I (20M) have had trouble with girls since I can remember. Anxiety, self-doubt, feelings of inferiority have wrought havoc on my ability to pick up any girl. I’m currently a sophomore in college, in a frat, with plenty of friends and a known presence around campus. Today after a darty in the snow, a cute girl on the soccer team who I had been chatting with at the party ended up in our frat house. She and I talked for a solid hour about life and decided to order Chinese food. Standing on the steps waiting for the food, I said β€œI think we have a class together” to which she responded by listing off her classes. β€œNo, not any of those... we’re in β€˜I want to kiss you in the snow 101 with Professor Cupid’” and we kissed. Absurd but it worked, and it’s nice to prove to yourself that with a little pizzazz and good timing, good things can happen!