"just treat women as human beings" carries with it a puritanical implication that there there is something disturbingly inhuman if you happen to see a woman in a sexual way --

-- and while we're programing men into docile little gentlemen women themselves will reject a platonic guy friend from becoming a potential lover or fwb depending whenever or or not he has the thing that makes him the object of her sexual desire.

all the women who use tinder have no reason to complain over objectification either, you are participating on the most shallow/dehumanizing app in history which reduces people, living human beings, on the level of literal profile pics that either pass the fuckable treshold or not, an app where your romantic success is based on mostly looks and fuckability, where men and women objectify themselves in getting the sexual attention they want.

Just wow at this hypocrisy.