[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/20/13

YamiGigaPhil · 2013-09-20T17:45:55+00:00

The problem with me is when I get the number, I get kinda excited that I've got a number and start to feel like I'm clingy or desperate. And I've heard about the wait 2 days rule. Whats the best thing do after you've got a number.

Another thing is when I'm texting sometimes, girls won't make any effort to continue conversations, I've had a few numbers that just phased out because I got bored of them not continuing conversations or asking questions, what do?

nofap_ambassador · 2013-09-20T17:48:50+00:00

A few weeks (or months) ago there was a great post with examples about talking dirty to women and how it should be directed at their emotions or something like that. Searching is turning up nothing though; does anyone remember this post or am I crazy?

bl1y · 2013-09-20T20:13:31+00:00

So you have one of those girls that has a habit of being sociable alone but with friends is standoff. Logical solution is talk to others right away instead. However, I gain a satisfaction with challenges. Best way? In college and I encounter some people like that.

rams_man13 · 2013-09-20T22:00:44+00:00

Went out with a girl last night, met online, texted briefly, went to a bar, two rounds, talked and had a pretty solid conversation, had her laughing, playing with her hair, left the bar, kissed 3 times, flirted some more and a hug.

Texted her this morning saying I had a good time, she said she did too. I mentioned I'm busy this weekend, but I'd like to see her again next week, she said she'd think about it. I'm assuming this was too soon, over confidence after a good first date and turned off the game.

I guess I'm looking for a solution. Right now, my plan is to not talk to her for a couple days, call her randomly next week sometime, chat a bit, ask out again, ???, profit?

iwishtobeanonymoose · 2013-09-20T17:09:58+00:00

You've made your moves at the club, got her number, got a date: What are some fun date ideas besides the typical dinner & movie ideas?

gadelat · 2013-09-20T19:18:22+00:00

What to do when girl is clearly nervous at the date? She talks and gesticulates fast, laughs at her unfunny jokes and watches your reaction on this. What are you supposed to do? If you are not getting any of it but try to be polite by pretending you like it, she will notice fake smiles or non-genuine reactions, plus it seems you lose your calm frame and get eventually suck into her nervousness.

Throwawaypokerplay · 2013-09-21T00:04:17+00:00

What are some techniques for a guy that does not touch people he talks to very often to start getting comfortable with kino?

Throwawaypokerplay · 2013-09-21T00:45:27+00:00

How do you approach a girl at work without coming off creepy?

CapAWESOMEst · 2013-09-21T00:57:10+00:00

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Seddit_b1ood · 2013-09-21T21:05:29+00:00

Can someone define all the terms used here for me? Like shit test? I can't think of any other examples but if its an uncommon term please define it!

RealPharaoh · 2013-09-22T02:29:43+00:00

I see a lot about opening a group of 3 girls with the intention of getting one. You have to build the support of the other 2 and you get on their good side. How do you do this? Do you compliment them or what?

bl1y · 2013-09-22T04:41:13+00:00

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SibLiant · 2013-09-22T10:28:36+00:00

Can you guys list your favorite books please. I just finished Models and it was inspiring. I want more.

bl1y · 2013-09-22T14:15:13+00:00

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austinbayarea · 2013-09-22T21:27:58+00:00

I'm going to this girls place later today and we're going to take an online test for biology. How to I make a move here? I'm going over to her apartment, and was thinking about asking her to get a burrito afterwards. How do I make it apparent what I want? I'd be down to start a relationship or hook up with this girl, but if she doesn't feel the same way I want to keep her as a friend because she is smart and sexy. Help me out seddit.

asad16 · 2013-09-20T21:49:56+00:00

Logistics to my house are not possible at this point. How do I push for going to her place?

iamanonymous1234 · 2013-09-21T14:40:49+00:00

I am 25m never had a girlfriend. Don't have too many friends who are girls either. In short, big time newbie.
I see this girl on the train staring at me and when she gets off at the platform she doesn't move her eyes away. I have to approach her, but I don't know how. With so many people around and never approached a girl I will get terribly nervous!

