She falls in love quickly

Rhino3750ss · 2025-07-23T11:36:46+00:00

Tell her you are having serious financial issues and you have a genetic condition that makes you shorter and fatter over time.

IncognitoTap · 2025-07-23T11:54:35+00:00

It would be very careful. Love bombing at the beginning of the relationship could also mean you’re dealing with a narcissist or someone with daddy issues.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-07-23T11:55:53+00:00

Tell her "as fast as they come, they tend to go just as quick. Let's not rush this. "

molchat_doma · 2025-07-23T14:38:47+00:00

Yeah, that's mostly a sign that she doesn't have much control over her emotions. Also this situation is giving me a whiff of you're an avoidant and she's an anxious.

But! Also clarify: she seems like she's in love. Do you mean she gives you attention, flirts with you, etc. Etc. Or more? Could it be you're just icked by people genuinely like you? Prefer people not giving a fucc about you to a certain degree?

Are you not physically attracted to her or is she kinda dumb? Why is it a bit of a turn off?

Best thing you can do is be incredibly honest about WHO YOU ARE.

LeekTraditional · 2025-07-23T11:34:30+00:00

Great question (you'll probs find many people here can identify with this)... Honour yourself and your experience! Ask yourself how things make you feel and what you want. Many of us don't want to hurt or let the other person down so we go with it... Come back to yourself and do what is best for you! ;) good luck

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-07-23T11:53:59+00:00

Be a grown-up and use your words.

Have an open, honest, loving conversation.

Put these things on the table:

relationships: Are either of seeing anyone else? What are your relationships to relationships?
desires: What do you want? From each other? From sex? From relationships? From life?
expectations: What do you expect from each other?
boundaries: What are your boundaries in life? In relationships? In friendship? In sex?
meaning: What does the relationship mean to you? What meaning are you carrying into it?

The conversation doesn't have to be perfect. It doesn't have to be comfortable. It should certainly not be confrontational.

Discussing these things can enhance a situationship, FWBship, conventional marriage or unconventional relationship.

It can also end a relationship. Which is fine - because its better to discover fatal incompatibilities in a conversation rather than accidently in the wider arena.

So be an adult: take responsibility for your relationship and talk about it.

Hydroplanet · 2025-07-23T20:02:42+00:00

Talk to her duh

baby_oil773 · 2025-07-24T14:47:38+00:00

Have you fucked her

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-07-23T14:29:07+00:00

It's always harder to decelerate a relationship than accelerate. So if you've been texting her all day and seeing her 4x a week, it's going to be tough to go back or else she's going to think you're just bored of her now.

tonyferguson2021 · 2025-07-23T20:13:36+00:00

What do you mean by ‘what should I do?’

why do you need to ‘do something?’ 🤔

nevvasleep · 2025-07-24T01:46:38+00:00

tell her the truth. Definitely dont say it back. If she cant handle your truth the relationship is not gonna go anywhere.

mati23456 · 2025-07-23T12:24:05+00:00

Suffering from success

ivoryfaker · 2025-07-23T16:15:40+00:00

I’m like this a lot… 😅 one thing that will really help is for you to keep communication about it. Let her know! I think that your little obsession with me is so adorable but it’s also a little unhealthy and borderline creepy. If someone put it to me like this, I would have a much easier time receiving it.

Title	She falls in love quickly
Author	Round-Break9579
Upvotes	34
Comments	22
Date	July 23, 2025 11:24 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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