How does one proceed after you find out she has a boyfriend?

jdaero · 2012-03-10T03:06:00+00:00

You respect the fact that she is in a relationship and move on. I don't go after taken girls. If they are willing to do something with you while being in a relationship with another guy, that girl has no integrity and I want nothing to do with her.

Murmaider · 2012-03-10T02:14:07+00:00

Unless her relationship is/has been on the verge of callapse, be prepared to be friendzoned.

"Anyway what am I supposed to do?" Move the fuck on.

"I am not interested in just quitting by the way" Then...read this:

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/oj4s0/boyfriend_destroyers/

thesockgap · 2012-03-10T00:55:13+00:00

Sounds like you're developing a bit of oneitis. Yes, if you want go for it, but be ready to bail at the second sign that it's not worth it. You already got the first.

Trying to play the long game with a girl with a bf will likely put you in the friendzone. I was recently in something like this, and I now think it's better to be upfront, go for broke and if she's not interested move on immediately.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-03-10T04:54:18+00:00

So what you do is check with seddit and listen to a bunch of AFCs whine about how one of their girlfriends got stolen. And then you go ahead and do what you want anyway, because you never let whiny chodes tell you what to do.

Don' t ask her out on a date. Don't make her consciously choose between you and the bf. Just continue, game on.

Chrisx711 · 2012-03-10T03:36:31+00:00

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Gordysmith · 2012-03-10T03:48:24+00:00

If she has a boyfriend, hang back, chill, don't give her one on one time. In the meantime, go see other girls, arrange other dates.

Trust me, if she's going to receive your game while she's in a relationship, she's not relationship material anyway.

2012-03-10T08:06:45+00:00

Friendzone her, don't go and fuck up their relationship, that shit is the worst kind of karma. If it doesn't work out, you can swoop in later.

SortaBeta · 2012-03-10T09:02:41+00:00

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KaiserReisser · 2012-03-10T01:42:21+00:00

Something along the lines of "Oh great, he can bake us cookies while we go on adventures!" or something clever like that.

Shohn64 · 2012-03-10T00:25:34+00:00

Just ask her out, proceed as normal. Recognize that most high quality women will have bfs (since she is high quality), you just have to ignore it. Also recognize that you have NO idea what is going on in her life. She may be constantly fighting with her bf and looking for the next best guy... Some girls just jump from relationship to relationship like that.

penguinv · 2012-03-10T03:06:02+00:00

Find someone else by moving on.

If you missed that moment, there's a wide world out there.

If she shows up again, well and good. You'll be having a great time.

Chrisx711 · 2012-03-10T04:22:32+00:00

Her: Sorry I have a Boyfriend...

You: That's OK I'm not Jealous.

calaber24p · 2012-03-10T17:53:41+00:00

very relevant http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OAdkdQsgQkU

bolxrex · 2012-03-10T23:23:15+00:00

Ask if she has any single friends.

theshitido · 2012-03-10T04:48:02+00:00

Girl: "I have a boyfriend" Guy: " I have a goldfish" Girl : "...ummm? I don't get it" Guy: "oh I thought we were both talking about shit that didn't matter"

60% of the time, it works all the time

colki · 2012-03-10T20:03:43+00:00

Cheesy but WILL make her laugh:

Her: I have a boyfriend

You: Really? I have a goldfish.

Her: What?

You: Oh my bad, I thought we were talking about THINGS THAT DON'T MATTER.

BasuKun · 2012-03-10T04:20:28+00:00

Depends if you want to be a PUA, or a Douchebag.

Like jdaero, I leave taken girls alone. I have been cheated on before, and it feels freaking bad, I wish this would happen to nobody. Don't be that guy that ruins relationships, just have fun with single women. There's plenty of them.

Title	How does one proceed after you find out she has a boyfriend?
Author	XXCUPZ
Upvotes	4
Comments	21
Date	March 9, 2012 11:56 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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