Beauty

Nerdslayer2 · 2025-04-05T19:15:18+00:00

Beauty is probably 80 to 90% of what men find attractive. Even if a woman doesn't pass the threshold for most men, she will almost certainly pass it for some men. Men are pretty good at settling for what they are actually able to get, and something is better than nothing. It's rare a woman is so unattractive she cannot find anybody to date. It's far more often the case that an unattractive woman is not willing to lower her standards to the level of men that are actually willing to date her.

Wife_and_Mama · 2025-04-05T19:43:37+00:00

Beauty is important. The internet is also not real life. Fat women fall in love and marry, as do women with big noses, weak chins, high foreheads, unsightly widows peaks, mole clusters, disproportionate hips, big ears, A cups, and scars. Work with what you have and don't squander your beauty, but life isn’t over for those who aren't classically gorgeous either.

mistressusa · 2025-04-05T17:50:28+00:00

>& that kidness and traditional mindset and femininity help only when you pass the treshold of beauty that is tolerable to the majority.

So 80% of women pass that threshold. That's why what we discuss here is so important.

Cosima_Fan_Tutte · 2025-04-06T03:07:49+00:00

Of course beauty is important, but... I dunno, where do you live? Is it a megapolis next door to a modeling agency? Is it online?

I'm being snarky, but I live in a Midwestern suburb and see a ton of very average looking women with husbands, families, normal lives. A local city hall used to post photos of couples who got married there and it was mostly homely Midwestern women with shlubby Midwestern men.

Where is is that only great beauties find love and commitment?

unefilleperdue · 2025-04-05T18:54:19+00:00

yeah I feel that this isn't very surprising

SailMeHomeTheseus · 2025-04-07T03:02:04+00:00

hey regardless of your nose, weight, hair, etc., a man who deserves your devotion will never make you feel ugly. Because according to studies, men tend to find the women they love to be the most beautiful, regardless of actual conventional attractiveness of said woman to other men.

Like absolutely, if you want a different nose, and you can afford it, I'd say go for it. But in case you can't, I don't know if the medical prize would be worth it?

Because comments & interactions you see on the internet are pretty surface level. For every girl that gets bullied for her pimples, a girl with big ears gets a hair-tie from her boyfriend. What I'm trying to say is, being attractive opens people more doors, and it's always good to try and strive to look like the best version of yourself, but a lot of it comes from the way you feel and present yourself. I mean, clothing, makeup, stride, confidence etc. Hype yourself up, you will automatically feel more and more like the person you wanna be

Don't look at people online, try to look at real faces in the real world. They have texture, pores, wrinkles, sun-damage, different shapes of eye-brows and noses and lips. I mean look at your women friends and family. Beauty has many faces!

Like we didn't have access to mirrors a few centuries ago, right? Now you're constantly seeing yourself and comparing yourself to others, and getting compared by others, its exhausting and all. Work out for yourself, do it for yourself and your own happiness

anywhizzle, I hope you're going to fall in love with yourself before a guy does

No-Ad8127 · 2025-04-05T22:48:18+00:00

I noticed that too. Ugly women simply aren’t worth catering to in men’s eyes. We always hear of men complaining about 304s. They’re not fooling anyone. Why focus on a group you dislike so much? Is it really because they’re promiscuous? Or is it because the women are hot and they won’t ever have access to them, and they know it and hate it?

OkKaleidoscope9696 · 2025-04-05T19:48:28+00:00

Yup. It’s important. Young women would be wise to focus on fitness and physical appearance in general so they are poised to find a good mate.

moonlitbutterfly117 · 2025-04-05T20:38:48+00:00

Yep…but the good news is, there’s no such thing as ugly, just lazy.

I used to want to change the system. Now, I just want to live as well as I can under it in my little corner of the world. It putting on a dress and a little makeup is how I get the things I want in life, then so be it.

I have a good man, so he likes to tell me that I don’t need makeup for him to find me beautiful. But I ALSO noticed him say once, that he wants people to look at us and say “how did HE get HER?!” Because people DO change their perception of a man with a certain caliber of woman on his arm. In a patriarchy, the company and attention of a beautiful woman is a status symbol.

He’s also admitted that one of the reasons things didn’t pan out with his last ex, was that he wasn’t that attracted to her. I have no doubts that he treats me REAL different. He chases me, treats me a like a little princess, is generous, and PROVIDES. Though I don’t think he’s directly conscious of why, it’s just hardwired into them.

Crazeyeyey · 2025-04-06T14:39:48+00:00

Tbh I am not sure what this subreddit is. Im not sure what red pill women mentality is. I am a man hopefully I dont get hated for posting here.

