I don't plan to tell you my life story or whatever to add authority to my words, just try it out and you'll know if it works or not.

Pickup and seduction have one fundamental flaw which makes you needy - that is mentality of chasing girls. You approach her to get sex from her and using different tools (be it outer or inner game) to achieve this. This not only affect your results, it also make process of getting girls emotionally taxing to you.

This is why you could see some posts here and there in which guys tell you : "Do not go chasing butterflies, tend to your own garden and the butterflies will come. (c)" in one form of another. You are probably already heard such advices like "just become best version of yourself - lift, have cool style and lifestyle, a lot of friends and passions in life and then girls will love you". I personally think those advices useful, but they are also BS at the same time. All those things could make your life better, but never should you do all of this for the sake of getting girls.

There is a contradiction exist - if you just wait to girls start chasing you then even if you are awesome there wouldn't too much of them. And if you take initiative to get girls then you are coming from chaser mentality which makes you needy. Here is how I solved it for myself:

I make a decision what I would have sex with a cute girl and will take necessary action until this achieved. And so this result already pre-determined with this decision, it is only a matter of time. The question here is who this girl would be and it is up to me to choose. When I approach one particular girl I don't need anything from her. I'll get what I want anyway, it doesn't really matter for me if it would be her, or some other girl. But this isn't case for her, because if it would be her whom I choose then she could get whatever value I have and she can take, but if I choose other girl then she'll get nothing, in some sense she will "lose" to this other girl. My results don't depend on her, they depend on me. And her results depend on me as well. I could walk away at any moment. I'm completely fine with her leaving at any moment as well.

You could have noticed what there is one thing what indeed depend on a girl - time. If you'll end up with first girl you approached (rather than one hundred first) it will save you a lot of time. But for our brain "time" doesn't matter so much, more important is "effort". So you'll see what while implementing such mindset you'll make less efforts - and you'll get more results as well. And with more experience and self-development you'll start to getting what you want faster and faster, so in the end it depends on you as well.

p.s. I'm Russian native so PM me if my grammar somehow "off".