What's the difference between cute and hot and how can it effect your game?

nlyles1 · 2012-10-05T04:47:44+00:00

I got this a lot too when i was younger, and its because you probably come off as a really nice guy who would do anything for anyone. What i've realized from my experience is you have to show them you have a dark sexy side too as well as your typical nice guy self. Also work fast. Guys who come off as "hot" tend to have a longer shelf life whereas cute guys tend to get friendzoned if they dont make a move quick enough. A hot guy will always be fuckable, whereas a cute guy can be your best friend. As far as advantages use the "you're super cute" vibe as a positive motivator for yourself. If you can tell a girls interested you can go in free of doubt about escalating. you can use lines like "you think im cute dont you? mhmm. I think you're cute too, you should give me your number I'd love to take you out sometime" Also another benefit is girls arent expecting cute guys to be dominant sexually. So once you start kissing her, press her up against a wall, really squeeze her, be the big man in charge and dominate her. I've had girls stop me as i'm sliding into second base going "wow, i didnt think you were this hot, you're so fucking sexy" you've got that whole surprise factor man. Work it, it leaves girls begging for me feeling like they've caught the total package. a nice respectable guy who treats them well, but when they get home will rip her panties off and bend her over the side of the bed without a second thought. Hope that helps!

MidnightThunderboy · 2012-10-05T09:43:49+00:00

I used to be concerned about this as well, I'm as cute as a fucking button, apparently.

I stopped caring somewhere along the way. Its obviously an IOI, escalate.

just_me_in_a_tree · 2012-10-05T05:00:22+00:00

You can't really go wrong with a nice button up, nice slacks or dark jeans and a tie. My friend and I started dressing up like that when going out and the women loved it. You stand out from all the tight v-necks and plaid button ups that most (younger) guys wear.

iStoned · 2012-10-05T03:29:03+00:00

Try dressing nicer to get away from the casual kid look (button down shirt or polo with chinos). It really helped step my game up to the next level!

mehwter · 2012-10-05T14:29:00+00:00

I'm cute as fuck according to girls, but then again, I'm big and still get all the bitches :)

KeroKeroKeroppi · 2012-10-05T16:34:19+00:00

I get "adorable" and "cute" all the time, and I used to get hung up and worried about this. I mean who wants to fuck "adorable".

I was wrong. Now I own it. It's who I am so being consistent with that ends up creating a ton of attraction.

squarehouse · 2012-10-05T15:00:00+00:00

I imagine the difference is how masculine or feminine your face is. Hot is on the masculine side of the spectrum, cute is on the feminine side of the spectrum. As to what a specific HB says...it has more to do with her tastes than anything else.

janus_marine · 2012-10-05T15:25:26+00:00

I am told I am "cute" and "adorable" etc. I like it, I play into it. It's a different kind of attraction.

As far as what I view others as, "hotness" in the commercial sense does not turn me on. A girl that fits the bill as stereotypical hot girl, looks like she is an NFL cheerleader etc...doesn't do it for me.

"Cute" drives me up the wall. It's orginial, unique, often times a little silly or at least outgoing. This is attractive. When I see "hot bitches" all I can think of is this Louis CK bit-

http://youtu.be/I3yvSaU_ob4

Piraticalstyle · 2012-10-05T20:59:47+00:00

I'd be thrilled with 'you're really cute'. I've been getting "you're safe'' lately. THAT'S a game killer, right there.

noobercakes · 2012-10-05T07:38:56+00:00

Affect*, not effect.

To answer your question: everyone has their own opinion. Do you think you're hot? It depends on the social circumstance of when a girl says you are cute. Is it at a bar and you are talking 1 on 1? Is it 3 in the morning when everyone is blacked out and horned the fuck up? Is it out with a group of friends going to the movies and you trip over yourself?

Yes, you can use it to your advantage. I think 'you're cute' is better than 'you are ugly as sin'.

Title	What's the difference between cute and hot and how can it effect your game?
Author	throwawayface1
Upvotes	50
Comments	55
Date	October 5, 2012 3:19 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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