How often do you think girls get aprouched?

TitoSJ · 2017-06-24T03:25:11+00:00

I noticed that friendly looking average girls get approached often, as informed by said female. I also have met quite a few girls who have never been approached all under the age of 24. In reality there are only a few girls who get approached enough for it to be a nuisance, having a guy approach them. These girls tend to be 8 out of 10 attractiveness, who also dress in a very appealing manner.

Long story short, don't worry about it.

PolaroidInfinite · 2017-06-24T08:43:07+00:00

Am I the only one going to say it? It's spelled APPROACH

Woujo · 2017-06-24T03:31:38+00:00

op is right.

Also most guys who approach suck at it so they are not really competition.

newng · 2017-06-24T05:28:29+00:00

That's what I thought too

And that was the reason why I was scared to approach when I was younger I thought only really desperate men approach women in the street. And whatever I will said to her she will only see a thirsty guy.

Boy I was wrong

I actually don't see a lot of guys approaching girls in the street and the only ones are usually pretty bad at this.

Zonem98 · 2017-06-24T04:47:56+00:00

8 and 9 rarely ever. If they do it's by drunk guys

applesaurus · 2017-06-24T04:39:24+00:00

Am decent looking, in-shape woman, my OLD account gets tons of attention, but in person I maybe get approached once a month to once every three months. Usually it's by an obese neckbeard. Go figure.

coftsock · 2017-06-24T04:27:07+00:00

yea its actually little to none, either guys are scared and/or assume she is taken

Bulk_king11 · 2017-06-24T04:44:03+00:00

Not often. Bc most guys are too pussy now days and just stare. Most women want you to approach. Or at least have the confidence to make a move instead of gawing at her. Say something. Say anything. Don't think just act.

You have to realize what attracts women and why. Women are primally attracted to confidence it's in their DNA. Why? Because back in cave man times. She was (and still is) programmed to find a man who had the confidence to go fight and kill a Fucking lion to feed and protect her child.

So when youre too scared to approach and your voice starts cracking when you go to say hi. Her deepest instincts are saying. nope.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-06-24T11:30:59+00:00

My cousin is probably an 7-8/10. She has random guys talking to her EVERY day.

mancozbi · 2017-06-24T13:47:46+00:00

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Liquorpuki · 2017-06-24T16:28:18+00:00

Guys harass and scare the shit out of women every day

It doesn't even have to be approaching, most guys who are incapable of approaching are still perfectly capable of acting creepy

Lot of women go through their day with this underlying sense of anxiety in response to guys in their environment and are way more attuned to who's safe/unsafe than us guys are. The more attractive/social/charismatic the girl is, the more she has to deal with this. And the thing is they're fucking polite as hell about it but if you want a empathetic conversation piece, bring it up. Unless you've ever had a gay guy bigger than you stalk you and keep hitting on you even though you've politely made it clear you're straight, you'll never know what it feels like

Have fun socializing and learning game but in your quest for self-improvement, don't be that creepy ass guy that's a threat to everyone with a vagina

cockycomedy · 2017-06-24T15:06:34+00:00

Maybe not cold approached, but approached non stop by horny guys trying to get laid nevertheless. "Would you like me to BRING YOUR PURCHASE over to your house when ready? You don't have to pick them up." <- that's an approach. And 95% approaches are like that. Wusses hoping something will happen if they shout "NICE ASS!" or if they offer something free, some help etc.

HanSoloHere · 2017-06-24T17:44:33+00:00

All I'm saying is this shit is really easy guys, there is no need to over complicate it. Not every girl is going to be into you, that's ok. Just don't make excuses and talk yourself out of it. The first few approachs are tough, it was for me. You have to build up your comfort zone, best way to do it is just jump in head first . When you go to approach a girl get your mind right first. I stop and clear my head, when I'm walking up my mind is blank, no thoughts no expectations. It can be difficult to do because you have to just TRUST yourself to say the right shit. You know what I mean? You need to tell that little voice in your head to shut up for 10 minutes and just enjoy the ride. It's not easy at first, but you WILL get it. Once I got to the point where I approached for my own amusement and fun my results skyrocketed. Look at it as if you are just trying to expand your social circle and meet new people. Try not to buy in to so much of this pua Shit on here. They Try to make it sound complicated, I'm here to tell you it's not.

