She has already filed for divorce, I’m waiting on the paperwork and to speak with an attorney, I’ve accepted this fact and just want to coexist for our son until I am not in this house, but… This weekend: Friday we discuss who will have our son and when, that goes well, then onto the money. That doesn’t go as well due to the fact she is trying to take so much. We argue, I live for a couple hours to cool down, and then return home. While back home we barely speak two words to each other for about three hours or so. We put our son to bed and I start to play a movie, while on the lower level of the house she yells up, “Your going to watch the movie without me, and your not going to come out to the garage to vape while I smoke” and then proceeds to slam the door. I follow into the garage where I minor argument ensues and I just apologize and say I was being inconsiderate.

Saturday morning was semi normal. It wasn’t until late morning when I asked her if she would be working from home the rest of the day in the office, in which she replied she would be. I told her I would bring our son bowling while she worked to get us both out of the house. After speaking with our son about going bowling I asked if he wanted to get some lunch. I came down from speaking with him and let her know we would be getting lunch while we were out. Her tone had changed and I asked if I did something, to my surprise, I did. She asked where we were going for lunch, which we had to determined yet. She asked If I was going to ask her if she wanted lunch and what she would like. She also let me know that choosing to go bowling with our son while she was working was inconsiderate as she had sacrificed her time yesterday to have a talk with me, and now she will miss out on bowling. I offered to go at a later time, but she was of no interest at this point.

After bowling and being home for a couple hours it was about dinner time. I asked what she planned on having as I did not intend on cooking and was thinking about KFC. While talking with her in regards to KFC she was also in the on the phone with a friend of hers and smoking in the garage. During this time she was very verbally playful with me and she was getting very high. I told her to just text me as I was just going to head to KFC and did not want to wait any longer. Fast forward, we are all at the dinner table eating dinner, the tone is quiet, and she starts talking about how soon after our AirBNB guest leave (Christmas morning) will I be out of the house. This brought a little bit of a damper to my dinner. I answered her questions as she asked them. I mentioned having to get and clean the sheets from the AirBNB first and I could do that on Christmas when me and our son went to my families Christmas dinner as they live in a unit under the AirBNB. About an hour later she came down and told me she left the dinner table crying due to me and my comments. I was taken back and asked which comment she was referring to. When I said that myself and my son are going to my families Christmas dinner and I did not include her. She should have been included.

This is a woman who has missed countless holiday dinners for varies reasons and now we are separating she is upset that I did not expect her to come, when she wants me out of the house the following day or shortly after.

I feel like I’m loosing my mind.