But I want to quickly give my opinion as a red pill man. I am attractive (been told that by many people) and I can say I would have no problem dating a woman who isn't you know a "smokeshow" or like a complete hottie.

It would matter 0 to me if a woman is less attractive than me.

However, having said that there comes other factors into play. Is the woman like you say nice or modest? Or is she all up in peoples faces / mean. Is she willing to meet her partner's needs as long as he is willing to meet hers? (talking in bedroom and outside of it.)

You see I have dated quite a few women. And sure the looks are not unimportant but you know what is very imporant? When the woman acts indifferent, cold, like she owns you. Now thats what matters.

Either way. You know what is the most important "beauty statistics" for men?
A) Not fat. Now this is just simply if a man is working hard for his body and trying hard with diet, gym etc. He definitely will not want a girl who is too lazy to put in the effort. Its about the mindset as much as looks.

B) She dresses / Her style is feminine. Look I mean I get it right. We all wear baggy hoodies or whatever at home. But if a man takes you out shows up in a nice shirt he would expect you to wear a skirt and be feminine with your style not show up in like baggy street style jeans which drag across the floor.

C) This will sum up all and everything. She simply takes care of herself and is not a mess.

Look. Men might care about beauty somewhat, but it doesn't mean that if you are not smoking hot you can't get attractive men. What men REALLY care about is femininity. Ive gone on many dates and some of those dates were with definitely how you would say "not too attractive women" and guess what? I absolutely adored those unattractive women way more than some hotties who were just all self absorbed. There was this one specific "unattractive" woman who I would have been willing to spend my life with. Sadly it was an issue with different countries and jobs and we just couldn't have made it work. Why? Because she was very feminine, she was modest and kind and exactly a dream for a guy. In bed she was amazing because she was very giving and so was I to her.

So please keep in mind I put all of the "unattractive" women in quotes because there is no such thing. All of you girls are gorgeous. I can guarantee that some of you who would think they are "ugly" are absolutely beautiful compared to the "baddie" at the bar. Because you are simply what a man dreams of.

So seriously, hot or "unattractive" you go queen. Treat him like a kind, act like a queen and I guarantee you 100% that he will recognize you as a queen. He will do everything you want to you. As long as you are feminine and you are true to your man.

AutoModerator · 2025-04-05T17:17:31+00:00

Title: Beauty

Author bobbyfischerchic

Full text: The most important thing for women. Nothing else compares. Just browsing the internet today and noticing what men say.

“She's got no say with that face” about a woman that says a man should know how to fix a broken tire. Thousands of men liked this comment, and multiple other ones that say the very similar thing.

“You did the right thing she looks like an angel” “she is too beautiful to be treated like that” when a man wanted to throw a snowball at his gf after she did the same to thing, but not doing so when he sees her sweet eyes and face looking at him.

& many more things like this.

It is probably more blackpill than rpw but still… if you aren’t beautiful you won’t get very far in life.

& that kidness and traditional mindset and femininity help only when you pass the treshold of beauty that is tolerable to the majority. If not, nothing you do really matters. you will never find someone just by being nice & modest.

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birkinsmuse · 2025-04-05T17:26:52+00:00

it’s true, but also i don’t this is the right subreddit for that

Far_Composer5984 · 2025-04-08T22:39:01+00:00

Beauty will get you into what some men call the "Sleeper" category, they will sleep with you but wont commit.

Beauty + Aligned values will get you into the "Keeper" category.

Beauty alone is just a golden ticket to sleazy/Manipulative/predatory men, who target pretty women, and the non-psychopathic men with more long term family building type values tend to avoid a woman who is pretty but has misaligned or nonexistent/fake values.

Attraction to physical beauty is a limbic thing, but to have an actual relationship it needs to service more than just limbic things.

& that kidness and traditional mindset and femininity help only when you pass the threshold of beauty that is tolerable to the majority. If not, nothing you do really matters. you will never find someone just by being nice & modest.

That sounds eerily like the incel talking point of "if im not over x height with x facial features and x amount of money its doomed with women"

I feel like talk along these lines is just that spiderman meme of them pointing at each other.

MoreThanPurple · 2025-04-09T19:17:25+00:00

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sunsista_ · 2025-04-07T12:13:30+00:00

Yup. Thats why I’m saving for ethnic rhinoplasty.

Average-drug-enjoyer · 2025-04-06T14:46:26+00:00

If I I could give you a piece of advice, if you consider your looks to be the most important thing for you, then you’re lowering your own value as a human by yourself. A grown adult has plenty more things to work on if they use their potential. If that’s not what you want to do then I guess you could just focus on beauty instead

Title	Beauty
Author	bobbyfischerchic
Upvotes	52
Comments	37
Date	April 5, 2025 5:17 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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