Taking a brake from this sub

Visualize_ · 2018-05-23T17:31:39+00:00

Maybe you are taking too much information and trying to apply them all at once and you create this internal checklist that you keep trying to satisfy which makes the conversation seem kind of ingenuine. Just focus on one thing at a time to improve on in conversations and it could be just simply reflecting at the end rather than worrying if you are applying it correctly in the moment

throwawaybeginner · 2018-05-23T19:04:50+00:00

That's a good idea, most of the people in this sub don't approach at all. then again I think that's the case with most pickup forums.

minicheff · 2018-05-23T21:56:51+00:00

See you tomorrow.

areyoureadyplayerone · 2018-05-23T18:54:34+00:00

Yep I try to only read things that actually benefit me and dump everything else. I am the type to just wing things though.

ImJustSo · 2018-05-23T19:27:25+00:00

Getting out there and talking to girls is like.....the most repeated advice around here. So I'm glad you've decided to listen finally.

secrecypuzzle · 2018-05-23T19:36:05+00:00

The biggest issue is probably the CONFLICTING advice from supposed experts. It's a headfukk!

At the moment, I second guess every single word that comes out of my mouth lol.

Scared of being direct (wrong according to the pickup blog I read), scared of going in indirect (wrong according to most of this sub), not sure what to talk about because I read on here that I should never ask her name/age/location/job questions/questions about her night etc for at least an hour, or any question that could be boring etc etc. Feels like an unpassable test lol

plowzedong · 2018-05-24T10:42:23+00:00

Another seddit success story

Strike48 · 2018-05-25T03:45:41+00:00

Take a break man! It does wonders. For example: I left this place for a year without taking a single peek and that year was the best year for my game. You develop yourself. Just make sure you continue improving yourself and putting yourself out there. Nothing beats experience and self discovery.

LimitedContributor · 2018-05-23T19:52:25+00:00

Its like, every women you approach, they'd know you constantly lurk through the seddit sub. I only really just read selectively that can be interesting reads.

I'm actually out there approaching.

hazzinator · 2018-05-23T21:55:40+00:00

Just be yourself and be totally comfortable with it. If you're personality isn't that of a pick-up artist, or you feel it doesn't vibe with you, then don't do it. Seriously, you'll just feel fake and they'll be able to sense that. Just be a normal person with normal dreams and aspirations. Be you. Don't forget to get out there though! You do need to meet girls at some point. Join clubs and pick up hobbies, it doesn't have to be cold approach pickup if that's not what you want.

Mach2Machiavellian · 2018-05-24T02:50:38+00:00

As with any skill, the only path to eventual mastery is learning the “rules” inside and out... then throwing them out and acting on intuition.

-SADGIRL- · 2018-05-24T07:35:28+00:00

Good, take a break. Self improvement is self improvement, not puppet mastery.

When you’re ready for more guidance the sub will still be here. But you ain’t learning if you’re not applying yourself solo to that learning process at all.

judahman8 · 2018-05-27T07:47:24+00:00

I try to practice one thing at a time. Ill go out and practice just opening until I master it and i have my favorite opener and 2 back ups.

Then I open and practice my hook until I master a few different ways of hooking a girl. I do this with every step until I have mastered them all form open to full close.

It only took me 2 weeks to have a solid foundation of knowing instinctively what to do every step of the way. Then I try a new technique and another and another.

Now I basically mastered every scenario I could think of and when I go sarging its pure fun because I drilled everything into my head so well I dont have to think. I just know what to do.

I think guys get to caught up in trying to do touch much to quickly. So they ho out and they are trying to actively think about so much shit at once. If ypj have to think about how to open a girl then think only about opening girls until you no longer have to think before moving onto the next step.

Firean · 2018-05-24T05:35:42+00:00

I'd rather you didn't take the brakes from my car or anybody else's in this sub

Title	Taking a brake from this sub
Author	Jester_Clique
Upvotes	25
Comments	15
Date	May 23, 2018 4:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8lkvog/taking_a_brake_from_this_sub/
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