I have been on tear like no other time. 4 week streak of pulling chicks. Last night I pulled an absolute smoke show 10 years younger than me with fake tits from bar to her hotel room. And she was married.

I have always been hit or miss with pick up and game was pretty much non existent. Recovering introvert. Been educating and practicing a lot of last 10 months since my seperation. Recently hit a new level in game and is paying off. Something clicked where I’m finally getting consistent results. Will go over some keys to success from last night:

Approach - I went to meet a group of friends for happy hour (one married couple, one dude). I notice this hot chick sitting alone two stools over. Chummed it up with friends, laughed, cracked some jokes then sat down right next to her. Still talking to my friends, and talking about going to a certain place later.

I turn to ask this chick if she knew about the place we were talking about. First time she didn’t hear me cuz I did a crappy job of getting her attention so just repeated myself. Made a joke about how everyone was there and not where we were. She laughs. I’m in. Found out where she was from. Turned out I was there recently. Told a story about her hometown. Mildly interesting convo ensues. She is on vaca and I am local. Made a joke about how she is sitting here alone looking for a local boy? She laughs, and says maybe. I’m super in. Then introduce to my friends and make her feel part of the group. Then tell her (rather than ask if she wants to) “come with us we are going next door there is a band.” She is down and comes along. Friends were great wings and having a group like that especially with another female in it is super helpful to make the new chick feel comfortable and they go to bathroom together and shit. And the girl is helping prequalify me by telling the chick I’m aight. Plus displays social intelligence on my part. Prequalification principle of “this guy must not be a creep because he has girl and guy friends.” All good stuff.

Also, there are plenty of times I see smoking hot chicks and figure they are out of my league and don’t approach. This one could easily have been another missed opportunity. But I know is so important to just say something. The opener doesn’t matter that much as long as it’s not something weird and cringey. Situational openers are great at bars. If the chick wants to talk to you she will. If this chick didn’t want to talk I would have just moved on, but you never know if she is into unless you talk to her first.

Escalation - We are at the next venue with the band. Doing rounds of shots at a table and having a good time. I start increasing the physical contact- touches on thigh and lower back during conversation. I really believe that those two places do something to chicks and help build the sexual tension. Also helps in bars cuz they are loud as an excuse to lean in close to talk and listen while putting your hand on her lower back or thigh. She reciprocates and is doing the same kind of physical touch to me. Now I’m thinking to get her on the dance floor to escalate. Rather than asking her if she wants to dance, I just grab her hand and gently pull her to the dance floor without saying anything. She fucking loved that. Danced nice and close and hands all over eachother. Now I know it’s on. Lol.

Another thing I did that was effective was making a whole scenario about her running away from her husband so we can form the Brady bunch (we both had kids) but we need to have one more kid to have 6 and later we can go practice at the hotel room getting her another kid. She loved this fantasy and kept bringing it up all night. Kind of a little roleplay technique I guess. I usually try to do something like that on instadates so it seems more magical. Like one time with a different chick, I made up a scenario where we were on our honeymoon, and she loved that one too.

I also gave her a cute little nickname early on based on our convo, and kept calling her my babie babe. She loved that. Nicknames really help create the illusion of familiarity along the lines of acting like you are already banging them.

Then back and forth a little bit between table and dance floor over next while. Sometimes group dance, sometimes me and her. Keeping the flirtation in the conversation, close physical contact, hand holding, and keeping that going is what I’m focusing on in here. Talking real close to each others faces increases that tension. Then she gave me the look. You know what I’m talking about. It’s that mischievous smile look when they are down for you. I lean in for kiss and we are making out at the table. Then we go and make out on the dance floor. Then I start telling her what I’m gonna do to her back at her hotel room. She is all about it.

Close- We go to one more bar after that and I pretty much ditch my friends at this point cuz I’m about to pull. Got Rachet at the bar to where she was begging to go. She was super into the dirty talk. Like she was straight primed from the buildup all night. I mean I feel like all chicks are straight freaks that wannabe let out. That is why I am super flirtatious and use a lot sexual innuendos through the set. They love that shit once they have given you the into talk to them and then it builds the sexual tension which is critical.

So then pull her back to hotel room, walking distance. Spent night. Found out it was her first one night stand ever. Lol. Hope this little field report helps. You just gotta be manly- take charge, lead her through crowds, lead the group at times; funny- free association, no serious topics; flirtatious- sexualize every opportunity, get close man to woman; escalate- quick touches to hands on thighs and lower back, to stroking, to kissing, to full on make out and copping a feel, to sex.