How effective is sliding into IG DMs + Proper way to do so?

nordik1 · 2024-03-04T16:12:37+00:00

Always wait for a story to reply to and say something that has to do with the story to open the conversation up and progress it. Keep it short and sweet and if it’s funny without being goofy, even better

The amount of girls i know that go on dates because of IG is actually more than any dating app, and the girls that think dating apps are for losers are always fine with being approached by a guy on IG (lol)

I’d definitely leverage it but you need to make your own profile look decent

SilentJoe008 · 2024-03-04T15:43:47+00:00

Watch michael sartain’s content thats how to do IG

Cantrillion · 2024-03-04T15:06:39+00:00

Not for you, sadly. The male equivalent of a woman's bikini pic is a picture of a dude in the context of a life of plenty. Could be boats, girls, restaurants, trips, baller hobbies, whatever. Think the picture of the Tinder swindler on a private jet. That's how he swindled. You ain't there yet. Go to college. Enjoy real life.

Tom38 · 2024-03-04T19:58:54+00:00

I usually comment on their story and try to go from there.

It might be a ha-ha or two at first, make some conversation, let it die, then maybe one night she's out on the town you see it you say "whats up lets meet up for a bit I'm out too" or just ask her out.

Just don't talk to yourself and be a creep or a simp praising her.

Ultimately depends on how well your profile is. I never post anything anymore on mine so I'm long past this phase plus none of the girls I follow interest me anymore. So I gotta redo the whole profile but thats just me.

If you look like you live a fun life then your chances of success increase. Alternatively shitty photos or family photos with your ex-wife and kids ain't gonna do you any favors.

Suspicious-Loan-6047 · 2024-03-04T15:22:12+00:00

If you lack the wealth or social proof the best you can do aside from being a smooth talker get a nice suit or thrift one and get it altered to fit you upkeep yourself and look sharp walk with confidence.

SwapInterestingRate · 2024-03-04T16:31:10+00:00

It works great as long as you have a good page yourself.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-03-04T18:18:43+00:00

Not very. Your time is better spent on dating apps where the girls you talk to already have some kind of interest in you. On IG, you're fighting an uphill battle and the hill is steeper the less optimized your IG profile is.

You need to have a lot of status to have any chance of consistent results on IG. This means 10k+ followers, really good photos, and an active profile. Will you still get results without any of that? Maybe, but it's just a total waste of time compared to other forms of game.

csmile2019 · 2024-03-04T15:38:24+00:00

DM’s typically don’t even work for established men because people see them (as you said above) cringy, scams, or some random person trying to sell something. I’m in the US too by the way. I’ve had more “key to financial success” guys and OF models slide into my DM’s until the point to where if it’s someone I don’t know-it’s an automatic delete. As for tinder, I’m in the same situation as you. I live in a rural area and even the surrounding cities are sh$tholes. Girls don’t want to match a guy 80+ miles away in the middle of nowhere when there’s 50+ goodlooking guys in their swiping that may be half that distance. It sucks, but it’s a hard truth. Get into college and maybe it will go well for you. If it doesn’t, it will when you get a job in a game friendly area and move! Focus on yourself right now my man. Build yourself. It may not seem like it, but there’s so much more to life than women.

ThotBubble · 2024-03-04T19:49:36+00:00

Not worth it … nothing compares to meeting someone in person and being able to touch them

Morty7654345 · 2024-03-05T09:32:50+00:00

Got my gf this way. She followed me randomly and liked a pic of mine so I knew it was game on. You can also do cold approaches on insta dm's but the success rate is maybe 2-5 percent. Still worth it though.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-03-04T16:12:47+00:00

when you are shooting your shot via dms, stop building comfort and rapport. Those aren't necessary for her to need to go on a date with you. Instead, do this:

Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next.

I ask her out by asking what her availability is to go on a date during a specific time frame and don't ask for a specific day, but a range (like availability next week). Once she gives it to me, I give her a location and time to meet there. I get her number, and send her a text telling her who it is

This discusses how to get dates on Instagram / convert matches to dates on OLD: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-get-dates-on-dating-apps-a?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

This article discusses what to do after getting a girl's number: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/what-to-do-after-getting-a-girls?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

Visual-Guide5473 · 2024-03-04T17:01:18+00:00

Pls don’t do this strategy. Yes it works but it doesn’t show any balls. So take those balls and go meet women IRL

7thdownhill · 2024-03-04T23:11:49+00:00

kyle_fall · 2024-03-05T05:35:38+00:00

How good out of 10 do you rank your current IG account? Make it at least a 6 before you consistently start to outreach to new girls. Other advice is making reels to grow your audience so you're not just some random guy with 4 bad pictures and 54 followers.

Dadood_Fromdahood · 2024-03-05T06:09:51+00:00

When they post a food story at a restaurant.

"I wanna gooo"

"(Her response whatever that is)"

"Ok let's go there next week".

Works everytime.

18cmOfGreatness · 2024-03-05T15:28:11+00:00

You can circumvent Tinder bans, there're many ways. It's way easier to do than adapting to Instragram if you already got some results with Tinder.

Training_Way6391 · 2024-03-29T23:17:52+00:00

I take it you haven’t heard “for everybody” by juicy j? There’s a few lyrics about it. It’s good shit. 😂

Sure, if I’m following someone and I see what they post and like, I’ve shared content with them, which has led to conversations and friendships, meeting up for events and shit. Yes, you can, just like any other situation. It’s social media. Shit was made for meeting people, likeminded people lol.

No_End_7184 · 2024-03-05T14:08:40+00:00

Just be your confident, sexy self. Engage with her like you would if you were out.

It’s so fun to receive cheeky, fun little DMs from someone new! Don’t be afraid to say hey

Like her stories, make yourself known, and give her time to like or follow you back.

Read the room and enjoy the vibe. Be yourself and you’ll have the most fun

Title	How effective is sliding into IG DMs + Proper way to do so?
Author	West-Arm-625
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Date	March 4, 2024 2:57 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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