I notice that a lot of men sexually manipulate younger women by putting them on a false pedestal by praising them and making them feel superior to older women. One thing that’s really important to realize is that men will (and often times do) fuck anyone and anything.

I’ve seen so many girls who thought they were their man’s ideal be cheated on with someone they didn’t think was up to their standards. I feel like this is why you get women are so susceptible to being wrecked by a man. Because they are easily led to believe that their youth and sexuality is enough to keep a man faithful/hooked.

I’ve notice the clingiest/most insecure dating behavior from younger women. And I see why hostility is so prevalent amongst women now.

When I was in my early 20’s I had an older woman who I was close friends with that was like a mother figure to me. I would often talk to her about my experiences with men and she would guide me and give me advice. As she was basically married with a kid and out of the scene for a while now. I remember talking to her about all the guys who were flooding me with sexual attention and getting a big head about it. She humbled me really quick by telling me that “men will fuck anything.” At the time, I thought she was being spiteful. But it didn’t take me long to realize that she was telling the absolute truth. Not too long after that convo, we went to an outing together and the guy I liked began flirting with her in front of me. That’s when I learned the limits of youth and sex appeal. Painful and important lesson to learn, IMO.

I think men talk a lot of junk into younger women’s ear to separate them from older women so that they cannot get proper support and guidance, making them easy to manipulate. They divide them by creating this false sense of competition making younger women think that older women are jealous of them and younger women think they’re better than them.

Meanwhile, both parties are getting treated like trash lowkey. I’m in this awkward middle range where I’m not too young and not too old. And I’m starting to see things that I missed when I was young. But I also see that older women are definitely not bitter, jealous, “aged out” women either. I can’t tell you how many men have “cougar” fantasies or brag about being intimate with an older women and knowing how to “please” her.

I just hope we can stop letting the male haze and the male hard on dictate our self esteem. If the sexual attention of a man is giving you self esteem, try getting on a subway and seeing how many other people can and will catch his attention in a short time span. The male gaze is nothing special. Please don’t let that dictate your sense of self worth and especially.. how you treat other women 👯‍♀️✨