Egodude · 2013-09-21T15:13:45+00:00

Got a girls number in my class and she added me on Facebook(is that a good sign?) and was planning go to lunch and then the zoo or something for a first date, sound good?

snowawayaccount · 2013-09-21T16:53:00+00:00

I finally had mojo. I was getting girls left and right. College went on break and I was stuck at home with my quarreling left and right and have extreme marital problems. I had sex with one of my best friends who was in a relationship. I caught feelings for another one of my best friends and put a kink in the relationship. Now I'm in a rut and haven't had sex in a while, which is fine, but what's not fine is that I've lost my "don't give a fuckedness" and my confidence and all that shit. That, and now I'm way more openly eager and I will break frame when a girl that I'm attracted to starts hitting me. I'm told that I'm very hot, but for some reason my confidence doesn't match it, a) because I haven't always been this attractive (this is new to me) b) I'm more invested in others' acceptance because my college relies on cliques for a social scene and I transferred in, so I don't have that social group camaraderie other that with my roommates who are all from my home town. But recently I've just ditched the notion that I'll be able to make close friends with anyone that I haven't already through effort or that I'll be able to find myself in a social group.

I guess what I'm trying to ask is: what do I do to get my mojo back? will it come back? have people experienced this before?

bl1y · 2013-09-21T17:55:51+00:00

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HappyJerk · 2013-09-21T20:04:28+00:00

You had a date and it went well. How do you plan the next date? Do you plan it during your first date or do you text her the next day and try to set something up?

bl1y · 2013-09-21T23:14:30+00:00

Best way to go back to a girls place from a bar/club? My place just won't do.

Talki · 2013-09-21T23:58:11+00:00

I've gotten accustomed to getting numbers and inviting girls to places, and on a couple occasions I've gotten girls to my apartment. My question is when a girl is at your place, what's a good way to transition to sex? Just the kino escalation ladder? Any tricks or things to say?

utaway · 2013-09-22T15:11:18+00:00

At a club with some teammates and only planned to have a good time with my boys. Started dancing in a small group, spun a girl around and she proceeded to grind on my leg. As stupid as this sounds, is that enough of an IOI to try to go for the k-close? I couldn't, for personal reasons, but just curious in the case this comes up when I actually try to game. There was one other time a girl was dancing with me and she said afterwards she wasnt down to hook up that night, so just a question I was wondering. Ended up just getting that girl's name afterwards since I wasn't planning to escalate

bl1y · 2013-09-22T21:01:10+00:00

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callmewestern · 2013-09-23T02:27:21+00:00

I had sex with a girl who had a boyfriend on Friday. Is it worth, or even possible, pursuing another sex session or should I just move on? How would I go about fucking her again?

4eva · 2013-09-23T05:11:54+00:00

I'm in an two different situations. I'm only 17 an I like one of my best friends, she's cute and down to earth, and very into social equality, which I think is super cool.. She likes another guy and they hang out but aren't really dating because of different views on politics and family. I'm not sure what to do an how to get her to notice me as more than friends.

In the other situation I like this girl who is really cute and kinda quirky. I had recently hung out with her at our school's dance, and we danced/grinded for a bit but she doesn't really know me too well and me and another friend both like her. I don't talk to her much either so I feel like it's really hard to approach her. At one point in the dance I tried approaching to talk to her but she kinda walked of after I finished talking.

Any help seddit?

tournique · 2013-09-23T09:21:06+00:00

I always have a problem with kclosing... What can I do to get across this anxiety? I build up tension, attraction, I see IoI's but I clearly cannot get myself to do that. After the first kiss, I have no problem getting fclose...But the kiss, the kiss is the huge bump in the road for me

NaturalAFC · 2013-09-23T10:24:55+00:00

A lot of girls I have been taking home have given me the "I don't usually do this" line and mention feeling slutty/judged (fucking social norms). It doesn't seem to ease their worries when I tell them that it is fine and I don't judge. How do I let them know that I genuinely don't think any less of them for coming home with me? This is usually the next morn, not LMR.

ElCidVargas · 2013-09-21T00:52:24+00:00

I don't have a large social group in college. I will have to wait until spring to join a fraternity. Until then is it all right for me to approach women or should I avoid this? The most success I've had is talking to women who are by themselves.

bl1y · 2013-09-21T11:18:30+00:00

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Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/20/13
Author	SedditModTeam
Upvotes	26
Comments	118
Date	September 20, 2013 4:51 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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