At the ancient age of 47, I've had substantial time to figure out some things.

One of the biggest mistakes men make with seduction, is TEXTING.

Texting is passive and avoids confrontation (lots of undesirable, unmanly adjectives we can use here).

Texting should be used for the following only:

  • When thoughts come very randomly, and you are in intermittent 3-second communiques with someone, and phone is wasteful time.
  • When you want documentation for specific reasons (like business).
  • When you don't want to get trapped on 1-hour phone call with a friend who never shuts up.
  • #4 I forget, but it will come eventually, and I will re-post.

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Trussssst me guys......

Women DO NOT respect guys who text. Be a man. Be direct. Call her. Be fun. Be cordial. Set the pace. LEAD HER. She wants you to lead. Don't play silly texting goofiness, while trying to scheme. You guarantee yourself "friend zone". Or worse, she sees you as lesser than beta male (with serious consequences to ensue).

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Exception to the rule: IF you have already had sex with a woman, THEN TEXTING IS FINE.

I don't mean previous kissing, or groping. I mean break bread, seal the deal, done and done.

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Texting before sex, is avoiding direct confrontation, and making you less than manly.

It's using the path of least resistance to hope for best outcomes.

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AMENDMENT TO ORIGINAL POST:

Texting is ok as a starting point, a teaser, an enhancer.

The problem is that it quickly becomes a crutch.

Poster "NotEvenLegit" makes the best points on this, below.