How does a regular guy get laid?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-18T23:11:09+00:00

By approaching a cute girl as soon as you see her regardless of where you are and being fun, empathetic, charming and flirty with the girl in question and taking her out for an date.

You require good social skills, confidence, emotional stability, not taking yourself so seriously , and looking clean and presentable,

Little_Juan86 · 2022-03-18T22:31:22+00:00

Dude if you're not willing to put in the effort than it's never gonna happen.

2022-03-18T22:26:47+00:00

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2022-03-18T22:17:30+00:00

Just approach woman throughout your regular day to day life. My cousin met his fiance while they were both stopped at a red light. You can make your move anywhere, anytime.

The more approaches you make the more opportunities you give yourself.

MudFlaky · 2022-03-18T22:40:18+00:00

Go places where people are and talk to women.... Farmers markets. Malls. Restaurants. Library. Sporting events. Art galleries. You can even talk to girls at grocery stores.

HyakuShichifukujin · 2022-03-18T23:38:13+00:00

Don’t be a regular guy. Do whatever it takes to get into and stay in at least the top 20%.

The-Bull89 · 2022-03-18T23:30:55+00:00

If you want lots of sex with different girls without minimal effort, you need to pay.

Checkout local escort listings in your area.

Victory4Life · 2022-03-18T23:12:12+00:00

What are you interested in? Fitness, hiking, music, church, etc? Try to find a group where both men and women get together to participate in that activity. It’s organic and worse case scenario you’re there doing what you love anyway. You do have to put yourself out there some unfortunately but if you plug into what you love that helps a bunch.

swardhan · 2022-03-18T23:25:24+00:00

Stop Giving this guy a hard time. Please.

The boy is confused. General starter stuff. Go on.

onsutain · 2022-03-18T22:34:07+00:00

Don’t we all

interplanet-janet1 · 2022-03-18T22:55:31+00:00

It was a joke, but I was being truthful.

James_Bob_007 · 2022-03-18T23:47:38+00:00

Friend of a friend way, bars, online dating, approaching

anotherwayoflife · 2022-03-19T01:30:23+00:00

first, work on yourself
second, put yourself out there

dudethedrummer · 2022-03-18T23:08:14+00:00

Uhh…don’t be a regular guy?

interplanet-janet1 · 2022-03-18T22:40:09+00:00

Ask my cheating husband. He'll tell you

Kooky_Palpitation693 · 2022-03-18T22:50:41+00:00

That’s the neat part. you don’t.

2022-03-18T22:43:56+00:00

Become more than a regular guy.

BatBottleBank · 2022-03-19T08:43:28+00:00

Online dating

2022-03-18T22:30:57+00:00

I’ve never been in a club and i don’t want to go there it’s not my typa environment so i hear you but go and meet women outside of clubs anyways

PsilocybinDisciple · 2022-03-18T23:34:35+00:00

Ask a hundred girls politely to go back to your house for a buttcheek beat down and you’ll pull at least 1. It all about effort. Women won’t come to you, you have to go to them. Don’t be a bitch. If your as shy as the girl you’re trying to pick up, you already lost.

2022-03-19T01:04:18+00:00

Definitely stay on apps, girls get swiped by everyone, most of them don't probably need to pay for the app cuz they get so much attention, if you buy the premium for one month just swipe on everyone. Someone's gonna say yes eventually, maybe, i've been on apps for so long but, every now and then i catch someone haha

2022-03-19T01:44:15+00:00

I think you answered your own question. Exactly why would any woman want to procreate with average? If you don't think you are the top of the line, why should someone else?

Start off with getting rid of that toxic attitude and you have taken a great step. 😊

interplanet-janet1 · 2022-03-19T03:07:58+00:00

If he is, I don't know his username. He said he's not on here, but I have a hard time believing anything he says.

FullLifeguard · 2022-03-19T08:36:26+00:00

You'll never be able to get consistent hook-ups as an average guy with an average job. You need to get a high paying job in order to get a consistent rotation.

Also, there is no way to avoid clubbing/online dating if you want to get laid; You HAVE to use every resource available to increase your chances of getting laid. Your best methods will be Social Circle game, Nightgame, Daygame, and Online dating in that order.

Welcome to being a man lol. Most men have to work their ass off just to even get 1 gf.

lancer000 · 2022-03-19T14:20:24+00:00

The hurtful truth is, Regular guys don't get laid. If you wanna get lucky, you got to put in the fuckin effort and stop being regular.

bestmenrmenatbest · 2022-03-19T15:22:05+00:00

By being more than regular at some part of his life like money, looks, charisma

Jay-Ames · 2022-03-19T19:50:57+00:00

You basically write why you don't get laid. In order to get laid it is vital you become social. And with social i don't mean social media.

Most of my lays have been because i approached a girl or i met her through friends. And it is vital that those friends are social people as well. Because you won't meet people through friends that are not social.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-03-19T21:36:05+00:00

It's about being a high value guy. Girls easily fal for a high value guy if if you're still low value like the most of guys. It might happen I know it's just not that likely. Woman's work simply in that way. If you're cool she's gonna feel that you raise her social value if there's something between both of you but if you don't know how to like approach girl, how to talk to them without putting them on a pedestal, they're not that likely that they gonna do it. Lucky things might happen but still not that likely. It's a bit complicated so if you want me to describe it better to describe it just hit me up and I'm gonna try my best to answer it

fourwindsgold · 2022-03-19T23:30:36+00:00

Tinder or clubbing. But if you really are just average you will struggle a lot. Tinder probably won’t work well for you. Clubbing you have a chance if you stick with it for a while and develop some game and style. And if you get jacked clubbing becomes easier

Title	How does a regular guy get laid?
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Date	March 18, 2022 10:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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