I couldn’t think of a better place to post this but me, a fairly outgoing and fairly attractive (granted I’m also a gym rat) 23 year old ex-virgin just lost his virginity on a tinder date. And it was easier than I thought my entire life. I literally lost my virginity in a bar bathroom.

I was just myself. Easy as that. When texting this girl, I wasn’t trying to be slick. I just used general seduction rules while being extremely honest (although not about the virgin part). I landed a date two weeks later. During the date, I was no other than myself. I talked and acted in the same dorky manner I would with my guy friends.

Slowly we escalated via general flirtation, and next thing I know she’s holding my hands and we’re fucking in the bathroom. Of course I came early, not just because I’m a virgin but because I was nervous about doing it in a public place. I told her it was the latter, and she was perfectly understanding and comforting and agreed on a second more planned one.

Tl;dr I literally lost my virginity by quitting all the games and literally being myself, and in a bar bathroom of all places. And I would just like to specify that it was my first ever tinder date