When flirting, should I send a clear signal or subtle signal?

Difficult-Pipe515 · 2022-07-07T19:06:44+00:00

Very clear! Males domain is directness and straight forwardness (but not crass) , leave subtleness to the girls.

Environmental_Cress2 · 2022-07-07T20:29:42+00:00

clear but not too strong. And don’t escalate without reciprocation

carlos1973633826 · 2022-07-07T20:19:56+00:00

Be clear just don’t do it over and over. Once you make it know that you like her the ball is in her court, if she likes you she will give you her number, become quiet, smile, ask you what your going to be doing, basically you will be able to tell if she likes you or not.

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-07-08T08:51:49+00:00

Reckon most the lads here going with clear/direct but be calibrated. Read her body language and comfort levels when your flirting with her.

Simp4Rukia · 2022-07-08T14:03:12+00:00

Don't go in with a goal of sending singles aim to make her day better just by having met you, than you can decide whether or not you'd want to see her again.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-07-08T02:40:47+00:00

Depends entirely on the girl and the interaction you’ve been having. You generally want it to be clear enough to trigger a response from her, and subtle enough to allow for both plausible deniability and for her to feel as though she has enough control over the way the interaction is going and will go.

distawest · 2022-07-08T07:52:34+00:00

A powerful signal, while neither looking desperate, nor excessively aggressive. Moreover, the signal must be sent parsimoniously, once or twice ... continuous signals degrade your status

epimpstyle · 2022-07-08T18:55:06+00:00

Forget about signals... Better focus to talk to girls and you will know when is the time to go forward...

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-07T19:57:59+00:00

It always has to be obvious that’s not the real question the question s whether she has earned it throughout the conversation you had with her.

Have you qualified her? Does she know what qualities she has that justify why you are flirting with her? Because that’s what matters. If you are just flirting because she is cute then she didn’t earn it and you are pretty much giving away your interest which is low value behaviour.

So, you need to go through the process of qualification, get her impress you, get her to prove her worth, get her to show off her traits and qualities that make her stand out from other girls, then tell her what qualities you appreciate from her and that’s when you can start to flirt shamelessly in a sexually suggestive way with her.

Initial-Laugh1442 · 2022-07-07T19:06:04+00:00

It has to be just right, and timed to perfection. Like baking a cake ...

Title	When flirting, should I send a clear signal or subtle signal?
Author	my-dating-throw-away
Upvotes	9
Comments	18
Date	July 7, 2022 6:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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