I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyes

stick_it_in_your_bum · 2025-06-14T20:45:33+00:00

Play the eye contact game with everyone. Hold eye contact with them until they look away. Anytime you look away first you lose. Try to build up to where you always win the game. It’ll help you feel like these attractive women are the same as everyone else.

ChevroletAndIceCream · 2025-06-14T20:35:11+00:00

Look at their eyebrows

jmoney2788 · 2025-06-15T02:14:15+00:00

So looking someone in the eyes is a mirror for the issues you have with yourself. If you were completely comfortable with yourself, you’d be able to make eye contact. So make note of the thoughts that come into your head when u make eye contact, either fix those things about yourself (overweight, hairstyle is wack, etc) or accept them. And yeah like everyone else is saying, exposure therapy is king. I genuinely love looking at pretty girls in the eyes, it’s like looking at a beautiful painting, but it took me a long time to get to that stage

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-14T20:34:14+00:00

Try to envision them as your sisters. "Long lost sisters."

chamcham123 · 2025-06-15T06:45:08+00:00

I had the same problem and my solution was to look at eye contact practice videos on Youtube.

I looked at these two.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5w3cYtJekpw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aZmlS7n7Re4

Here are a couple of playlists for eye contact videos:

31 videos https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVS19wv_nqJwOiF_foW-QbH0xdpgjGaoi

16 videos

https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfEKqOAqLGd2kQ44ERAwQ8QWl_hV1cSyC

liftingnstuff · 2025-06-15T03:40:23+00:00

Unironically practice with non pretty girls and dudes. You'll get better at time.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-06-15T16:16:21+00:00

Hey, this is social anxiety, it's okay. This takes some practice. As you build up your self-esteem and confidence this problem will slowly go away. The fastest way to make it go away is through approaching women, that will change you real quick. See my post on "the principles of approaching women"

UrbanUnrivaled · 2025-06-14T23:43:30+00:00

Look through them or look past them. Or be curious about the details in their eyes that you’re studying the intricacies

Ok-Bug8833 · 2025-06-20T20:27:29+00:00

Have more random conversations with random people, like old people.

Then men your own age.

Then women your own age.

Then cute women your old age.

This is a really useful tactic not just for flirting but also for public speaking, or practicing speaking.

WinterArcc · 2025-06-14T20:53:02+00:00

Look between their eyebrows

bmcapers · 2025-06-14T22:23:56+00:00

Just look at one eye

Anonymous-Man-2024 · 2025-06-15T07:06:17+00:00

Self hypnosis will fix that quickly.

New_Banana3858 · 2025-06-15T08:54:42+00:00

hahaha what i do is have eye contact with everyone i walk by xD
Meanwhile.... it sounds kinda idotic too do, who the fuck cares.
at best point you're getting someone who's intrigued with you, or hate your guts.

Due_Newspaper4185 · 2025-06-15T12:38:07+00:00

Bro, they go to the toilet as well. Don’t let their genetic put u down, they didn’t do anything to deserve it, just luck.

Tough-Football9284 · 2025-06-15T15:06:42+00:00

Hey, what you’re feeling is totally normal. Try taking small steps—make brief eye contact, breathe slowly, and focus on listening rather than how you come across. It gets easier with practice. Be patient with yourself, you’ve got this!

Shepherd_Biscuits · 2025-06-15T16:41:18+00:00

Place yourself in their shoes. They may feel insecure amd inadequate.

They just as much feel shy.

The ones you find attractive. Others might not find attractive. You can do this. You got this. Be the man you wamt to be.

Or woman. I don't know. Peace.

FinnSplasher · 2025-06-16T17:47:45+00:00

Why? If they are pretty wouldn’t you wanna look more? Maybe you had some bad experience, and that’s understandably terrifying then. But I want to look at something pretty all day. I don’t care if I seem weird. Eyes may wander. Let your eyes wander too, and don’t think too much. Put your brain on hold bro

150420throwaway · 2025-06-18T07:32:21+00:00

Practice. Do it with everyone. Go for it in daily situations, I.e. you’re at the shop, look at the cashier in the eyes. Ask one of the employees where something is, boom, another successful encounter.

You need to think of it as reps, same as in the gym.

If you can’t lift 5kg, are you gonna try to lift 50kg? Absolutely not. Build up.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2025-06-15T11:11:38+00:00

Honestly lifting weights will help , go so hard that it wrings out all your stress and anxiety

BakulkouPoGulkach · 2025-06-15T08:43:46+00:00

more for us

go for the less pretty, they also need someone

Title	I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyes
Author	Any_Worldliness_9080
Upvotes	88
Comments	39
Date	June 14, 2025 8:29 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1lbiagz/i_litterally_cannot_look_pretty_girls_in_the_eyes/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/i-litterally-cannot-look-pretty-girls-in-the-eyes.1555001 https://theredarchive.com/post/1555001

Comments