I find it very hard to approach girls in person, I still feel a little awkward.

I work in sales, I like creating something out of nothing, building the interaction and working through the processes.

I've become very efficient to tinder, it goes a little like this:

  • Talk to a girl on tinder
  • generate massive amounts of interest within 5-10 messages
  • get her number, call her with in a few hours (even made a little script I use which works wonders) which is aimed at connecting with her emotionally

Before a girl meets me in person she is already excited to meet me, this makes it much easier to sleep with her.

I've probably slept with 17 girls in the past 11 months from tinder and I've been exclusive for about 3 of those months.

I mainly sell over the phone and by email so those are my strong points, I'm not very good in person so thats why it helps that the girl likes me before I meet her in person.

I can't approach girls in clubs, bars or on the street. I feel like I can only use tinder and it's my huge crutch, does anyone here feel the same way?

Update: it's October 2017 and I've realised that in person I'm actually good if not better over text and call. I can make a girl dream of a future between us just in our first conversation