If dating gurus were honest then I wouldn’t be writing this right now but I’m sick of seeing guys being misled by an illusion of what it takes to attract women, especially since I used to be one of those guys.

I have personally watched tons of videos and read tons of articles promising me how if I say these magical words I will “get the girl”.

Or sometimes I’d watch a video and it would tell me to just be myself.

Then I’d read another article which will tell me I need to be cocky and funny.

I listened to the advice these guys gave, I tried it out for myself and I quickly realized that all that advice is bullshit.

There is no magical words that will make women fall for you. Trying to be cocky and funny doesn’t work if it’s not coming from an authentic place.

Just being myself obviously didn’t work because that’s what I was doing for most of my life and I was certainly underachieving when it came to women.

I kept searching until I found some dating experts who knew what the hell they were talking about when it comes to attracting and picking up women.

I began to take their “real” advice, and things changed.

I started getting results.

I became more attractive after developing new-found confidence and skills.

No longer would I have to rely on luck to meet women, because I could literally go out to a mall or populated venue and meet and attract beautiful women at will.

I realized that the key to getting anything you want in life whether it’s more women, more money, or more success, it all comes down to becoming more valuable.

Every day you need to be increasing your value to the world.

Ask yourself, “how can I become so valuable that I can’t be replaced?”

The more irreplaceable you become, the more attractive you will become.

Which athletes get paid the most money?

Which movie stars get paid the most money?

Which men attract the most women?

It’s always the most valuable men that get the best of the best.

You must be able to exchange value for value.

If you want something, you need to have equal or better value to whatever it is that you want, and you must be able to prove it.

There are people who walk around thinking they are the shit but they don’t have a pot to piss in.

You don’t get to decide how valuable you are, the world will let you know by reciprocation.

Your ability to get results and achieve success in your life will be based on your ability to give value.

Think about that…..