FDS please help me out here. Pleas call me out if I am being unreasonable here.

So first off I want to say that I am a 25f. And my bf (32m) we have been together a little over a year and a half. For the duration of the relationship he has paid for almost everything rent, food, ect. When I entered the relationship I told him that I was a student and that I was struggling to even support myself. I was super skeptic of even entering the relationship because I didn’t feel like I had much to offer. Him being a sales manager of a dealership took on the financial responsibility and let me know that he could take care of us. For a little bit I must say I did abuse this and took advantage by not working or contributing just going to school. I even fell into depression and dropped out of school. Needless to say I wasn’t doing anything for myself or us for a about a year. He didn’t start complaining about this until a year ago. I did finally get a minimum wage job at Amazon and tried to contribute with it but the job became toxic to work around and eventually I quit. I was out of a job for about 2 weeks until I found my recent job.

So I recently started working for a spa company as a receptionist here in Seattle a minimum wage job. On my way to work one day my car breaks down. It was already pretty old and had so much mileage on it so I wasn’t terribly surprised.

So I call my bf and he comes to pick me up and drive me to work. We leave the car at the gas station where I was able to drop it off. After work my bf picks me up from work, and I mention my car. He wines about it and says how shitty it is and how it’s not even worth picking up. I tell him I still want to try to get it home. So we go back and of course he has major attitude. We try to get it back home but only make it home half way and forced to leave it in a parking lot. Haven’t gotten it since btw.

So here I am now stuck with taking the bus, which I have no problem with. The weather has been great and I haven’t been stuck with having to walk in the dark or late by myself. My bf and I our schedules does not align to where he can drop me off and he works about an hour away. I have to leave out about an hour and a half to catch two buses to make it to work on time. I’m pretty fortunate to have good coworkers and friends that have given me rides from time to time. But I’ve accepted the situation.

Every time I mention finding a new car my bf says that he is looking but can not do anything until I have the funds. He is also expecting me to contribute with this new job. Also when I mention my safety he tells me that I am complaining, and that nothing is going to happen to me. Is it wrong of me to be upset for him not understanding how I am feeling and wanting more out of him as far as helping. Am I being unreasonable?