Is race a factor is seduction?

changeh · 2013-08-15T23:21:44+00:00

I'm an Oriental Asian who deals almost exclusively with white chicks. In my experience, race matters so little, it's not something that I even remotely consider. It seems that race only matters when the guy pities himself for being a particular race, and that it's the self-pity that's the turnoff, not his race.

It's the same thing with being short, bald, overweight, etc. It's only a problem if you make it a problem. Everyone has their problems.

I just tend to think in my head "oh she won't like me cause I'm Asian".

You know what that's called? A self-fulfilling prophecy.

Gelnn · 2013-08-15T16:39:04+00:00

Yes. It's a factor. It polarizes people more quickly. If you present a personality that is counter to the stereotype, that can be a huge advantage.

readonlyuser · 2013-08-16T00:45:58+00:00

There are few things cooler than a minority who strongly trends against stereotypes, like a big, agressive and social asian guy or a well-dressed punk rock Indian dude, etc. If you can play against stereotypes in a sexy way, it's pretty much even stevens with the traditionally acceptable guys.

jimmyayo · 2013-08-15T16:46:06+00:00

Yes it does. There's a great article regarding the role of race and how to use it for your game in the sidebar links.

itsmevichet · 2013-08-15T18:14:34+00:00

Race is a factor in attraction. Like what you're wearing, how tall you are, your posture, and anything someone can see or hear about you without talking to you first, it gives an impression.

It's not everything, though. You've just gotta be aware of it, and be prepared to handle people's preconceptions.

BoomBumper · 2013-08-16T01:23:17+00:00

More or less just another obstacle. But I like to think that I am charming enough to bypass it.

Mo_Lester69 · 2013-08-15T16:29:26+00:00

my college is as un-diverse as it gets. White people everywhere, and i had my issues at first but i guess i kind of like it now that i'm a little different. a different perspective, a few different things to talk about, and although i haven't pulled there yet, i like to think that i'm an exotic being on campus.

its all about the mindset. think like you're one of a kind, not some outsider trying to fit in. think like you're the man, a trophy for the white girls you like, and you'll act on it and you'll be more gucci than kanye son

psyocal · 2013-08-16T06:41:36+00:00

To an extent, I know several guys (one brown, one Filipino and one is some Asian mix). They are all very good with women, and one of the guys is very short. I think it varies on where you live. Closed minded communities are a disaster. It's getting better though.

changeh · 2013-08-19T14:43:57+00:00

Is there a specific reason your only interested in white chicks? Because if so maybe that's the problem I used to he the same way i was only interested in white chicks but now that I've changed my mindset to I'll date any girl as long as I'm attracted to her and I've seen a great increase in my success!

2013-08-15T23:51:38+00:00

Yeah, yeah it is.

Listen, I'm all for seeing interracial couples, if they're happy, then so be it. But I gotta be honest, I ain't a fan of dark chocolate.

Asian girls are hit or miss. Sometimes they don't shave their nether regions and it's luck sucking on chewbacca down there. For that reason I am hesitant about asian chicks, but not against them.

changeh · 2013-08-15T16:05:29+00:00

It is if you think it is in your head.

Luftwaffe88 · 2013-08-15T23:41:13+00:00

Like I said on some other thread earlier

If girls don't want to date out of their race don't make them.

Title	Is race a factor is seduction?
Author	changeh
Upvotes	5
Comments	38
Date	August 15, 2013 4:03 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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