Tyler's System For Ultra High Consistency

Squand · 2013-01-31T18:11:24+00:00

So, for those that don't want to watch the video

be present
be really into your process (find a process you enjoy)
enjoy the road to get good at the process

side tip: don't get value from the girl's validation. That's what creates the lows of rejection. Your spike of adrenaline should come from the process.

tl:dr "Enjoy the road more than the destination"

I think the ideas presented in the talk about the validation spiral are smart/interesting. That has totally happened to me, particularly with online dating and social media interaction. If I don't get a message for a couple of hours it can be like..."Why aren't people thinking about me?!"

Hello-Universe · 2013-01-31T20:31:07+00:00

I think this is a lot of what most people want to become, but the problem is becoming it. He explains what it is, and he explains what it feels like, but I'm not sure it's as easy as that. He has been practicing this for years and he actually enjoys the process. For me, the process is agonizing. It seems so artificial. Why have game? Why is everything so sophisticated these days? It's all too tricky for me to really invest that much energy into. Hopefully I just meet the right girl one day and not have to worry about having game all the time.

Sangria_and_Soccer · 2013-01-31T19:51:17+00:00

While I personally do not go after girls who have boyfriends, I remember someone somewhere once said 'keep your morality at the door' when on Seddit. It is beyond me that people are focusing solely on that clip rather than the actual video itself. Stay bad at this then, that means less competition for the rest of the gents.

magicroot75 · 2013-02-01T03:11:05+00:00

I want way more infield. I've heard every quip of wisdom in the book. Listened to all of Foundations and The BluePrint. I've read every damn manual I could get my hands on. It's all great (well, most of it). But seeing this shit in practice via in-field videos is even more powerful and its not something we see enough of.

Squand · 2013-01-31T13:46:45+00:00

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PhiLLyinDaLLaS · 2013-01-31T17:50:42+00:00

Saw him in Dallas and it looks like a lot of this was recorded there. He touched on most of this during the RSD Free Tour. If anyone gets a chance, I suggest checking it out. Free and an interesting couple of hours.

paki123 · 2013-02-01T13:58:34+00:00

Holy shit, the video isn't even about pulling chicks with BFs... but you fuckin white knights will find anything to pick at...

rasputin724 · 2013-01-31T18:01:51+00:00

I'm in there middle here. I will still try to attract a girl who has a bf. I don't known him. Its not my fault she met him before me. That doesn't disqualify me. But I would only go so far as making out before requiring that she drop her bf. I think that it would be fucked to have sex if she has a bf that's not okay with it. Plus it would disqualify her in my mind as a potential gf. If you cheat once you'll cheat again.

However I have actually gotten with a married woman before... I'm not sure how I feel about it. It was in Vegas. And she's the one who really pushed for it. She told me she was in an open relationship. And boning a hot woman 10 years my senior with a great ass in Vegas was not something I was going to pass on. She also kept her wedding ring on while we were going at it which was odd. What would you guys do in that situation?

SwissPUA · 2013-02-01T02:07:05+00:00

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ejpusa · 2013-01-31T17:03:51+00:00

You do not go after chicks that have BFs. You can of course, but Karma is a bitch. Really. 100%. Not 99.9% but 100%. Ignore at your our risk. Just a tip.

But everyone needs to learn I guess.

gabriot · 2013-01-31T21:08:05+00:00

I don't even have to read the comments and I can predict hate on Tyler.

You guys ever think girls bullshit "I have a boyfriend' line every single time at a club?

I've heard it several times and only dug a little further to found out they were lying, and got their number any ways.

Stop being so one sided, Owen is doing this for us, not him.

Mr-Metaphor · 2013-01-31T15:24:08+00:00

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atomedge · 2013-02-01T00:05:39+00:00

That dude is cool, until that girl's boyfriend kicks the living fuck out of him and curb stomps his ass lol.

ihopethispcworks · 2013-02-01T00:26:57+00:00

Ok. Question. Wtf

ok

what is the difference between seeking validation from others (like when he says "chillin with my buds just talking . . . girls where are the girls i need validation") and when I just naturally like talking to girls because I like girls a lot.

I'm confused

Title	Tyler's System For Ultra High Consistency
Author	opique
Upvotes	153
Comments	106
Date	January 31, 2013 10:52 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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