How much do you get rejected from cold approach?

ObjectSpirited494 · 2021-05-02T19:54:16+00:00

Alot, like alot BUT high risk high reward. I met all my girlfriends doing cold approach.

SenorTonto · 2021-05-02T18:53:05+00:00

All the time. You aren't gonna bag every chick. Part of the game

J_Want98 · 2021-05-02T21:30:28+00:00

Literally eveytime I've (22M) ever tried cold approached it ended in rejection. For me, I find that it is a fruitless game...

Dating apps have been a little better for me, but definitely not great. I've only ever managed to get one date in my entire dating life and that was from a dating app, but that ended in me being stood up. So still not great!!...🙃

Medicine_Adventurous · 2021-05-02T19:01:04+00:00

It depends, if it’s day game then you can expect to get rejected most of the time. The best way to get girls in this day and age is online dating and the club/bars. Keep it simple. Day game is a waste of time imo. If you see a hot girl while you’re out and about by all means approach, but I would never leave my house to go day game at like a grocery store or something.

BBCinVA · 2021-05-02T20:20:49+00:00

Cold approach is low probability.

WanyCaleb · 2021-05-03T07:01:09+00:00

I love and hate how grounded and realistic the comments are. Nevertheless, live and learn amirite?

quantumactual · 2021-05-03T16:50:46+00:00

Eh, I’d say my rejection rate is 30%. So, 3/10 girls will refuse to give me their numbers on a cold approach.

How?!?!

You can’t cold approach everyone, or you’d look like a clown. Take your time, enjoy yourself, and make your vibe and presence known to those close. Then, take a few moments exploring the room.

Woah, what’s that? The group of 3 girls are looking at you and giggling? You see one girl in the back and have made eye contact a few times over the course of 5-10 minutes. Let’s say, if I were to go approach one of the girls looking at me, we’ll call that a ‘warm approach’, because in my mind, we’ve already made a connection through eye contact.

Cold approach: they haven’t even seen or established your presence.

Warm approach: they’ve seen you and sense your presence, and may be interested

So turn your ‘cold approaches’ into ‘warm approaches’ wherein you’ll actually have a much better chance at getting a point of contact, thus minimizing your rejection rate.

Very rarely do I mistake a warm approach for someone who wasn’t interested. Therefore, my rejection rate is pretty low. It could be high, yeah, if I went around the shopping mall talking to every girl i see, who may not have had the ability to take a measurable look at me and decide if I’m something they want.

ObjectSpirited494 · 2021-05-02T22:59:40+00:00

97% of the time.

The_Senate_69 · 2021-05-03T19:15:54+00:00

I never get rejected, can't be rejected if you never try lol

Looksmax123 · 2021-05-02T21:14:05+00:00

every time, as of yet at least. smoke a bowl to numb the self loathing and do it again. but I ask you, what's the alternative?? online dating is SHIT and incredibly low catch ratio for "average" looking dudes. am I wrong?

beepboop1916 · 2021-05-02T21:52:35+00:00

In all honesty, a female wingwoman would be your best option.

Neil1398 · 2021-05-02T22:36:00+00:00

A lot but it’s also gave me great experiences had I not left th crib

NDN2004 · 2021-05-02T23:02:38+00:00

Cold approach’s are good for getting used to talking to females and social situations, not really effective at getting the actual female.

90% percent of the time the female is gunna reject you, and when she does give you the number there’s 50% chance something’s actually gunna come out of it. Because when you cold approach that means she never gave you any chooser signals like looking or smiling, but like I said cold approaches are good for beginners and building social comfort

Medical_Reflection · 2021-05-03T01:50:33+00:00

Almost every time. But the more i do it the more I get laid

GoodMorningWanka · 2021-05-02T14:35:41+00:00

A lot.

kkdemma · 2021-05-02T14:49:59+00:00

cold approach works if you do it indirectly

kkdemma · 2021-05-02T14:50:24+00:00

commenting about a dress she’s wearing (color) or even about her hairstyle then you take it from there

SalesAficionado · 2021-05-02T19:30:23+00:00

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Swimming_Fortune · 2021-05-03T03:09:08+00:00

What counts as a rejection? I've done 5 cold approaches in the last week. 2 were rejections, 3 exchanged snapchats, so far haven't heard back yet from any of them but hoping maybe I will from the most recent one. I'm super new to it but it seems women give out contact info pretty easily, but how often do they respond/meet up from it? Not sure yet.

GoodMorningWanka · 2021-05-03T05:30:07+00:00

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Isaac96969696 · 2021-05-03T14:17:16+00:00

It's not about whether it works or not. Its bout getting experince and building confidence in yourself. So when a situation does arise where you have a shot, you'll know what to do.

dentistttttt · 2021-05-03T16:35:48+00:00

Bro cold approach works , you have to know how to do it

Title	How much do you get rejected from cold approach?
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Date	May 2, 2021 2:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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