How to ask someone to “hangout” casually?

probable-deniability · 2024-05-02T00:43:48+00:00

Less words better.

But seriously, you don't need to add a "casual" quantifier because all dating is casual before it becomes serious.

Simply don't do the serious part.

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2024-05-02T01:37:35+00:00

“Would you like to hang out? Casually, I mean. Not too casual though! Hahahaha touches arm but also not looking for anything serious ofcourse, I mean maybe eventually! But not now!”

SirJerALot · 2024-05-02T00:47:22+00:00

This culture is fucked.

SaaSWriters · 2024-05-02T05:07:00+00:00

When you are both attracted to each other, this will come up naturally. You will feel a moment when you know you have to suggest the next step. So you can say something simple like, “Let’s go for a drink on Friday night.” Then you just arrange the logistics.

Or she’ll say “No” and give you an excuse.

Either way you’ll know is she wants to meet up or not.

If she does not, you keep it moving. If she does, have fun.

That’s all there is to it.

unswunghero · 2024-05-02T02:01:24+00:00

It means you go out on dates and/or hang out and do things together but don't expect it to last any longer than the current date your on and just focus on having fun, not talking about plans for the future and things like that. Whereas serious is the same thing but you do start talking about plans for the future, and also have a talk about being committed/exclusive.

achyut2897 · 2024-05-02T05:19:53+00:00

Be specific and straightforward, don't try to make up things coz you'll end up getting confused and will not know exactly what to say. If you have some kind of connection then you can ask "Would you like to grab drinks this weekend?" If she is interested she will say sure let's meet up then enjoy, If not then move on and find someone else. Its a numbers game

One-Hedgehog4722 · 2024-05-02T07:05:29+00:00

Personally, i dont think its necessary to give a label to hanging out with someone. I see alot of people talking about informing the girl of what the circumstances are surrounding a meetup. Just ask her to hang out, just like youd ask a good friend to hang out. Then you gauge her body language and make a move. You’d be surprised how many girls like you, and you are just mis reading signals and trying to get a verbal commitment, she might get nervous, think about it then reject the idea, then later they might regret doing that, but were just nervous. Get the answers you are looking for, through actions.

FlexViper · 2024-05-02T07:18:37+00:00

From my experience if you just simply asked in text for a casual meet up at a nearby mcDs or get a coffee and if they decline or say they gonna do other things means they're not interested even though they're still talking to you.

If they're Socially awkward or have some sort of social anxiety and shy is not an excuse for them not to hang out. Because I am currently talking to 2 of them who are not what you call a club girl and a social butterfly both of them rather stay at home and play video games till midnight.

But girl A starting to ghost me out of nowhere all of the sudden while girl B is actually interested in meeting up on one on one even though she hates being around a group of people. It's obvious I lost interest in girl A the moment girl B comes into the picture

Don't be an orbital walk away from those that decline or not interested in meet up and find the ones that are interested in doing whatever you asked them to do something

VrilHunter · 2024-05-02T08:59:39+00:00

If you dont want to be platonic without saying it, just flirt blatantly. They always get it.

garnageman · 2024-05-02T15:36:34+00:00

"lets hang"

"wanna hang out later?"

"free to hang later?"

something along those lines

also: the phrase "hang out" already implies a degree casualness. you dont need to specify that something is casual. just casually do it

Title	How to ask someone to “hangout” casually?
Author	OutrageousLynx2367
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Date	May 2, 2024 12:17 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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