I (42F) have been going out with a guy (39) for a few months now. A couple of weeks into knowing each other, we went down on each other one night. But that’s all that has happened before or since. I have a very high libido; however, he’s said he doesn’t want sex in any form. He said he’s been with his share of women and he’s just not interested anymore. Says he’s very attracted to me though and it COULD happen in the future. He definitely has depression so I’m sure that’s a factor.

I like him a lot and I don’t want to press anything. We truly are compatible in every other way and have so much fun together. I also feel like a jerk if this is the reason I break up with somebody. However, I also don’t like being with somebody that doesn’t want me. Any advice? I sometimes wonder if he’s just stringing me along. I haven’t dated much and have no other guys knocking down my door. It’s nice to have somebody to do stuff with. But frustrating that he doesn’t want me in every way like I want him.