How To Compliment Correctly

smackthisaccountdown · 2014-03-31T16:40:40+00:00

That first guy needed to body-rock or FTC or something. He was very... uncomfortable? It looked like he came over to compliment, not as if it was something that he noticed and felt like saying, if that makes any sense. Fidgety knee, too.

Lou__Crow · 2014-03-31T16:00:19+00:00

You should only compliment something if you know he or she likes it too. If you know your girl is insecure about her thighs, but you want to help her get over that and so you say: "baby, your thighs are so sexy" it will make her think about her thighs and instead of feeling more confident, she will feel insecure bc you brought it up.

str8nwheel · 2014-03-31T15:47:32+00:00

tl;dw: be sincere

tivooo · 2014-03-31T19:53:02+00:00

I think something important to point out is if something strikes you say it IMMEDIATELY. I've gotten great results when I see something and point it out. For example I'm meeting new people and this particular girl has incredible eyes. I was genuinely shocked so I said "Wow, You have really cool eyes, I like em" she smiled and we built rapport from then on.

WonderBoy59 · 2014-03-31T21:22:42+00:00

What was with that heavy piano music being played over the entire video...

Willbo · 2014-04-01T00:06:33+00:00

NICE BUTT YOU GOT THERE. DO YOU WIPE IT?

_Brimstone · 2014-03-31T17:05:51+00:00

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moxiedrinker82 · 2014-03-31T23:30:15+00:00

What I took away from this:

A girl can tell when you're actively playing the game. If you're just trying to get numbers and hit up every girl you see, each attempt will not be as sincere or impacting on the lady.

A better way I think of it is this: If you go into a room with 50 attractive women and you can only compliment 5 of them, what makes those women stand out? When you know your reasoning for approaching, you'll have what you need to start conversation.

(This is probably counter-intuitive to the "It's a numbers game!" and "Just keep asking any and every girl" level of seduction usually perpetuated here, but whatever. I stay subbed here for the rare videos like this that actually make sense to me and don't make me feel like a desperate guy who's horny 24/7.)

Jim_McNulty · 2014-03-31T22:15:12+00:00

There's a psy quote that has always helped me, it's best to make complements focused on something specific.

dduckg0 · 2014-03-31T21:13:46+00:00

Being real is always the preferred choice...when it comes to complimenting and/or showing interest to someone.

shitsfuckedupalot · 2014-04-01T03:37:48+00:00

I cringed so hard so many times

OnMyDaleCarnegieShit · 2014-05-17T01:23:08+00:00

video is private..mirror?

rhettdu · 2014-03-31T16:13:00+00:00

The thing I would add is to be observant and imaginative. Her hoodie might be a bit meh, and her shoes might be nothing special, but if you want to complement this bitch and make it work, you might have think a little laterally.

Look for the thing they've tried to emphasise and if you're feeling nice, give them a little validation.

I don't know how far this works for seduction, but getting this knack down will help you everywhere in life.

EDIT: If the only thing you took away from this is the word "bitch", then you're easily distracted.

knewlife · 2014-03-31T22:19:20+00:00

Good advice. When you feel the sincerity in you - so will they. I DON'T like drive by comments. I will never compliment someone on the fly like that. I'm too suspicious to gracefully accept a compliment from someone doing that to me. Even when a clerk approaches me in a store.. unless they are walking toward me or are directly next to me - I don't hear them. I ignore that approach. It's rude.

lovere · 2014-03-31T23:36:59+00:00

Is it OK to say like; your hat/watch is beautiful, I love it, 'where did you get it'? Or is it tacky/jealousy?

ollybabar · 2014-04-01T01:03:03+00:00

Pfff life coach...

2014-04-01T02:48:20+00:00

"Do you like her dress?"

"NO, I like her and just want to find a way to break the ice"

I wish this would've been addressed.

astrokidd · 2014-04-01T04:43:56+00:00

To be honest, the reason why I complement a girl is that I want to get laid. I know this is a basic message of "How to Win Friends and Influence People", but I cannot give a sincere complement to someone without having ulterior motive. Accepting this is honest and sincere for me, and I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

denart4 · 2014-04-01T19:56:51+00:00

The quality of this subreddit has been deteriorating alot last months. The people at /r/cringe will probably like this video.

busybenj · 2014-04-01T22:47:43+00:00

This dude is a fucking Herb. Good luck ever getting laid watching this pile of horseshit.

General_Pie · 2014-04-01T02:12:05+00:00

Seriously? Is this an example of what we on this subreddit are attempting to become? Because this was fucking horrible. 2 fucking weird guys making weird comments in massively creepy ways in a pseudo 'oh we appreciate beauty' conversation. Seriously, this is fucking terrible. I don't want to ever be these guys

maxweberh · 2014-04-01T01:12:14+00:00

rittenhouse pls no

memorystick--1 · 2014-04-01T21:08:29+00:00

just imagine someone you hate wearing that dress, if you would still compliment her. then you know you are being sincere

2014-03-31T21:58:20+00:00

First comment I saw

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lovere · 2014-03-31T17:41:41+00:00

My I add... Here in NYC if you gonna compliment somebody, you gone get the looks like 'bug off you Prevert... Get lost! And if the BF is why m with her you gone get a sucker punch for just looking... Just be ready for it. Unless your out at happy hour. And good looking...

Mr_Vladimir_Putin · 2014-03-31T21:03:01+00:00

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Title	How To Compliment Correctly
Author	inspiredman
Upvotes	230
Comments	58
Date	March 31, 2014 2:01 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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