Has a cold approach actually gotten anyone here laid?

MotiMorphosys · 2021-11-24T00:11:21+00:00

Multiple times. Typically it gets you a contact, then you set the rest the same way you would a dating app.

Cold approach is incredibly effective at vacation destinations. When people are on vacation, the stakes are different. If you are on a cruise, or in a big city on a trip and meet someone else who is also in that big city on a trip, your odds are very high of hooking up if you both find each other attractive.

I went to an all-inclusive resort in Costa Rica for a work trip. They had their own nightclub at the resort. 5 minutes after walking in, I locked eyes with a girl. We talked for 10 minutes, I suggested we go for a walk out towards the beach so we could get away from the music. We never made it to the beach. Straight back to my room. We hooked up every night I was there.

That would never happen unless you're on vacation.

That "what happens in Vegas" saying is very true.

DaydreamingMister · 2021-11-23T23:09:16+00:00

Cold approach straight to bedroom, no.

Cold approach to subsequent first date to her unfastening my pants on date three, yes.

brainenfuego · 2021-11-24T19:56:45+00:00

When I was single I worked commercial construction, out of town most of the year. I found myself working on an arena in a college town about 3 hours from home. Got to the hotel across from campus on a Sunday night, went to the desk to check in, and found myself staring at a solid 9.5 college freshman. We just talked about everything for literally an hour, (nobody bothered us, she was the only one there, and it was a Sunday night…) finally got my keys, went straight to my room, dropped my shit, grabbed the phone, and called the office. She picked up right away, and we talked on the phone for another couple hours, until she got off for the night. We hung up, and I shit you not, 3 minutes later I heard a knock on my door. As soon as I opened it, she almost jumped into my arms.

I worked on that project for 3 months. Every night after her shift she came and stayed in my room. EVERY NIGHT. I’d go home on weekends, and she actually came back to my hometown with me a few times. I fucked her in the bathroom at Applebee’s. She blew me in the movie theatre. She jumped in the circle rack of clothes at Macy’s and blew me while I “shopped” for shirts. We fucked in the dressing room. We fucked in her dorm room. I think I fucked that girl 300 times in those 3 months…

Fast forward a year. I met my wife. In conversation later in our relationship we were taking about a friend of her moms…just happened to be the mom of this chick I was fucking at the hotel. Apparently my wife knew her well, they grew up together! Small world…

When I was single and working out of town, Applebee’s bar was a gold mine for me. In literally every town I went to the Applebee’s, I picked up either the bartender, patrons of the bar, or a waitress. Every single time. Picked up two chicks who bought my dinner for me because I was sitting alone. They saddled up on either side of me, asked a shitload of questions, and we eventually left to go back to my hotel where I fucked them both.

Picked up a waitress at Applebee’s who I had seriously eating the meal she brought me off of my fork. My co-worker who was with me couldn’t believe it. I took her out to a movie the next night, fucked her in my hotel room. Saw her a few more times before I left Sacramento. Applebee’s is the shit, y’all!

therealbolder · 2021-11-23T22:50:43+00:00

It works, but it’s kinda like a gamble. Usually easier if you’re both a bit tipsy, don’t be too drunk tho.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-11-24T05:25:01+00:00

Nah. Most girls I’ve got had sex with was either through a mutual friend or at a party/club.

BayNoWay · 2021-11-25T14:43:25+00:00

Definitely possible! Most guys give up early before they get results. There is definitely a learning curve as you get more and more comfortable and each person will have certain mannerisms or traits that may be holding them back.

I’ve had some crazy experiences thanks to cold approach, for example I’ve approached a girl during the day time and taken her home within 10-15 minutes.

All very context dependent but in general you’ll have to grab someones contact details and then meet up with them at a later point for a date.

As corny as it sounds, just keep taking action, reflect on what works and be willing to test things out. Persistence is king when trying to learn cold approach.

mysterious-puzzlebox · 2021-11-23T23:26:56+00:00

Yes. But among mutual friend groups

green632965 · 2021-11-24T03:10:43+00:00

If you’re in college, campus daygame cold approach is the easiest way (other than OLD if you’re successful there) to fill your week up with dates.

wek141 · 2021-11-24T18:50:55+00:00

I met the the girl I'm kickin it with now by approaching her at a gas station/convenience store

timcloud101 · 2021-11-24T21:55:22+00:00

I had 4 dates in a month from cold approach.

Google-Kahn · 2022-10-24T20:32:22+00:00

big time. you don't just need to ask people online who have gotten laid, you NEED to find people who ARE getting laid from cold approach and get around them. I dare to guarantee you that without winging with them, and having them push you and give you feedback you probably won't get laid from cold approach, or you'll only get lucky here and there.

Mysterious-Pipe-617 · 2021-11-24T01:01:59+00:00

yes almost all my lays have been cold approach. my lay count is also >50. gets easier the more you learn about regulating your emotions and masculinity.

EstablishmentLimp477 · 2021-11-23T23:03:25+00:00

This question answers itself

TheCaribbeanRedditor · 2021-11-23T23:50:31+00:00

Several times. Both at least one same night lay and other cold approval that led to dates and later relationships.

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-11-24T02:00:33+00:00

Yes…

Stevpie · 2021-11-24T02:39:12+00:00

Yes.

delusionalubermensch · 2021-11-24T02:52:21+00:00

Yes. Many times in many places.

charmin_U_2day · 2021-11-24T00:16:28+00:00

Yea just went to a bar this last weekend literally tired everything this sub has ever recommended and it all worked. You have to be really ugly or weird to not pick up girls. Or under the age of 21

AK1010 · 2021-11-24T16:08:31+00:00

Yes, I only really tried two times, both times I got their contact on one of them I had an insta date to go meet my friend to play some pool and she (the girl I was interested in) and her friend came along and I set up a date at the end when I had to go which that weekend ended in hooking up.

One advise I can give is that get them to add your social, like I straight up say you got insta? You should add me and then I add a day or two later as this shows your busy and high value. Also maxx out gym and be in your masculine frame, I'm pretty good for a natural guy body wise and very masculine looking due to solid beard, eye contact and body language and speaking confidently.

But what's more important is if you have an interesting life and got your money sorted because it gives you you natural confidence which shows when you cold approach. Also if a girl not interested you gotta thank her for saving time and move to the next one but don't make chasing as the only thing important in your life. They can sense needy behaviour. Also talk to lots of girls and be selective on the ones that YOU like not what they like lol. Good luck.

Title	Has a cold approach actually gotten anyone here laid?
Author	TheGreatFadoodler
Upvotes	21
Comments	35
Date	November 23, 2021 10:17 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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