33M, know i’m getting divorced soon. But I feel my life is over and can’t do it. My wife isn’t right for me, our marriage makes me miserable. I find it hard to be around her sometimes.

But I feel no one will want me ever again. I have no kids, no debt, a very cool career that I love. Also very fit, but I’m on the shorter end (5’6). Live near a large city.

My plan when things end soon is to move into a motel and from there an apartment in the city, and just hang in there. Run everyday, lift, and give it some time before i put myself out there again.

But now I really understand myself and know what I want in a partner. But I feel very hopeless right now. I feel I will inevitably lower my standards and ignore red flags again or be alone forever. My life just feels over but at the same time it feels like a reset.

Tl;dr getting divorced soon, feeling depressed