

Why? Do you people ever see girls as the enemies or robots just to seduct? I'm fucking baffled that people just realizes this now lol.

DapperDan365 · 2021-06-15T20:21:31+00:00

Yep, this is one of the great truths.

luisungido · 2021-06-16T03:57:13+00:00

you should move on both sides..You are the guy that she wants to have fun with but also the guy who made it clear it is also a "Man to woman context" You should establish the premise of that context not saying it straight in a literal way.. if you take too long to establish man to woman premise that will result in a ticket to the Friendzone you gotta find equilibrium take time in between the fun and teasing interactions to establish the premise .Then verbal escalate while softly touching i always use a phrase to escale " i reach out my hand to a part of the girls hair and then put it in her ear and say lookin her right in the eyes " You know what"i always do this the minute before i'm about to kiss a girl" if she says ok i get it! this ain't happening ..you reply "Honestly i would lie if i say i want it that to happen now.. when i liked you enough may be ..at the moment i¡m trying to find out if i do..The next thing that will happen.. it is the girl asking you unusual questions that don't make sense or even normal questions like where you live or if you have a son --that is the confirmation that she is responding well to your escalation..

EU-Howdie · 2021-06-17T13:29:13+00:00

Almost no approach is really creepy. When you do it in a nice respectful way and do not propose something creepie, there is nothing against it.

Choose a public place to go, where people are. And / or tell her she can make the choice where to go, saying ... where YOU feel comfortable and safe.

IN Asia it can happen that a woman wants the first time a "chapperone'. But even in Asia that is now-a- day- really old fashioned, conservative, that she wants to take or she has to take (from her parents) a sister or brother or another relative. I would agree for that one time, and after that I would say, sorry, I 'm looking for an adult woman and not for a person who is not allowed to do her own thing. So, one time, not twice. It is a sign, a red flag, that the family is very dominant and always will keep minding YOUR bussiness and YOUR relation.

thelambofdeth · 2021-06-25T07:40:50+00:00

Girls want to meet hot, rich or extremely charismatic guys...not average, regular guys...That's the difference. They already know a ton of regular and average guys...those are the ones that just orbit around her.

Title	Girls aren’t enemies
Author	whodoesntgiveafuck
Upvotes	54
Comments	19
Date	June 15, 2021 7:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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