Repost Does height matter?

greatestaccounteva · 2015-08-19T13:36:57+00:00

Women are attracted to height, you will have more opportunities when you're taller. But you won't lose anywhere near ALL the opportunities.

There, that's it. Now make the most out of what you've got. That starts with not staying on this issue for too long.

Murfdigidy · 2015-08-19T14:06:22+00:00

Yea does height matter sure, but so do big boobs and there are plenty of girls who don't have big boobs.

I've seen some very short men with some smoking hot girls, enough said. Your confidence will add 6 inches to your height, girls respond more to how a man carries himself than the way he looks... fact

Dyablo66 · 2015-08-19T15:28:15+00:00

I'm 5'5. Height does matter, but it's not the only thing. It's just a piece of the great jigsaw of being attractive. You can make up for it with style, being fit and primarily good game and confidence. Most guys are taller but put zero effort in their appearance and have no game or confidence so you can still be better than most of them in any room you'll enter. Also I think it matters where are you from - I heard much stories about being at big disadvantage if you're short in US, while I'm from Europe and girls don't seem to give a fuck if you're at least their height and I had some taller ones hot on me as well. Still, don't let that deter you as this might as well be just massive frustrated guys whining - just be a badass in every area you can improve and you'll be fine :)

GrayFoxHound15 · 2015-08-19T14:06:37+00:00

take a look at the videos of this guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wy5HFFm6KL4

DaygameCoach · 2015-08-19T14:23:25+00:00

Everything matters including height but confidence, solid game, and assertiveness can get you a long way. That said, the fact that you are posting this shows that in your head, height really is an issue. It's called a self-limiting belief. I'm 5'6 and I do well. But, I don't consider height an issue and never did. I think of attraction with women being about how you make them feel.

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TheXXL · 2015-08-19T15:25:39+00:00

I'm asking this again because I wanted a larger share of opinions from guys my height

Looks more like you want to hear: "You are not tall enough, forget ever getting a girl".

Just stop thinking about it, whatever people say, sometimes it can matter, most times it doesn't. It's like with guys looking like models, some women get off on it, others don't. You will never get every woman you want, but you can try, and you'll see what you can get.

Peckerdick · 2015-08-19T15:41:20+00:00

Yes, it matters. Just like how dozens of other physical qualities matter. What's important to realize is that height is not all that matters.

Height is one of the more important things to women, so shorter men need to make sure they are paying attention to the things that they can actually control. Make sure you're hitting the gym and dressing as well as you are able. Make sure you've got a rockin' hair style, stand fucking tall and confidently, hold your head up, and look women straight in the eyes.

You will get rejected because of your height, just like how I get rejected because of my sort of weird smile. All men get rejected for something outside of their control. Deal with it and move on.

TCr0wn · 2015-08-19T15:44:15+00:00

I feel you brother. Unfortunately yes, being 5'4 is going to hurt you when it comes to creating attraction. It is by no means impossible, i've seen some short guys end up with really seriously legit girls. If you focus on it you will radiate insecurity.

I suggest you do what i personally do: date shorter girls, never comment on my own height, neg women who are tall.

At 5'7 ive picked up girls over 6', dont let it hold you back!

J_Dilla_ · 2015-08-19T16:38:34+00:00

It's a numbers game. Height just makes the numbers game a little easier. It matters, but it's not the be all and end all.

thisisjacobc · 2015-08-19T17:28:06+00:00

Height matters.

aldo5408 · 2015-08-19T19:09:40+00:00

Hey height does matter and it makes the odds a little bit more in your favor. But if you have charisma or are attractive then you can compensate.

Byizo · 2015-08-20T01:52:29+00:00

Height matters. Dick size matters. Facial features, skin color/tone, ethnicity all matter. But you can't change any of those things so quit worrying about it and be confident with what you have. Own it. Make it apparent that you aren't shaken because she is taller than you. Confidence can "make up" for being short.

omziraal · 2015-08-20T02:20:39+00:00

Of course it does. Everything matters. I'm 6" for example and I feel insecure about it because all of my friends are somehow taller than me. One time I was going on a date with a girl and after the date she messaged me, insulting my height because she's seen guys that are much taller. It pissed me off, but I didn't react and stuck around for a few more dates, in the end I cut it off because I'm not going to waste my time with a girl that's going to insult me physically when she's not perfect herself. My point is don't waste your time with people that can't accept you for who you are, mentally and physically.

Turlast · 2015-08-20T05:07:10+00:00

Yes, it definitely matters. Should you care? Nope. Why? Because unless you're planning on getting leg lengthening surgery, then you're going to be the height you are forever.

Your height is just one part of what makes you. There'll be plenty of women who won't be into you because of it, but many don't care. Don't think about it too much.

craiggy · 2015-08-20T08:53:07+00:00

Height does matter (I speak from experience as a 6'6 guy), but confidence is much more important. I ddin't get laid all throughout high school because I had no confidence. One I started carrying myself as a confident guy, I had much more success with women.

MGHOW_ATL · 2015-08-20T13:44:38+00:00

5'4" here, main problem is literally being overlooked and not being taken seriously.

Def a problem but not a stopper. >75% of pussy is unavailable to you off the bat. Gotta make yourself 6' tall at something (hobby, music, art, whatever) to get attention and respect (from men).

I've never been with a girl smaller than me, last ex was 5'9". It can be done. Tiny girls always want Giants for some reason.....

Key thing is not to focus on height -- if short is your worst problem you're doing GREAT! You could be in a wheelchair, have a terminal illness, be Quasimodo ugly, etc......think how much harder dating is when you can't even walk, and be glad that you have the options that you have.

Title	Repost Does height matter?
Author	shortymcshortstuff
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Comments	20
Date	August 19, 2015 1:30 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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