What books methods programs youtube channels helped you most in terms of results ?

wowzaza · 2017-03-17T11:35:49+00:00

I only choose sources that are from well adjusted, emotionally healthy people who actually love women. Any bitterness or needy behavior (like complaining about feminism and focusing only on lay counts) I stay far away.

Girlschase.Com Blackdragonblog.com

**Models by Mark Manson** (highly recommend)

There are two guys with Facebook groups (David T and Heartist?) Who are good and healthy.

Stuff by thenaturallifestyles.com is okay too

Be careful out there. PUA stuff can warp a man's mind. Women are simple, this journey isn't about figuring them out, but figuring yourself out. Growing, healing, and aligning yourself with your authentic genuine self.

natephant · 2017-03-17T11:43:35+00:00

Oddly enough whenever I feel myself losing my edge I just re watch this commercial .

JusKeepinItReal · 2017-03-17T14:51:37+00:00

I like RSDjulian. A lot of his stuff that ive seen is higher quality than other people. The things he talks about are good to get girls but mostly about self improvment and living the life you want.

This video was my turning point: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w65qBE-5fWg&t=1847s

saxoriko · 2017-03-17T13:02:02+00:00

The Game, by Neill Strauss. Really fun written and easy to read. Written as a good story and not some boring summation of techniques.

t1mman · 2017-03-17T14:10:26+00:00

Please understand that flirting and chatting is a normal part of life. It a fun game that we play for the fun of it, doesn’t mean that if you flirt with a gal (or that if a gal flirts with you), either of you wants to end up f*cking your brains out. That’s why it’s called “gaming”. It’s supposed to be fun and taken lightly, just like you can play a game of football without trying to win the superbowl. Just like you can play a game of call of duty without wanting to compete in the world league, you can play a game and stop after.

So, flirting is fun, people do it to have fun. Sometimes you can escalate to something more but not all the time! (That’s why you need to ask non-verbal “question “, listen for the non-verbal answer and escalate your “questions”).

That being said, I do have a couple of books that helped me a lot. Here’s a list:

*The Emotional life of your Brain. Just remember this one lately, I think this book had the most impact of my understanding of how our brain works, and what we can all do to change our behavior and be the person we want to be. The concept of neuro-plasticity is at the core or many changes and the way it is explained helped me a lot.

*You are not your brain. This helped me understand a lot about my thoughts, about how we must disassociate with all the message that our brain sends us and that we should see it with a suggestion, not as the truth.

*The four Agreements. It is a system of values and understanding that helped my view of the world and my actions in this world.

*Models. Well, it is a well known book here, so I think no further explaining is needed

*No More Mr Nice Guy. (See above)

The “foundation” is there, if you want to persue further, I recommend looking at the work of Tony Robins and in the area of the science of persuasion and of behavioral science. I personally coastally read about those subjects, as well as many sphere of psychology. Might not be your cup of tea, it does help me to understand humans, and the differences in all of us as well as the common points.

chaosandmayhem · 2017-03-17T16:37:08+00:00

Primal Seduction by Steve Jabba, and his video product The Secret Society are probably the two best items on the market.

Nick Krauser's stuff is good for someone who focuses on daygame, like me.

I've personally gotten very little value out of most RSD/Mystery Method/etc. kind of stuff.

Radicalmattitude1 · 2017-03-17T18:08:04+00:00

I know that intermediate stage you're going through. It's so awesome that you want to push through it, cause honestly, most guys don't even get to that point, but when they do, they think that they're PU masters, and never get any better. The fact that you want to get even better means that you're willing to keep learning and growing.

Not that I think of myself as advanced, but I was sort of able to get past my intermediate stage by doing two general things:

Looking at game in the big picture of life
Forming my own personal philosophy on game

1.So instead of focusing on the individual women and the individual interactions, I started looking at general trends. What was my day like? How can I make my day even better? What happened this week? How can I string together several good days? What happens when I kill it for a month straight? What lifestyle changes do I need to make in the next few years to be even more attractive? That sort of thinking seems to integrate everything I know about game into my life. Things start to become natural. Before, when I was focussed on the individual interactions, I always felt like I was "turning game mode on". With long term thinking, you are always on. Weird shit starts happening like you always seem to know people when you go out. Girls will come up to you. People will invite you to awesome parties with hot girls everywhere. Girls will try to have threesomes with you or ask you to have sex with their friends.

Instead of subscribing to one system or company or whatever, I read as much as I could from as many different sources that I could. This is imperative because THERE IS A LOT OF BULLSHIT OUT THERE. I just took bits and pieces from here and there and only used what made sense to me(trying a few of the edgier ideas). Here's a little list of some sources that I found helpful:

Models - by Mark Manson ( his blog is alite too) RSD YouTube channel - Tyler specifically. He has a unique perspective on things being in the business for so long. Way of the superior man - by David Deida No more Mr. Nice guy - by Robert Glover How to Win friends and influence people - by Dale Carnegie (not exactly pickup but very good for people skills in general) Elliot Hulse YouTube channel - ( bioenergetics is the shit )

ILikeMultis · 2017-03-17T13:33:27+00:00

The Book of Pook

The Book of Pook and Mill

No More Mr. Nice Guy

Lazysaurus · 2017-03-17T16:31:48+00:00

No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover

If you have problems being assertive, being in control, and putting yourself first, start here. This is self improvement, not pickup, and its more important.

Models by Mark Manson

Different from all the other advice because it's real and it's long-term.

What Women Want in a Man by Bruce Bryans

This is a lot of the information in the above 2 books condensed and written very well. A great refresher if you start getting rusty.

letsgetrandy · 2017-03-17T16:37:13+00:00

David DeAngelo. Double Your Dating.

valorchata · 2017-03-17T17:34:58+00:00

girlschase.com + <<Models>> they go hand in hand. GC goes a ton in technical stuff like art of deepdiving and becoming conversationalist. Mindset stuff too. <<Models>> mostly Lifestyle & Happiness which is equally if not more important.

One book that is sales related <<The Power of a Positive No: How to Say No and Still Get to Yes>> Helped me tremendously in lifestyle, business and dating. Think about it, the person who is in the position to say NO actually is the person in power, ya? Not by doing it as means of game, but doing it out of principles will not only build your character/reputation and make you super attractive to women.

Ecurbnon · 2017-03-18T04:05:52+00:00

Everything Rsd Tyler

samuelpua · 2017-03-18T09:50:12+00:00

Thanks a lot to all of you guys for your advices... I ll check read learn every insight you gave me.... The thing is the improving process takes time and it needs groundedness to go further. I feel like I also have to spend more time on my personal passions. I mean I spend time on them but lastly I found myself spending more time on game. I think I have to find the perfect balance... But still I realy love game esspecially the moments which prove you that all you did was not for nothing = example shitty day it seems like nothing works and you just say hi to that girl who even seems bitchy but yoy say to yourself fuck it I ll do it anyway and when you open then BOOOOM she hooks instantly I realy love those moments fortunately it happens all the time... Anyways thanks

Woujo · 2017-03-17T13:07:14+00:00

Hate to brag, but http://www.woujo.com.

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