Stop asking what you should respond to a text

JacobLikesCookies · 2019-07-10T01:53:21+00:00

Just send the text and later on your brain will tell what you’ve should’ve texted.

VicksNyQuil · 2019-07-09T17:03:51+00:00

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gargola24 · 2019-07-09T22:40:26+00:00

What do you mean with tease?

2019-07-09T23:56:51+00:00

I enjoy answering other people’s text lol

smoothmax · 2019-07-09T21:45:59+00:00

It isn't just the questions about "what should I reply to this text"

It's ALL the one-itis posts. Seems like about 1/2 of all topics here begin, "this girl in my class" or "this girl at work". I wouldn't care except I think that a lot of more interesting and helpful topics end up buried.

You should be spinning lots of plates. If you get stymied or make a mistake with one girl, make a note of it (literally), write down some of the things you could have done better, and fix it in the next interaction with another girl.

If you really have to know what to do next with some particular girl, just tell her, "Ahhh sorry I don't know what I'm doing [smiley face]" if there actually is any hope for you she'll forgive you and make it easier for you.

psychedelicOm · 2019-07-09T16:53:52+00:00

Solid advice.

beans1717 · 2019-07-09T17:01:19+00:00

say it louder for the people in the back

quinnmcd · 2019-07-09T17:34:59+00:00

Can someone send a notification out to the guys that keep asking?

Redditaspropaganda · 2019-07-09T23:45:06+00:00

Be playful, tease and don't take interactions too seriously;

This only this except to your entire life.

Unless you risk life and death or loss of home and financial security then nothing is that serious in our society. You'll get over it. People laughed at you? You'll get over it. Afraid of looking stupid? Look at our president, I doubt it matters at all.

NeverWasACloudyDay · 2019-07-10T14:09:30+00:00

It's a good point, or worse... they fall in love with the words that aren't yours.

_Rather_Confused · 2019-07-09T20:28:01+00:00

Honestly this is a shitpost, all you are responding to is the frequency you see people ask for advice. But it isnt the same people asking, so you dont know their progress after taking off their training wheels.

Second, not all men have time to hone their skills at picking up women. Some of them are living lives but still want a GF. They want a few canned tricks to move into meeting the girl.

The fact is that you arnt investing time into what you should be so you instead waste time bitching about something that doesnt concern you. So go invest time in that.

getchased · 2019-07-09T23:53:50+00:00

Epic post bro

GrislyGrape · 2019-07-09T21:19:39+00:00

My favorite thing to do is ask the person I'm texting how I should best answer the question. They find it really mature and attractive. It shows that you're willing to communicate!

BonvivantNamedDom · 2019-07-10T03:38:45+00:00

Why do you think youre so much better than others? Dont be so arrogant and help people if you know so much. Seriously.

The advice you gave was basically the equivalent to "Just be yourself". Youre a joke.

cocoa_eh · 2019-07-10T05:49:01+00:00

This times 100! I’ve learned the hard way that asking people to write out my responses is just a recipe for disaster. Eventually it gets to the point where the responses become stuff I would never really say, and then I struggle between trying to truly be myself and the person that I’ve allowed the guy to perceive me as.

TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-07-10T06:55:15+00:00

If women were not so flaky, men wouldn't have to ask for advice on how to respond to a text...

Bobandjim12602 · 2019-07-10T00:56:39+00:00

Okay, but then how should I respond to this post?

XD

Kiingog · 2019-07-10T08:23:40+00:00

One thing I remember when I find myself doing this is usually my end game result is to fuck them so it doesn’t really matter in the end if it’s gonna happen it will. However doesn’t mean just say anything still have to be somewhat civil. Sometimes I find myself asking this how to reply and just over complicate things keep it simple.

KND_DNK · 2019-07-10T10:43:26+00:00

Easier said than done, especially when you don’t know how to tease/flirt well

JWPapi · 2019-07-10T11:26:35+00:00

If in doubt don't reply

MLoggins311991 · 2019-07-10T16:09:29+00:00

None of that helps anything, be playful? That’s entirely based on attraction level. If you’re ugly as fuck and you try to tease she’s just gonna fire back with personal insults to get you the fuck away from her. Not investing? That’s the basic concept of conversations, you don’t randomly talk to people just because. You do it to build towards something. That’s the literal definition of investing.

Title	Stop asking what you should respond to a text
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	352
Comments	45
Date	July 9, 2019 4:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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