I'm pretty new to this whole thing, I see myself as not well socially calibrated and make mistakes all the time... But I get accused of being a player.

Sometimes it is the direct question or if they are more tactful their line of questioning makes it pretty clear. Usually I answer the question with a non sequitur which is pretty blatant.

How do you avoid putting off this vibe without acting like a bitch? because i'm not sure its helpful past the first lay. I know some love the whole player thing but there are plenty that don't for one reason or another. Isn't the point to get whatever girl you want?

EDIT** Awesome, thanks guys. Seddit is fuckin sweet