Are you going to spend the rest of your life begging other guys to answer for yourself or are you going to learn how to deal with people like everyone else does? Go by experience, if it works there's not much to learn - if it doesn't, then you already know what you should not be doing.

But for the really lazy and insecure guys out there struggling with even gathering some experience, I'll leave you with a few basic concepts:

- Be playful, tease and don't take interactions too seriously;

- Don't invest too much on the other person;

- Don't try hard to make others like you.

That's it. Do something by yourself for fks sake

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Edit (10/07/2019): Some of you guys seem really butthurt in regards to my post. What you don't seem to realize is that I didn't wrote this because it bothers me that people ask for advice, actually you may have seen me in other posts handing out my opinion and advice - even when people ask about what they should respond to a text.

What I'm trying to accomplish with this post is to provide a basis for why we should all aim to seek our own answers and confront any doubts we're facing without the need to be dependent on others. It's a really bad habit that won't help you build any self-confidence and life experience because you're cultivating that necessity to rely on others so you can work your way around an interaction. How will it go when you do really well on text and then meet up for a date? Will you tell her to wait for 20min every time she asks you a question so you can write a post on Seddit and see how you should handle yourself?

You are really underestimating your own value by not trying to figure it out for yourself and you're also underestimating a woman's value and intuition because she will see right through your acting when you both get together and you behave like an insecure guy as opposed to that confident man portrayed while texting. That's an instant rejection right there. The way you cultivate your confidence is by taking action, do it by yourself and stop relying on others so you can live your own damn life. Who cares if you get rejected? That's part of our existence, live and learn with your mistakes because the next time you talk to a girl it will become easier.

Cheers