I (22 F) have never been with a man sexually. I have but it was quick sad excuses for sex. I was with females for a majority of my life. I am now trying to be in a relationship with a 21y/o male & am having trouble seducing and connecting with him. I don’t know how to come on to him or make it clear that I want him. I’ve always had trouble expressing and it’s a little weird for me to have to do it and i’m struggling. Can anyone help me ?

Edit: We have already been having sex, we’re trying to work on my expression and stuff before we get into a relationship because the lack of expression leads to lack of connection which leads to frustration in the bedroom. He’s very patient and kind & is teaching me all he can in this aspect of things, but i’m also trying to teach myself. I’ve never been with a man before, so this is all new to me, dirty talking and stuff like that is all new. I’m the introverted extrovert, i’m very hands on and compliment him and how he looks all the time. I just need to also be consistent when i start expressing, sometimes i can express one day and shut down the next. i’m trying for us to have a good thing.