iDidntReadOP · 2017-06-24T06:58:20+00:00

My issue isn't "has this girl been approached too much today" as it is that they are still bugged quite often by guys and I don't want to bother them more. My ex was saying how recently she was at a bar with a friends and a guy walked up and told her she had a nice ass, then just walked about. Imo that's pretty rude to do, and now the next guy that approaches her is at a disadvantage as she is already annoyed.

vivalarevoluciones · 2017-06-24T14:08:38+00:00

Thats why its good to be casual so you don't seem your approaching them, but in order to be considered casual you have to wait for the right kind of situation

mitsigan · 2017-06-24T14:29:31+00:00

Guys would make a move on my ex on week base if not more often. But as she was describing it they were all less than average looking.

It depends where you are from. I went to Italy with my female friend and she was hit on every night.

VDKay · 2017-06-24T16:42:55+00:00

To be fair, cold approaching is quite rare. If you take out of the discussion creepy old guys flattering even below-average girls on Facebook all the time, guys don't approach girls on the street either in night- or day-game often. It has to do with country/culture but where I live, girls tend to be a bit more bitchy than average, so even fewer guys cold-approach them. judging from female friends, I get that unless a girl is super-social/funny (and not necessarily hot), they are getting approached only by drunk dudes (and this happens quite rare as well). I have witnessed far too many times groups of 2-3 girls sitting on a table, obviously bored out of their minds, most of the time well above average in terms of looks, but not getting approached anyone for the entire night :(

if you prefer numbers, I can say that, depending on the venue, in most night clubs, out of the 10 group of girls, at least half of them won't get approached by anyone else but the waiter for the entire night (and I repeat, it does not have to do with how hot they are. It mostly has to do with how fun they look). 3-4 might get approached once or twice but will blow anyone off cause they came "just to dance", and about 1-2 might end up giving their number. In venues with a bit older people (25-30), these numbers go down dramatically.

On the other hand, what probably works best for people (since it is more within their comfort zone) is to get to know someone through common friends. We see this happen all the time, but we don't give it much thought because it seems natural. And you rarely notice it when you are out because most of the times you assume that they are in the same group. In reality, guys do approach girls, but they usually do it after they have established some kind of connection (to a varying degree). I have seen friends introduced to hot girls (friends of friends) and do their best to "seduce" them. Some tumble and fail, others do succeed, but the same principles apply here as in game.

SyrusDrake · 2017-06-25T02:34:27+00:00

Yea, I've noticed too that men in my usual day-to-day environment never seem to approach women they don't know but maybe that's because women want it that way? I don't know, you don't see old ladies getting their handbags stolen all that often but you wouldn't argue those who do it are better for it...

savagesteve_13 · 2017-06-24T04:11:42+00:00

Decent/Attractive girls get approached a lot. Fat girls are almost invisible to men, yet they keep eating, go figure. Black guys often go after the chubbies because well they like'em.

Ernest_Throwmeaway · 2017-06-24T14:52:58+00:00

Completely untrue. Most all the women I know face harassment regularly. You don't have to be a supermodel to be approached often. There is always a man ready and willing to go after you wether you're in a club or just buying fucking groceries. I'm personally approached by some creeps practically every time i leave the house.

Keep in mind, for these creeps on the street, it's a numbers game. You don't have to be a model to be relentlessly hit on by these guys. They're trying to shake out what ever they can get and trust me, there's A LOT of men who do this every day and they're everywhere. So if a girl is hesitant to humor you, a stranger in publics, advances remember there's a reason. If you're gonna try talking to some random girl in public, you're gonna have to be disarming because the first, almost Pavlovian, response we have is that you're a threat.

DaygameCoach · 2017-06-24T03:33:13+00:00

Women are approached very often. Yes, it's easier to notice (and more frequent) it if it's in a bar or club...but I have seen a LOT of metro (train), bus, festival, social event, coffee shop, and supermarket approaches. Women I've dated have been approached in daygame often. It happens, but do you look for it and notice it when it happens? Good approaches often don;t even look like approaches, but like people who know each other already.

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Title	How often do you think girls get aprouched?
Author	HanSoloHere
Upvotes	50
Comments	39
Date	June 24, 2017 3:05 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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