So let me give you some back ground. I'm a fairly attractive, built, and smart kid. Some people really like me some don't. Usually I tend to see social dynamics in things. Such as when I see the male who everyone respects and doesn't fuck with and they guy who everyone picks on and is a personal punching bag for the group.
So the story goes... Me and a few friends lets call them Leroy, Ryan, Matt, Mikal, Eric, and your truly me.
Leroy: good friend, recently started being giant dick to me to show he is of higher value. but is still very awkward in public
Ryan: pretty athletic skater kid but dumb and i consider annoying because he always tries to get attention and sometimes puts me down for it.
Matt: meh dont care
Mikal: kid from another town ive met a few times. has a lot of bud. genuinely nice
Eric: Good friend. Known for a while. at first was AFC and recently he is a lot more popular with the ladies and dudes and is just much cooler as time goes on.
So we all go over to Mikals house to smoke weed. We all are at the table and Eric makes a blunt. I throw down some bucks because Ive been getting the sense that im mooching off peoples weed.(kinda am) then me and Eric are fixing Mikals broken bubbler with duct tape and Ryan leans over and says "no, let me do it! your so uncoordinated (kinda am) your just gonna screw it up" I just kinda make "derp herp derp" sounds while he talks. We finish it and then we go out to smoke. While were smoking passing the blunt my turn comes to ash it but im not too sure how to ash it since i dont smoke blunts or cigars so i just hit it on the edge of the ash tray. and ryan adds "dude you dont even know how to ash blah blah shit talk" and this goes on constantly like whenever he can he starts shit talking me and i can generally beat the shit out of him but i try to stay non-violent.
Now the deal with Leroy. He's a legit AFC he can't get girls. gets angry a lot (recently at me). I feel like the only reason he has social proof is because he smokes people up a lot. He used to be nice and generally a cool kid but now hes just becoming a dick. When the tables are turned in other situations Im typically still nice but when he gets the upper hand he tries to put me down to make himself look good. It gets really really annoying. He also denied me eye drops because he said i should have brought my own. fucking a man.
SO seddit. This is where my questions come up. How do i stop being a freaking punching bag for these two clowns and get on top of them (no homo). I hate getting confrontational because i just get awkward. but what would you guys do?
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