Just one question: How the hell do I stay out of the friendzone???

MatingAdvice · 2021-02-01T18:14:01+00:00

By progressing the relationship. Go for the date, the kiss, the sex. Don't waste months talking/texting.

xtc20271 · 2021-02-01T20:22:11+00:00

By making it clear from the get go that you're not trying to be friend zoned. That's how! A guy that is not friend zoned is a guy who by his energy makes it clear that although things may not be happening now, it could. You can be a girls friend and still not be friend zoned by your energy.

The key is make how you behave via your confidence, clear that you are always in play.

whatskeeping · 2021-02-01T14:45:10+00:00

Ghosting helps. Be unavailable.

brandosrealm · 2021-02-01T21:21:10+00:00

The best way to avoid the friendzone is estbalishing that you want an intimate connection from early on in the relationship, before she sees you as a platonic friend. I usually don't recommend confessing feelings because it puts you in a submissive position to her. For example, let's say you are to confess and she doesn't reciprocate the feelings then you're in an awkward position that can subject you to being used to fuel her ego while she chases the guy she actually wants. The only time that I encourage confessing is if you are certain that she is showing you the signs that she likes you too. With that being said, shoot your shot and if she doesn't have mutual feelings then it's onto the next one.

mightymite88 · 2021-02-02T00:00:14+00:00

be direct. if you dont wana be friends; dont be friends. shoot your shot and then accept rejection gracefully and move on. dont linger around like a sad clown

Fluganaveggnum · 2021-02-01T14:32:54+00:00

It depends on what you mean by the word friendzone. If it just means that you two are frienda and nothing more right now then you can jump in and out of the friendzone. If you mean the popular use of the word "This girl doesn't think I'm attractive but likes me as a friend" Then find another girl that finds you attractive and wants you

FiRSt8525 · 2021-02-02T03:27:28+00:00

If things aren't progressing to a more physical relationship by the 3rd date then she is just not into you. Ditch the bitch and stop being her emotional tampon or her free night out.

If you are going to fish, fish where the big fish are. Change your dating scene. Highly recommend Slavic or European women. They are a lot more feminine then the pigs from the USA. Trust me you will not have problems like this.

Checkout the following dating website

travelgirls.com

You won't be disappointed.... seriously.

Kairiyuna · 2021-02-01T15:26:35+00:00

if u want her to not put you in the friendzone, then make a move! you can try to hold her hands, be bold and ask her out on a date, or tell her u find her attractive. you do something or she will make the decision for you. if she doesnt reciprocate, you can move on. shes not the only one for you

MartMillz · 2021-02-01T16:41:46+00:00

The best way to avoid the friendzone is to demonstrate sexual interest early and let her realize that you will make advances if given the opportunity.

That will immediately force her to return some level of interest or essentially categorize you as someone to be avoided.

Neither of these results is the friendzone. Both are positive results for you however as you either get escalation or closure.

If this is someone you might never see again it is urgent to demonstrate interest at the first meeting. If this is someone who is in your extended network you should be more delicate about your advances.

DanyyBoyy · 2021-02-01T23:24:01+00:00

The simple answer is to be clear about / own your intention to have sex.

Player077 · 2021-02-02T02:30:30+00:00

Show sexual interest. Never hide it. Flirt, seduce and drive everything towards sex. Set your boundaries. Never accept any offers, hoping that one day.. If she doesn’t accept you as a MALE, then walk away. And NEVER BE AFRAID OF OFFENDING OR LOSING HER!

Long story short - MY WAY OR THE FREEWAY.

Ps: NEVER FORGET THAT ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER.

HandsumSquidwerd · 2021-02-01T17:09:13+00:00

Make moves sooner than later, and be direct about your intentions. Don’t give “friend vibes”
Don’t remain friends with somebody who wants to be just friends when you want more

Josh52728 · 2021-02-02T07:02:40+00:00

Show more sexual intent

gwp1999 · 2021-02-02T13:42:14+00:00

There is a fifth dimension, beyond that which is known to man. It is a dimension as vast as space and as timeless as infinity. It is the middle ground between light and shadow, between science and superstition, and it lies between the pit of man's fears and the summit of his knowledge. This is the dimension of imagination. It is an area which we call, The Friend Zone.

Rinobu · 2021-02-02T13:52:29+00:00

The simple and truest answer to this is just have alot of things and money, that's all anyone wants and if you have them you'll have no problem having companionship, just abandon any thoughts of being wanted for who you are because no one actually wants someone for who they are, just what they have materially, who you are only matters if you have all the material things they want, and only in the sense that it makes taking them from you more enjoyable for them...

Good luck..

2dice1hand · 2021-02-03T21:07:56+00:00

You have to fuck your way out of the friend zone

Praetorian1005 · 2021-02-01T23:00:31+00:00

Please put yourself first! Do not wake up every morning and grab your phone just to see if she texted you. Put yourself first! Stop thinking about her 24/7. Do the things you want and have to do, then look to her. Chances are (if she is a reasonable person)she is doing the same thing. Let it happen naturally like it's supposed to happen, and you will be more confident in knowing when to act.

Specialist-Target-70 · 2021-02-01T23:36:54+00:00

if you're in the friendzone its because they don't want to be with you. so the easiest method is going after people who clearly want to be with you

swagnake · 2021-02-03T06:30:59+00:00

Be attractive. I know at lot of other comments were practical and helpful for you as well, so I'm gonna add some more vital advices for you. No matter how confident you are or how clear you have show her your actual intention, you would still get friendzoned by the girl if she isnt attracted to you, basically, it's a subtle way of women(also men as well) to reject people without being rude. Get fit, dress well, have good hair and take care of your skin,facial hair. Then just be confident and made it clear that you want her as a woman not a friend, but don't be straightforward when you have just known each other. And you are good to go, be prepared that you would still get rejected a couple of times, everyman has their failed shot, even the most attractive and skilled would not score 10 out of 10 times.

Diaz_Bros_Real · 2021-02-01T15:42:22+00:00

Establish Connection. (Rapport & frame control)

Demonstrate Value. (Show your personality via cold reading and routines)

Disqualify. (That phase is super crucial)

Seeding. (Make sure you first complete previous three steps perfectly)

And then give her great Sex. Pay attention to what she's saying before you make a move. Read her & act accordingly.

If she got a boyfriend, leave her alone. Move on to a next target.

mainmommie · 2021-02-02T04:04:11+00:00

Attitude adjustment needed. Just go and make it a great time. It might be so great that you will end up in bed. Start worrying when you're having a terrible time. That was an easy one...

Title	Just one question: How the hell do I stay out of the friendzone???
Author	rathero3
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Date	February 1, 2021 2:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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